Sideline Ho

Producer Harvey Mason, Jr. of The Underdogs produced "Sideline Ho".

"Sideline Ho" is one out of two songs on The Makings of Me Monica worked on with production team The Underdogs and singer-songwriter Tank at Doppler Studios in Atlanta, Georgia.[2] The concept of the song came up while Monica was brainstorming ideas with several musicians and was inspired by an ex who cheated on her with a video model.[3] Speaking of how the song came about, Monica stated in an interview with Billboard in August 2008, that the record was about "me being in a relationship years ago and somebody just disrespected to the fullest."[4] During the process, she told Tank about a situation where an ex of hers "blatantly, openly cheated – as if people didn't know who his girlfriend was! And just the sound of her name would make my flesh crawl. So he was like, 'Well what did you call her?' I said, 'She has no name. She has no importance [...] I always referred to her as the 'sideline ho,' because she was too comfortable with her position."[5] While Monica remarked that she "never would've thought he would come back in the room, like 'that's the title of the song', she went on to "give him play by play details", which she had previously documented in a self-written poem and "that really stood out in my mind and they created a song around it."[6]

"Sideline Ho" garnered positive reviews from music critics. People magazine called the song a "bittersweet ballad, on which Monica puts the other woman precisely in her place",[7] while Rap-Up magazine noted that "though she may be as laid back as ever on this track, Monica really digs her nails into girls’ weaves."[8] Blog network Blogcritics declared "Sideline Ho" a "blistering song where Monica takes the other woman in her man's life to task", and added: "This song is a bit rougher than what we're used to hearing from Monica but she somehow keeps herself from crossing the line between angry and over the top."[9] Prefix magazine writer Norman Mayers noted that the track "combines her bitchy attitude and ghetto persona with bass-heavy mid- to slow-tempo grooves to joyous effect,"[10] while Ryan Dombal of Entertainment Weekly wrote that it "scores with tough-talking venom."[11] In her album review for Vibe, Laura Checkoway ranked the song among the best on The Makings of Me along with "Hell No (Leave Home)" and "Gotta Move On".[12]

On July 25, 2006, AOL Music was the first entertainment website to preview a full version of the song.[3] By July 26, 2006, the entire track had leaked onto the internet. A more up-tempo remix of "Sidelino Ho," co-produced by Greg Street and Carl Moe, later appeared on the singer's 2007 mixtape Monica: Made; and though a few sources confirmed that a more radio-friendly version called "Sideline Chick" had also been recorded, a so-called "Squeaky Clean version" was finally included on the song's limited CD single, released on February 5, 2007, in the United States. Upon its release, the singer described the song as both her "actual favorite" on the album[13] and one of her "most personal records ever" yet.[4]

The single was not officially released to U.S. radio until mid-February 2007, but appeared a few weeks early on the Billboard Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Songs chart, opening up at number 77 due to early airplay in the week of January 22, 2007.[14] After weeks of minor to moderate radio support the song eventually reached number 45 on particular chart, only slightly surpassing the peak position of previous single, "A Dozen Roses (You Remind Me)."[14]

Credits adapted from the liner notes of The Makings of Me.[2]