My Friend Dahmer

Shortly after Backderf learned about Dahmer's crimes, he met two of his friends, Mike Kukral and Neil, all of whom had befriended Dahmer in school.[1] With the new information regarding Dahmer's fate, many of his odd behaviors in adolescence seemed to make sense.[1][2] Backderf recorded some of the stories shared in his sketchbook, which would serve as the beginning of My Friend Dahmer.[3][4][5] He started focusing on writing the stories in 1994 following Dahmer's death.[3][5]

Because Backderf worked at Akron Beacon Journal,[3] he also had access to much information about Dahmer's crimes before they became public knowledge, which, combined with his personal history with Dahmer, put him in a perfect situation to shed light on him.[1]

When Backderf initially began creating the comics, he thought of them as a series of mini-comics or as an anthology told from his own perspective.[1] Later, he returned to their high school for a more in-depth, journalistic approach wherein he collected information via interviews and FBI files.[1]

In 1997, My Friend Dahmer was first released in the comic anthology Zero Zero #18 (Fantagraphics, July 1997).[6] Backderf, wanting to write a full-length work, began writing publication proposals using a single chapter; publishers often shied away from the subject matter, fearing the gore associated with Dahmer.[1] Therefore, in 2002, he self-published the work as a 24-page comic.[6][7]

After twenty years of background research, Backderf drafted the full manuscript in two weeks, and publishers became interested in the story.[1] The final, full-length book was published by Abrams Books in 2012.

The novel depicts the author's teenage friendship with Jeffrey Dahmer, who later became an infamous serial killer, during his time at Eastview Junior High and Revere High School. The story follows Dahmer from age 12 up to, but not including, his first murder, two weeks after high school graduation.

Derf, while not excusing or forgiving Dahmer's crimes, presents an empathetic portrait of Dahmer as a lonely young man tormented by inner demons, ridiculed by bullies at school, and neglected by the adults in his life.[8] The graphic novel recalls Dahmer's isolation, his binge drinking, his bizarre behavior to get attention, and his disturbing fascination with roadkill.[7] Backderf and his friends encouraged Dahmer to act out, including faking epileptic seizures in school and the mall and pretending to have cerebral palsy.[9]

One of Backderf's techniques was drawing Dahmer in shadow as a representation of his personality.

The original self-published comic book was adapted and staged as a one-act play by the NYU Theater Department.

In 2017, the novel was adapted into a film directed by Marc Meyers and starring Ross Lynch as Jeffrey Dahmer. On the review aggregator website Rotten Tomatoes, the film has an 86% rating based on 88 reviews, with an average rating of 7/10. The website's critical consensus reads, "My Friend Dahmer opens a window into the making of a serial killer whose conclusions are as empathetic as they are deeply troubling."[10] Metacritic, another review aggregator, assigned the film a weighted average score of 68 out of 100, based on 25 critics, indicating "generally favorable reviews."[11]