Ubayda ibn al-Harith

Ubaydah was the son of al-Harith ibn Muttalib ibn Abd Manaf ibn Qusayy,[5]^: 116[6]^: 36 hence a first cousin of prophet Muhammad and nephew of Muhammad’s father Abdullah and of his uncles Abu Talib and Hamza ibn Abd al-Muttalib. His mother, Sukhayla bint Khuza'i ibn Huwayrith ibn al-Harith ibn Khaythama ibn al-Harith ibn Malik ibn Jusham ibn Thaqif, was from the Thaqif tribe. He had two full brothers, al-Tufayl and al-Husayn, who were more than twenty years younger than himself.

By various concubines, he was the father of nine children: Muawiya, Awn, Munqidh, al-Harith, Ibrahim, Rabta, Khadija, Suhaykhla and Safiya.[6]^: 36 He had no children by his only known legal wife, Zaynab bint Khuzayma.

Ubaydah's appearance is described as "medium, swarthy, with a handsome face."[6]^: 36

Ubaydah became a Muslim before Muhammad entered the house of al-Arqam in 614.[6]^: 36 His name is twelfth on Ibn Ishaq's list of people who accepted Islam at the invitation of Abu Bakr.[5]^: 116

In 622 Ubaydah and his brothers, together with their young cousin Mistah ibn Uthatha, joined the general emigration to Medina.[6]^: 36 They boarded with Abdullah ibn Salama in Quba[5]^: 218 until Muhammad allotted them some land in Medina. Muhammad gave Ubaydah two brothers in Islam: Abu Bakr's freedman Bilal ibn Rabah and an ansar named Umayr ibn Al-Humam.[6]^: 36–37

Some say that Ubaydah was the first to whom Muhammad gave a banner on a military expedition; others say Hamza was the first.[6]^: 37

In April 623 Muhammad sent Ubaydah with a party of sixty armed Muhajirun to the valley of Rabigh. They expected to intercept a Quraysh caravan that was returning from Syria under the protection of Abu Sufyan ibn Harb and 200 armed riders.[5]^: 218[6]^: 37[7][8][9] The Muslim party travelled as far as the wells at Thanyat al-Murra,[5]^: 281[8] where Sa`d ibn Abi Waqqas shot an arrow at the Quraysh, said to be the first arrow shot in Islam.[5]^: 281[10][7] Despite this surprise attack, "they did not unsheathe a sword or approach one another," and the Muslims returned empty-handed.[6]^: 37[7][8]

Ubaydah was killed in the battle of Badr in 624 in triple combat against Shaybah ibn Rabi'ah, who cut off his leg. Although he was the first Muslim to be struck down at Badr, he survived his injury for several hours, so the first Muslims who actually died in the battle were Umar’s freedman Mihja’ and Haritha ibn Suraqa.[5]^: 300 It is alleged that Ubaydah composed poetry while he was dying:

You may cut off my leg, yet I am a Muslim.
I hope in exchange for a life near to Allah,
with Houris fashioned like the most beautiful statues,
with the highest heaven for those who mount there...[5]^: 349

He died at al-Safra, a day's march from Badr, and was buried there.[6]^: 37

Following his tragic death, his widow Zaynab was married by Muhammad himself.[11]

• Family tree of Ubaydah ibn al-Harith
• Sahaba
• List of expeditions of Muhammad
• Shahid

• abudawud Book 14, Number 2659