What Age Will I Meet My Soulmate According to Astrology?

Co-authored by Angel Eyedealism and Glenn Carreau

Last Updated: March 10, 2023

Everyone dreams of finding their soulmate at one time or another: someone closer than a best friend or a lover because they're both. While astrology can't tell you exactly who your soulmate is (only you can decide that for yourself!), it can help you understand when you're most likely to make those connections and with whom. Using the guide below and your astrological sun sign, you can determine what age you are likely to meet your soulmate.

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Fiery Aries meets their soulmate at 21.

You're usually still searching for yourself when you find a soulmate. The best time to find that special someone is in your early 20s when you're growing in maturity but still discovering what you want out of life. As an Aries, you're energetic, honest, and tend to fall in love quickly. Let your soulmate see you for who you are and grow with you into a committed relationship when you're ready.
- If you're an Aries, chances are you love to have fun and let loose. Bond with your soulmate by spending time with them in your natural habitat, including parties and favorite hobbies.
- You don't need to settle down right after meeting your soulmate. Enjoy each moment! Many Aries settle into a stable routine with their soulmate in their early 30s.

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Taurus meets their soulmate between 16 and 18.

You'll take comfort in finding a soulmate during your late teen years. Being young and in love has its ups and downs, and it's okay to be uncertain whether a relationship will last at this time! Life is still a mystery, and the future feels insecure to most teens. Look for a person who understands you better than anyone and supports you through the uncertainty.
- The term "soulmate" doesn't just apply to romantic relationships. As a Taurus, you might find that your soulmate is either a young love or a platonic best friend.

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Gemini meets their soulmate at 19.

However, you probably won't date your soulmate for another few years. You may not be looking for serious relationships—especially at the young age of 19. As a Gemini, you're extremely charismatic, and you use it to make new connections and meet all the people you can.^{[1]
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Research source} You might become aware of your soulmate at 19 and start thinking of them romantically when you mature into your mid-20s.
- Geminis are likely to meet their soulmates while in college or while hanging out with large groups of friends. They need to be intellectually engaged.^{[2]
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  Angel Eyedealism
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  Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.} Look for the person who stands out from the crowd. You'll meet your soulmate when you least expect to!

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Sensitive Cancer meets their soulmate between 15 and 20.

Cancers think about the perfect relationship from an early age. You're a romantic at heart and happiest when you have your partner's unconditional acceptance. You're also incredibly social and emotionally mature, so it's easy for you to have a soulmate-level bond with someone at an age where other people wouldn't be ready.
- Soulmate matches with a Cancer can often feel both naive and mature at the same time. Your soulmate is someone you can innocently hold hands with while also talking about complex and intellectual subjects.

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Leo finds their soulmate between 25 and 27.

You're not interested in finding a soulmate until you've found yourself. Leos may have flings along the way, but they commit to a soulmate-level match once they know what they want and have become the best version of themselves. As a Leo, you are bold, driven, and energetic, so you need a soulmate who will come along at the right time to help you realize all of your many ambitions.
- You may wonder if waiting for your mid-20s is worth it, but it's a perfect age: you're mature yet still young enough to feel the giddy rush of new love like a teenager would.

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Virgo finds their soulmate in unexpected ways.

Unlike other signs, there is no "right" age for you to find your soulmate. A Virgo sun sign is cynical and pessimistic about love, so you probably aren't thinking about finding a soulmate. Nonetheless, that means your soulmate will take you by surprise! Learn to love yourself first and fill your life with positive relationships. You'll realize that your soulmate is right in front of you one day.
- Don't despair if it feels like you'll never find a soulmate. Though skeptical, Virgos are capable of building a satisfying relationship. Your soulmate could even be a platonic best friend or a close-knit group of friends.

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Charming Libra meets their soulmate at 20.

You'll be transitioning into full adulthood when you find your soulmate. Libras are social creatures, and you'll need someone to talk to more than ever as you put your teenage years behind you. Look for the person who can spend hours chatting about anything and everything with you. Your soulmate should make you forget your troubles and focus on enjoying the moment.^{[3]
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- The person who often fits these requirements for a Libra is a longtime friend. Your soulmate might be someone who has known you for years already and is helping you figure out your future too.

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Scorpio meets their soulmate between 12 and 17.

Figuring out your emotions at such a young age is difficult for Scorpios. You probably won't act on them at first or even recognize them; your Scorpio sign means you can be wary of vulnerability and slow to open up, cautious and mistrustful.^{[4]
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Angel Eyedealism
Astrologer & Performance Artist
Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.} Still, finding your soulmate so young means that you'll be able to connect those dots and enter into a relationship after reaching adulthood.
- Your soulmate is probably a childhood friend, someone you're figuring out your true feelings for now that you're older.

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Free-spirited Sagittarius makes the connection around 28.

You want to savor independence before settling down. A sun sign in Sagittarius means you're both passionate and restless, so serious relationships won't appeal until you're approaching your 30s. Your soulmate is someone who understands and cherishes you while still giving you all the space and freedom you need to be happy.^{[5]
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- As a Sagittarius, you might have trust issues and worry that your soulmate will vanish without warning. Give the relationship time, and you'll see that your soulmate isn't going anywhere.

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Capricorn finds their soulmate in their early 30s.

Careful Capricorn only commits to a relationship when they're ready. Like a Virgo, you may find the idea of a soulmate unrealistic, especially if you're young. You are practical^{[6]
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Angel Eyedealism
Astrologer & Performance Artist
Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.} and want mature relationships, so you'll be happiest if you take the time to get your own life together before letting someone else be part of it. By your early 30s, you'll know what you want and who is worth your time and commitment.
- "Soulmates" may sound childish to you, but it doesn't have to be a mystical concept. A soulmate can be a kindred spirit, and by your 30s, finding one won't catch you off guard anymore.

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Aquarius may find their soulmate at 22 but fall in love later.

Love is the last thing a self-reliant Aquarius wants when they find it. You'll make a deep connection with your soulmate in your early 20s, but it might feel too soon for you to turn that connection into a romantic relationship. As an Aquarius, you need someone who can take things slow and form a powerful friendship with you before anything else—and, of course, someone as intelligent as you are.^{[7]
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- Your soulmate is the person who connects with you on a deep intellectual level and talks with you all night long without running out of things to say.

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Romantic Pisces meets their soulmate between 17 and 19.

You've spent your early life dreaming about a soulmate. You fall in love easily when you hit your late teens, and everything feels more intense—especially romance. Pisces tend to be dreamy and deeply imaginative; they want to look back on a teenage love story like it's a fairy tale and open up a new chapter of their life with a soulmate.
- Your soulmate could be anyone, but given how highly you value good old-fashioned romance, you probably have a "meet-cute" with them that you reflect on in the years since.