little pitchers have big ears

An allusion to the ear-shaped handles common on pitchers used for serving liquids.

little pitchers have big ears

1. Small children often overhear more of what is said than adults realize or desire.
   • 1844, Charlotte M. Yonge, Abbeychurch, ch. 2:

     Seeing me listening to something she was saying to Mamma, she turned round upon me with that odious proverb, "Little pitchers have long ears."

   • 1939, "Bedtime Bedlam," Time, 17 Apr.:

     A caution to U. S. parents, but a joy to radio merchandising, is the dread truth that little pitchers have big ears.

   • 2000, Stephen King, On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft, →ISBN, p. 185:

     [N]o kid ever ran to his mother and said that his little sister just defecated in the tub. I suppose he might say pushed or went woowoo, but took a shit is, I fear, very much in the ballpark (little pitchers have big ears, after all).

• Often used when adults are conversing in the presence of small children, as a coded reminder to be careful about what one says.

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