Adult bar and bat mitzvah

An adult bar/bat mitzvah is a bar or bat mitzvah of a person older than the customary age. Traditionally, a bar or bat mitzvah occurs at age 13 for boys and 12 for girls. Many adult Jews who have never had a bar or bat mitzvah, however, may choose to have one later in life, and many who have had one at the traditional age choose to have a second.[1] An adult bar or bat mitzvah can be held at any age after adulthood is reached and can be performed in a variety of ways.[2]

The adult and child bar/bat mitzvot differ in that the former is planned by the person becoming b' mitzvah and the latter by the child's community, caregiver, and/or parent. Due to it taking place at an advanced stage of life, many relatives who were present at a child's bar/bat mitzvah are often deceased, and the person is often married and/or has children and sometimes grandchildren. Many men have second bar mitzvot at age 83; representing 70 years since their first.[3]

Reasons

There are many reasons adult Jews choose to have a bar or bat mitzvah:

  • Many adult women do not have a bat mitzvah as children due to lack of popularity and/or restrictive gender norms.
  • Individuals with learning disabilities that made the process of preparing for their bar or bat mitzvah too difficult during childhood.
  • Adults who have converted to Judaism may want a bar or bat mitzvah.
  • Many non-religious Jews who had little or no Jewish education as children.
  • Those who have had a bar or bat mitzvah as children decide to undergo renewal.
  • Transgender Jews who had a bar or bat mitzvah as their gender assigned at birth may wish to have the other one as an adult using their new gender and name.
  • Many Holocaust survivors didn't have the opportunity to become a bar or bat mitzvah.

History

Rabbi Albert Axelrad of Brandeis University officiated the first adult bar and bat mitzvahs in the early 1970s. He encouraged the practice in all denominations of Judaism.[4]

Between 1995 and 2001, Hadassah held group adult Bat Mitzvah ceremonies for 180 women.[5]

In 2001, the Union for Reform Judaism created a guide on adult bar and bat mitzvah programs which was adopted by 900 congregations. In 2002, the Conservative Movement adopted this guide as well.[5]

Process

The process of becoming a bar or bat mitzvah for adults involves studying for a year or longer. It consists of Hebrew language, Jewish rituals, Torah readings, and Haftorah readings. Many synagogues provide classes for adults.

Notable adult bar and bat mitzvahs

In popular culture, there have been depictions of adult bar mitzvahs on TV shows:

References
  1. Marcus, I.G. (2013). The Jewish Life Cycle: rites of passage from biblical to modern times. University of Washington Press. p. 121. ISBN 9780295803920. Retrieved 2015-02-13.
  2. "Bar Mitzvah for an Adult? – Bar Mitzvah". chabad.org. Retrieved 2015-02-13.
  3. "Adult Bar Bat Mitzvah". My Jewish Learning. Retrieved 2015-02-13.
  4. "History of Adult Bar/Bat Mitzvah – My Jewish Learning". My Jewish Learning. Retrieved 2015-02-13.
  5. "Finding My Religion". The Boston Globe. Retrieved 2015-02-13.
  6. "Paula Abdul Celebrates Bat Mitzvah In Safed, Israel Known For Kabbalah (VIDEO)". HuffPost. 6 November 2013. Retrieved 2015-02-13.
  7. "No Western Wall bat mitzvah for Paula Abdul after all | Jewish Telegraphic Agency". Archived from the original on 2013-11-09. Retrieved 2015-02-13.
  8. "Armand Hammer Dead at 92 on Eve of His Bar Mitzvah | Jewish Telegraphic Agency". jta.org. 12 December 1990. Retrieved 2015-02-13.
  9. "World's oldest man, Yisrael Kristal, 113, to hold bar mitzvah". BBC News. 2016-09-15. Retrieved 2017-04-21.
  10. "World's oldest man marks bar mitzvah, 100 years late". The Times of Israel. Retrieved 2017-04-21.
  11. "She's Sarah Silverman's Sister — and Just Officiated Tiffany Haddish's Bat Mitzvah".
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