Emily Nagoski
Emily Nagoski (born 1977)[2] is an American sex educator and researcher, and author of the book Come as You Are.[3] She is the former director of wellness education at Smith College, where she teaches a course on women's sexuality.[4][5]
Emily Nagoski | |
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Alma mater | Indiana University Bloomington[1] |
Occupation(s) | Sex educator, author, professor |
Organization | Smith College |
Notable work | Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Change Your Sex Life, Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle |
Relatives | Amelia Nagoski (sister), Steph Nagoski (sister) |
Scientific career | |
Thesis | An Agent Based Model of Disease Diffusion in the Context of Heterogeneous Sexual Motivation (2006) |
Doctoral advisor | David Lohrmann, Erick Janssen |
Website | https://www.emilynagoski.com |
Come as You Are
Among various topics, Come as You Are discusses the difference between "spontaneous" and "responsive" sexual desire,[6][4] with Nagoski estimating that only around 15% of women experience the former.[3] She also discusses "arousal non-concordance",[7] estimating, based on experiments of responsiveness to sexual stimuli, that there is a roughly 50% overlap between what men find physically and mentally arousing, compared with only 10% for women.[8]
Burnout
In 2019, Nagoski and her twin sister Amelia co-wrote the book Burnout, on the causes and management of stress, including structural factors that particularly affect women.[9][10] They contrast the relatively short-term dynamics of stress in evolutionary times with modern-day stressors that often go unresolved, and discuss forms of affection and physical activity that help complete what they call the "stress cycle".[11]
References
- "Emily Nagoski | Speaker". TED.
- "The Come as You Are Workbook : a practical guide to the science of sex". nla.gov.au. Retrieved 2021-05-22.
Creator: Nagoski, Emily, 1977-
- O’Connell, Meaghan (27 December 2020). "Take Back Your Sex Life". The New York Times.
- Stevens, Heidi (February 26, 2015). "'Come As You Are' just might save your sex life". Chicago Tribune.
- "7 Sex Education Lessons From Emily Nagoski's 'Come As You Are'". WBUR.
- Dahl, Melissa (8 April 2015). "The Way You Understand Your Sex Drive Is Wrong". The Cut.
- Juzwiak, Stoya; Juzwiak, Rich (11 February 2021). "Why This Book on Understanding Your Sexual Desires Has Been Slate's Bestseller for Two Years". Slate.
- Badham, Van (28 April 2015). "'You're normal!' is science's battle cry in the fight for sexual liberation". The Guardian.
- Carey, Anna (April 5, 2019). "Twin sisters aim to help women cope with stress caused by sexism". The Irish Times.
- Sethi, Shikha (12 May 2021). "Mental Health: 8 useful resources you can find online and offline to check in with yourself". GQ India.
- "Beating Burnout: Sisters Write Book To Help Women Overcome Stress Cycle". All Things Considered. NPR. May 5, 2019.