expostulate

First attested circa 16th century, from Latin expostulatus, past participle of expostulo ("to demand" or "to claim") from ex- +‎ postulo ("demand").

expostulate (third-person singular simple present expostulates, present participle expostulating, simple past and past participle expostulated)

1. (intransitive) To protest or remonstrate; to reason earnestly with a person on some impropriety of conduct.
   • Jowett

     Men expostulate with erring friends; they bring accusations against enemies who have done them a wrong.

   • 1719, Daniel Defoe, Robinson Crusoe

     The tears would run plentifully down my face when I made these reflections; and sometimes I would expostulate with myself why Providence should thus completely ruin His creatures, and render them so absolutely miserable; so without help, abandoned, so entirely depressed, that it could hardly be rational to be thankful for such a life.

   • 1843, Thomas Carlyle, Past and Present, book 2, ch. XI, The Abbot’s Ways

     […] he affectionately loved many persons to whom he never or hardly ever shewed a countenance of love. Once on my venturing to expostulate with him on the subject, he reminded me of Solomon: “Many sons I have; it is not fit that I should smile on them.”

• challenge
• demur
• except
• inveigh
• kick
• object
• protest
• remonstrate
• squawk

expostulāte

1. second-person plural present active imperative of expostulō