Mildred J. Berryman

At the age of 15, Berryman came out as lesbian at Westminster college and announced that she wanted to do an academic study of lesbianism. The thesis request was refused and some parents pulled their daughters from the school, but she was not expelled. Traumatized by the scandal and wanting to escape the shame of her homosexuality, she ran away at 16 and entered a short-lived marriage with a man.[6]^: 354 In 1928 (or 1929),[6]^: 354 Berryman began writing her thesis The Psychological Phenomena of the Homosexual[3]^{: 223, 228} on 23 lesbian women and 9 gay men, whom she met through the Salt Lake City Bohemian Club.[10][3]^: 73 Her research of lesbian and gay people from the perspective of a lesbian lay researcher was groundbreaking and argued that homosexuality was inborn, benign, and evident among many animal species.[11]^: xi

It is possible that she had begun her research around the time of WWI as a student at Westminster College in Salt Lake from 1916 to 1922.[3]^: 69 Her study has been called the first lesbian community study in the US,[12][13][14] and she continued writing it until leaving it uncompleted by 1938[3]^: 223 or 1939.[10] By her request, parts of her research were posthumously published[15] by her daughter- and son-in-law[7]^: 67 in 1977.[4]^{: 897–898}[5] It appears that Berryman did not complete or publish her work due to discouragement from her advisor as well as a desire to protect her privacy and that of her siblings. Additionally, at the time of research, the study's positive depiction of people engaging in same-sex sexual behavior may have been enough to have it banned under US federal Comstock laws since a book containing positively depicted minor lesbian themes was nearly banned in New York in 1929.[16][4]^: 897

In the study, most lesbian women and gay men (many of whom had Mormon background)[12] reported experiencing erotic interest in others of the same sex since childhood,[3]^{: 120, 222} and exhibited self-identity and community identity[17] as sexual minorities.[3]^: 222 It was during the 1920s when gay and lesbian subcultures were beginning to become more established in several larger US cities.[18] While most of the subjects feared discovery, a few were "out" about their homosexuality with their heterosexual friends.[3]^: 223 The social and legal risks of discovery were high since any consensual same-sex sexual behavior likely fell under the 1921 Utah sodomy law which banned "sodomy or any other detestable and abominable crime against nature" that was committed "with either the sexual organs or the mouth," or the 1907 Utah law which punished "every lewd or dissolute person" with up to 90 days in jail.[19]

Berryman was born in 1901 as the third and last child born to parents Richard Berryman and Mildred Stokes. Her siblings were George (born 1896) and Richard Jr. (born 1898). Her father worked as a bartender in Salt Lake City from 1894 to the Prohibition Era of the 1920s, with 1913 on spent working at a bar called The Opera Bar which acted as an early gay bar attracting many homosexual clientele.[6]^: 353 After her first failed opposite-sex marriage she had her first lesbian relationship with her violin teacher Mae Anderson from 1920 to 1921.[5] She joined the LDS church at the age of 19,[5] received a patriarchal blessing at the age of 21,[3]^{: 226–228} and later entered a relationship with a Mormon woman for over three decades,[20] though she left involvement with the Mormon community to join the Bountiful Community Church.[5] She worked at the LDS School of Music with her former girlfriend Mae Anderson in the mid-1920s and had another failed opposite-sex marriage.

In 1924, she fell in love with Edith Mary Chapman and lived in her house (that later became a boarding house for lesbians) until 1928. Around that time, Berryman became a photographer,[1] and, in 1936, had a relationship with "Z". In the 40s, she collected and sold minerals specimens from her house[8] and was involved in the Mineralogical Society of Utah[21][22] and the Women's Benefit Association (W.B.A).[23]

Grave marker for the resting place of Berryman

In 1934, she met a Mormon mother Ruth Uckerman Dempsey at their manufacturing job at Hill Air Force Base, with whom she later had a 33-year romantic relationship.[5][3]^: 226 Together, they ran a manufacturing business[24] and participated in the Bonneview Garden Club[25][26] until Berryman's death in 1972.[20][10] Barry had also served as president of the Utah Business and Professional Women's Club.[1] Her stepdaughter Bonnie Uckerman Bullough from Ruth's first marriage[27] married Vern Bullough[3]^{: 226–227} and they both became renowned sexologists writing on homosexuality.[28][29][30]

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• Homosexuality and The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
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• Queer studies