So (word)
So is an English word that, apart from its other uses, has become increasingly popular in recent years as a coordinating conjunctive opening word in a sentence. This device is particularly used when answering questions although the questioner may also use the device. So may also be used to end sentences. When ending a sentence, it may be:
- a coordinating conjunctive to refer backwards to something previously mentioned
- a coordinating conjunctive dangling "so" (sometimes called trailing "so")[1] to refer forwards to something that may be said
- an intensifying adverb.
Sentence opener
The first known written use of so as a sentence opener is in several lines of Chaucer's Troilus and Criseyde, published in the mid-1380s, for example:[2][3]
So graunte hem sone out of this world to pace (So grant him soon out of this world to pass);
So as a sentence opener has been used in later historical literary works such as:[2]
- The Rape of Lucrece, 1594, by William Shakespeare
- Pamela: or, Virtue Rewarded, 1740, by Samuel Richardson
It is widely believed that the recent ascendancy of so as a sentence opener began in Silicon Valley. Michael Lewis, in his book The New New Thing, published in 1999, noted that "When a computer programmer answers a question, he often begins with the word 'so.'" Microsoft employees have long argued that the "so" boom began with them.[2][3][4]
Purpose
Various suggestions have been made as to its purpose:
- as a coordinating conjunctive to refer backwards to something previously mentioned
- as a discourse marker[5][6]
- to signal that the following words are chosen for their relevance to the listener[7]
- to provide a small amount of extra thinking time[8]
In his Modern English translation of Beowulf, Irish poet Seamus Heaney uses "So" to translate the single-word opening line, Hwæt! (also rendered 'lo', 'hark', 'listen', etc). He explains that "in Hiberno-English Scullion-speak [...] 'so' operates as an expression that obliterates all previous discourse and narrative, and at the same time functions as an exclamation calling for immediate attention. So, 'so' it was".[9]
Sentence closer
Referring back
"So" may refer back to something previously mentioned, such as:[10]
- "If she notices, she never says so."
- Speaker 1: "Has somebody called an ambulance?" Speaker 2: "I believe so."
Other possibilities include:
- "Absolutely so."
- "How so?"
- "I am afraid so."
- "Indeed so."
- "It is not so."
- "It is so."
- "Is it so?"
- "Is that so?"
- "...just so."
- "...less so."
- "Let it be so."
- "...like so."
- "...made it so."
- "...make it so."
- "...more so."
- "Not so."
- "...or so."
- "Quite so."
- "So?"
- "...so-and-so."
- "Why so?"
Dangling so
A dangling "so" in conversation invites the listener to articulate or consider the implications of the information provided without the speaker having to articulate it himself or herself.[11][12] It has been interpreted as sometimes a form of bragging.[13] A dangling "so" in conversation may be represented in text as "so" followed by an ellipsis: "...".[1][14] Examples of dangling "so":
- "Yeah, it's pretty exciting, though we're not really sure whether it will work out, so..."
- Speaker 1: "How was your date?" Speaker 2: "Well, he didn't show up, so..."
Intensifying adverb
"So" may close a sentence as an intensifying adverb, such as in "I love her so". "So" in the middle of a sentence can also be an intensifying adverb, such as in "I so love her".[14]
See also
References
- So What? What it means when people leave the word “so” dangling at the end of a sentence The Atlantic Julie Beck 26 Aug 2015
- Melissa (23 September 2015). "So, When Did We Start Introducing Sentences with So?". Today I Found Out. Retrieved 7 August 2017.
- Anand Giridharadas (21 May 2010). "Follow My Logic? A Connective Word Takes the Lead". The New York Times.
- Origins of using "so" as a sentence opener Boing Boing Mark Frauenfelder 17 June 2010
- Goldberg, Haley (14 February 2014). "So… why is everyone saying "so?"". USA Today.
- Bolden, Galina B. (2009). "Implementing incipient actions: The discourse marker 'so' in English conversation". Journal of Pragmatics. 41 (5): 974–998. doi:10.1016/j.pragma.2008.10.004.
- "Do you use "so" to manage conversations?". Dictionary.com. 9 August 2013.
- Mason, Mark (5 November 2011). "It's so annoying. So why do people feel compelled to start every sentence with 'so'?". The Spectator.
- Seamus Heaney (19 February 2009). Beowulf. Faber & Faber. ISBN 978-0-571-25072-1.
- Oxford Dictionaries
- So… why is everyone saying “so?" USA Today Haley Goldberg 14 Feb 2014
- It's Okay To End Your Sentences With 'But' Or 'So,' Right? The Huffington Post 15 May 2014 Claire Fallon
- People who end sentences with 'so': Yes, they're bragging Crain's Chicago Business Lisa Bertagnoli 15 May 2010
- Why do people end sentences with “so”? What effect does it have on conversation? Dictionary.com Jane Solomon 21 Aug 2013
Further reading
- Bolden, Galina B. (2009). "Implementing incipient actions: The discourse marker 'so' in English conversation". Journal of Pragmatics. 41 (5): 974–998. doi:10.1016/j.pragma.2008.10.004.
- So, here's a carefully packaged sentence that shows me in my best light The Guardian Oliver James 26 Jul 2013