How to Attract a Gemini Man As an Aries Woman

Co-authored by Jessica Lanyadoo and Jennifer Mueller, JD

Last Updated: November 30, 2022 References

As an Aries woman, it's easy to believe you were made for a Gemini man. His ideal partner is energetic (check), dynamic (check), and always on the go (check). But first, you've got to turn his head—and you've come to the right place! Here, we'll share with you all the best tips and tricks to attract that tantalizing Twin and make him yours.

1

Walk over and talk to him.

Gemini guys love to talk about anything under the sun.^{[1]
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Research source} Aries ladies have a reputation for being direct and now's the time to put that reputation into action. It's not usually difficult to snag a Gemini's attention—just walk over and get in his face.
- He'll be instantly attracted to your positivity and enthusiasm. Even if you're relatively shy, just tell yourself that he wants to talk to you—because he does! There's nothing a Gemini likes more than stimulating conversation.^{[2]
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Give him plenty of flirty compliments.

Gemini is one of the most flirtatious signs in the zodiac. This can get him in trouble when people try to read more into his flirting than is actually there. But if you're a typical Aries, you can totally understand that problem. Your direct approach works well with him—if you like him, let him know. Tell him all the little things you like about him and he'll definitely want to keep you around.
- You might say, "I never knew you were so funny! Nobody makes me laugh like you do—I definitely need to spend more time with you."
- He's proud of his mind, so he'll really like it if you compliment him on his intelligence, the way he solved a problem, or something particularly clever he said.

3

Show off your smarts.

A Gemini needs intellectual stimulation and loves a clever woman. As an Aries woman, you're known for your intelligence and broad knowledge. Your Twin will fall head over heels once he realizes he's met his intellectual match.
- If you're a typical Aries, you love new things and tend to know a little about a lot of different subjects. Bump into him at a local café? You might share fascinating facts about the coffee roasting process.
- Your knowledge might be random and off-the-wall, but you always have something interesting to add to any conversation, and that's what he'll love about you.^{[3]
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Expert Answer

Q

What is the ruling planet of Gemini?

Jessica Lanyadoo
Astrologer & Psychic Medium
Jessica Lanyadoo is an astrologer with over 20 years of consulting experience. She is the author of Astrology for Real Relationships: Understanding You, Me, and How We All Get Along and is the host of the popular astrology and advice show, Ghost of a Podcast. Lanyadoo co-hosted TLC’s digital astrology show Stargazing and writes weekly and monthly horoscopes that help you heal.

EXPERT ADVICE

Answer from Jessica Lanyadoo:

Mercury, the planet of communication, is the ruling planet of Gemini. It is a mutable sign and an air sign.

4

Invite him to join you on an adventure.

Geminis are known for being thrill-seekers. Rams are usually interested in trying new things and exploring new places as well—and you can't find a better partner than the easy-going Twin. He'll happily follow you as you check off items on your bucket list. Want to go bungee-jumping? He'll offer to drive the two of you there.
- You can still adventure even if you're not much of an adrenaline junkie. Invite him to go hiking or explore a nearby town with you.

5

Emphasize your independence.

Gemini men tend to be fiercely independent and don't like clingy partners. Suggesting you need him would be the biggest turn-off, but as an Aries woman, you wouldn't even think about going there. You're one of the most independent signs in the zodiac, which makes you a near-perfect match for the free-flying Twin.^{[4]
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- Even if the two of you start dating, continue to go out with your friends and do all the things you did before. It helps if you have a pretty busy schedule and aren't available all the time.

6

Entertain him with great jokes and humor.

A Gemini guy is pretty light-hearted and loves a good laugh. If you can make him laugh, you'll win his heart. The essence of a good joke is surprise, and Geminis love the unexpected twist. This is a great match for your bright and bubbly sense of humor.
- You can do this over text as well. He'll want to hang on to you if you randomly send him funny memes or videos that catch him off guard and make him laugh.^{[5]
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7

Engage him in a friendly debate.

Your Gemini guy will enjoy a little verbal sparring. With his Twin-like duality, he can usually see both sides of an issue. As an Aries woman, you have the reputation for being somewhat argumentative, so you'll probably enjoy this too. You might even think of a good argument as foreplay—if so, stir those passions now for some intensity later.^{[6]
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- Just be careful not to take anything he says during these debates personally. He'll say whatever's necessary to defend his stance and won't necessarily consider if it might be hurtful. If you're a typical Aries, though, you're probably the same way.
- Stick to relatively superficial or upbeat topics—Gemini guys find emotionally heavy or depressing subjects difficult to handle. For the typically positive Aries, this should be easy.

8

Constantly surprise him to keep him interested.

Gemini guys tend to get bored if they find you predictable. He likes to chase after the next new thing. If you can keep him guessing so that he never feels like he's got you figured out, he'll keep coming back for more. The typical Aries enjoys challenges and new situations, so this shouldn't be hard for you to pull off.
- For example, you might invite him to watch Olympic curling with you but not tell him that you play. Later, you could surprise him with a lesson.
- He's a curious guy by nature, but if you can hold a few key details back he'll stay intrigued and want to know more.^{[7]
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Embrace spontaneity when you go out together.

Geminis typically don't like being locked into a schedule. They like spontaneity.^{[8]
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Research source} On date night, make loose plans to meet at a local café or restaurant, then you can go from there.
- For example, you might check your phone to see what's going on within walking distance. Or just wander around a lively area with him and see what there is to do.
- You could even text your friends for a spontaneous meetup. The more the merrier, as far as Gemini is concerned.

10

Suggest a night of pub trivia.

Geminis tend to know a little about a lot of things and love being social. A trivia challenge is perfect for a Gemini guy, who typically flits about from topic to topic, soaking up information as he goes.^{[10]
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Research source} It's great for you too, since Aries women love competition. The two of you will make a formidable team.
- A Gemini guy typically loves when something's spontaneous, so it's best to bring this up on the fly. You might've planned it ahead of time, but you don't need to let him know that. Just mention that there's a trivia night at a local pub about half an hour before it starts and he'll be game.

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Plan a scavenger hunt for a date he'll never forget.

Your Gemini guy will love solving brain-teaser clues and exploring new places. Rams tend to be leaders, so this will be fun for you too—just imagine the excitement of watching him unravel your clues to follow the path you've laid out for him. If you've set up your hunt so that you're the prize waiting for him at the end, have him send you texts periodically so you can follow his progress.
- You can get friends and acquaintances involved as well! You both have the reputation for being pretty social, so you'll likely have a lot of people to choose from. It might take a little more planning, but it'll make him feel really loved.

Expert Q&A

Question

What are the qualities of a Gemini?

Jessica Lanyadoo
Astrologer & Psychic Medium
Jessica Lanyadoo is an astrologer with over 20 years of consulting experience. She is the author of Astrology for Real Relationships: Understanding You, Me, and How We All Get Along and is the host of the popular astrology and advice show, Ghost of a Podcast. Lanyadoo co-hosted TLC’s digital astrology show Stargazing and writes weekly and monthly horoscopes that help you heal.

Jessica Lanyadoo

Astrologer & Psychic Medium

Expert Answer

Geminis like spontaneity. They are curious and like to talk about a variety of topics.