Queen bee (sociology)
A queen bee is a woman who dominates or leads a group,[1] is in a favoured position[2] or behaves as such.[3] The term has been applied in several social settings.
Businesses
In a business environment, queen bee may refer to women who are emotionally immature and view other, especially younger, women as competition. They often will refuse to help other women advance within a company by, for example, preferring to mentor a male over a female employee. Some may actively take steps to hinder another woman's advancement as they are seen as direct competitors.[4] Such tactics are sometimes referred to as heterophily (in the sense of positive preference and favoritism for opposite-sex colleagues) or the queen bee syndrome.[5]
The term loophole woman, coined by Caroline Bird in her book Born Female: The High Cost of Keeping Women Down (1968), has a similar meaning. Marie Mullaney defines the loophole woman as one who, "successful in a predominantly male field like law, business or medicine, is opposed to other women's attaining similar levels of success. Such success, if attained by women on a large scale, would detract from, if not substantially reduce, her own status and importance."[6]
Schools
A queen bee in a school setting is sometimes referred to as a school diva or school princess. They are often stereotyped in the media as being beautiful, charismatic, manipulative, and wealthy, holding positions of high social status, such as being head cheerleader (or being the captain of some other, usually an all-girl, sports team), the Homecoming or Prom Queen (or both).[7] The phenomenon of queen bees is common in finishing schools.[8]
Queen bees may wield substantial influence and power over their cliques and are considered role models by clique members and outsiders. Her actions are closely followed and imitated.[9] Sussana Stern identifies the following qualities as characteristic of queen bees:[10]
- Having overly-heightened self-esteem, which may lead to arrogance
- Being overly-aggressive, selfish, manipulative and confident
- Behaving as a bully or sociopath
- Being wealthy and/or spoiled
- Being pretty, popular, talented, wealthy, or privileged
- Being envied/feared/admired by peers (mainly female peers)
Examples in film
- Regina George from the 2004 film Mean Girls, played by Rachel McAdams. The wealthy, beautiful and popular queen bee of Northshore High school, who rules over the Plastics, an exclusive clique of wealthy and beautiful girls.
- Courtney Shayne a sociopath from the 1999 film Jawbreaker, played by Rose McGowan. Courtney murders her rival at the beginning of the film, and goes to extreme lengths to cover up the murder and maintain her popularity by tarnishing the reputation of her victim.
- Marianne Bryant in Easy A portrayed by Amanda Bynes. A hypocritical, domineering and judgemental Christian fundamentalist girl who uses her faith to unfairly pass judgement and inflict her beliefs on others.
- Chris Hargensen from the Stephen King novel Carrie and its various film adaptations. Chris is a wealthy, spoiled and sadistic girl with a long history of bullying unpopular classmates, her favorite victim being the titular character, Carrie White.
- Heather Chandler (played by Kim Walker) in the 1989 black comedy Heathers. Chandler is a wealthy and beautiful but maliciously cruel narcissist who rules over the students of Westerberg High School. Her overwhelming cruelty to her peers causes them a great deal of mental stress, leading them to develop low self-esteem and eating disorders.
- Jennifer Check (played by Megan Fox) in the horror film Jennifer's Body from 2009. A conceited and spiteful cheerleader who often browbeats and dominates her weak-willed best friend (played by Amanda Seyfried), and who becomes possessed by a succubus, killing and cannibalising her male classmates, after being sacrificed in a dark magic ritual.
References
- "Queen bee definition". Merriam-Webster.
- "Queen bee definition". Dictionary.com.
- "Queen bee meaning". Cambridge Dictionary.
- "Article". Timesonline.co.uk. Archived from the original on 2011-06-04. Retrieved 2014-02-23.(subscription required)
- Cooper, Virginia W. (1997). "Homophily or the Queen Bee Syndrome: Female Evaluation of Female Leadership". Small Group Research. SAGE Publications. 28 (4): 483–499. doi:10.1177/1046496497284001. S2CID 145103338.
- Mullaney, Marie (1984). "Gender and the Socialist Revolutionary Role". Historical Reflections. 11 (2): 147. JSTOR 41298827.
- Tracy, K. (2003) The Girl's Got Bite: The Original Unauthorized Guide to Buffy's World. Macmillan. p 37.
- Raines, J.M. (2003) Beautylicious!: The Black Girl's Guide to the Fabulous Life. Harlem Moon Publishers. p 13.
- Wiseman, Rosalind (9 December 2011). "Girls' Cliques: What Role Does Your Daughter Play?". iVillage. Retrieved 3 December 2012.
- Stern, Sussana (2001) Sexual Selves on the World Wide Web: Adolescent Girls' Home Pages as Sites for Sexual Self-Expression; Sexual Teens, Sexual Media, Lawrence Erlbaum Associates
Further reading
- Dickinson, Amy (13 May 2002). "Taming the Teen Queen Bee". Time. Archived from the original on January 13, 2005. Retrieved 3 December 2012.
- Shearin Karres, Erika V. (2004). Mean Chicks, Cliques, And Dirty Tricks: A Real Girl's Guide to Getting Through the Day with Smarts and Style. Avon, MA: Adams Media. ISBN 1580629334.
- Simmons, Rachel (2002). Odd Girl Out: The Hidden Culture of Aggression in Girls. New York: Harcourt. ISBN 0151006040.
- Wiseman, Rosalind (2002). Queen Bees and Wannabes: Helping Your Daughter Survive Cliques, Gossip, Boyfriends, and Other Realities of Adolescence. New York: Crown Publishing Group. ISBN 0609609459.