Paul McGrath (footballer)

McGrath was born in Greenford, Middlesex,[1] to a Nigerian father who met his Irish mother during his medical studies in Dublin.[3] His father disappeared soon after his conception. His mother, Betty McGrath, was terrified that her father would find out she had become pregnant outside marriage and in an interracial relationship. She travelled in secret to London to have her child, who was considered illegitimate. She was strongly advised to give her son up for adoption at the Mother and Baby home in Acton, where she refused to do so numerous times. Upon her arrival back in her hometown Paul was forcibly taken away from her, placed with a foster family and later transferred to the Smyly Trust Home. This was arranged and carried out by the Catholic Crusade members in Dublin.[4] It was assumed that Betty McGrath gave him up for fostering in Ireland when he was four weeks old.[5]

When he was five years old, one of the daughters of the family he had been fostered by came to Betty to say they could not control him. At that stage, his mother had him back for a number of days before having to put him into an orphanage. Despite being Paul McGrath on his birth certificate, the admission form required the name of the father, hence he was known as Paul Nwobilo for a time.[6]

Betty would later have a second black child, a daughter named Okune, and both Betty and Okune would visit Paul while he was in care. Regretting giving Paul into care, Betty kept Okune with her, but growing up, this caused confusion within Paul who also wanted to live with her.[7][8][9]

McGrath remained in various forms of foster care around Dublin until he turned 18. In his later teenage years, he was able to reconcile with his mother, as well as his maternal grandfather.[7][8]

By c. 1979, McGrath had begun to excel in sports, playing for the youth football club Dalkey United. However, it was at this time that McGrath suffered a "catastrophic mental breakdown" that would ultimately last for an entire year. McGrath was placed in the psychiatric hospital St. John of God in Stillorgan; there McGrath remained in a "trance-like state, unspeaking, incontinent and covered in bedsores" while Doctors feared that McGrath may never walk again.[8] McGrath was eventually able to recover from his episode and resume his sporting career.

In 1990, the Republic of Ireland qualified for its first FIFA World Cup, in 1990 in Italy, eventually reaching the quarter-finals, where they lost to the hosts (1–0 in Rome), with McGrath ever present in the lineups (five matches, 480 minutes played). He captained the team four times in 1992 after the retirement of Mick McCarthy.[20]

In the Republic of Ireland's opening game of the 1994 World Cup – a 1–0 win against favourites Italy, thanks to Ray Houghton's early goal – in a perfect example of his commitment to the game, McGrath put up an astonishing defensive performance in spite of excruciating knee problems, including blocking a shot from Roberto Baggio with his face.[12]

McGrath suffers from alcoholism, and missed occasional matches as a result.[21] In an interview with FourFourTwo, he admitted to playing football while still under the influence of alcohol; additionally, his recurrent knee problems resulted in him undergoing a total of eight operations during his career. McGrath's autobiography, Back from the Brink, co-written with journalist Vincent Hogan, was the inaugural winner of the William Hill Irish Sports Book of the Year (2006).[22]

Upon retiring, he settled in Monageer, County Wexford. In 2004, one year after being taken to court, charged with a breach of the peace,[23] McGrath returned to the football world after five years, moving to Waterford United in Ireland as director of football.[24]

In 2011, McGrath recorded a cover version of the Gerry Goffin and Carole King song "Goin' Back".[25] He followed that single up with an 11 track album released in 2011 with profits going to his two designated charities the Acquired Brain Injury Foundation and the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation of Ireland.[26]

On 29 June 2013, McGrath was arrested over an alleged public order offence at a hotel in County Offaly. He was bailed and appeared at Tullamore district court on 17 July.[27]

Paul's half-sister Okune McGrath died in March 1994 due to complications stemming from a lifelong rare blood disorder.[28] Their mother Betty McGrath-Lowth died 4 September 2020, aged 83.[28]

As a result of the trauma of his early life and the subsequent alcoholism, McGrath has openly discussed through his autobiography and through interviews that he suffered through at least four major suicide attempts in his life. One attempt came in November 1989 after Manchester United sold him to Aston Villa.[5] McGrath would return to play for Aston Villa on November 5, 1989, in a 6-2 victory over Everton, but during the game had to hide wounds to his wrists using wristbands.[29]

Until he got his drinking under control in the 2010s,[30] the precariousness of McGrath's long-term mental health impacted his family life; McGrath has been divorced twice.[5] In 2019, McGrath claimed to have been roughly functional since 2014, although admitted to still occasionally consuming alcohol.[31]

McGrath is the father of five sons and a daughter, and, as of 2019, has five grandchildren.[31]

Manchester United

• FA Cup: 1984–85

Aston Villa

• Football League Cup: 1993–94, 1995–96

Individual

• PFAI Players' Player of the Year: 1982
• PFA Team of the Year: 1985–86 First Division,[34] 1992–93 Premier League[35]
• FAI Senior International Player of the Year: 1990, 1991
• PFA Players' Player of the Year: 1993
• Football League 100 Legends: 1998 (inducted)
• English Football Hall of Fame: 2015 (inducted)
• FAI Hall of Fame: 2020 (inducted)[36]

• List of people on the postage stamps of Ireland
• List of Republic of Ireland international footballers born outside the Republic of Ireland

Specific

General

• McGrath, Paul; Hogan, Vincent (2006), Back From the Brink, Arrow, ISBN 978-0-09-949955-8