If I understand your question right you just want do stop the Access Point. This can simply be done with:
rpi ~$ sudo systemctl stop wpa_supplicant@wlan0.service
To start it again just do:
rpi ~$ sudo systemctl start wpa_supplicant@wlan0.service
This will only stop/start temporary. On boot up the AP will always start. To avoid this you have to disable the service. Then you have to enable it again.
rpi ~$ sudo systemctl disable wpa_supplicant@wlan0.service
rpi ~$ sudo systemctl enable wpa_supplicant@wlan0.service
This takes effect only after reboot. To disable/enable the service and stop/start it now you can execute:
rpi ~$ sudo systemctl disable --now wpa_supplicant@wlan0.service
rpi ~$ sudo systemctl enable --now wpa_supplicant@wlan0.service