David Fisher (Six Feet Under)

David is the second son (four years younger than Nate and 14 years older than Claire) of Nathaniel Sr. and Ruth Fisher's. The family owns and operates Fisher & Sons Funeral Home which Nathaniel, Sr. inherited from his own father. Some years prior to the pilot episode, David abandoned his desire to become a lawyer and instead, went to mortuary school to assist his father with the business. These decisions cause him to resent his older brother, who left home at 17 and only visits for major holidays. David's relationship with his mother is affectionate, but his relationship with his father is conflicted.[8] His father's death in the show's pilot episode brings their unresolved issues to the fore.

David is in many ways conservative (more so than either of his siblings) and he was even a Young Republican in college. Although he began to suspect he was gay in childhood, Season 3 reveals that he spent "ten years" dating women,[9] going as far as getting engaged to a woman named Jennifer Mason.[10] Their relationship ended when David revealed he was gay, but he remained closeted about his homosexuality. In the pilot, he is in a several-month-long relationship with Keith Charles, a police officer he met at a gay-friendly church.[11]

Soon after his father's death, David becomes angered at Nate's sudden and permanent return home.[8] Worse, their father bequeaths half of the business to Nate,[7] which David takes as a trivialization of the sacrifices he has made for the family business.[10] His anger is complicated when a major funeral home chain called Kroehner Service International, harasses the brothers to sell to them.[8] Nate initially wants to sell and then changes his mind; Ruth backs Nate both times and as a result, David feels even further marginalized.[10]

Meanwhile, he relies emotionally on his boyfriend Keith in private, while he publicly declares them to be racquetball partners.[8] Claire observes them at her father's funeral and deduces that they are a couple.[8] Weeks later, when Nate chances upon the couple having lunch, David tacitly outs himself by taking Keith's hand, which the couple considers a personal triumph. However, moments later David chastises Keith after he angrily confronts a man who called them "fags".[12] Keith accuses David of self-loathing and dumps him.[13][7] David is devastated. In the wake of their break-up, David is offered and accepts his father's deacon position at the Episcopalian Church while secretly engaging in a series of one-night stands and risky sex.^[a] He is even arrested for having sex with a prostitute, and is helped out by Keith who uses his position in the LAPD to get the charges dropped.[14] The brutal murder of a young gay man spurs him to clean his life up and come out of the closet.[1] His mother accepts him, but he is asked to resign as deacon, while the Fisher family in turn leave the church in solidarity with David.

By the time David comes out, however, Keith is in a relationship with an emergency medical technician named Eddie. However, after Keith kills someone while on duty, he seeks David for comfort and they have sex, but to David's disappointment, Keith considers it a mistake.[15] David begins dating a lawyer named Ben, but cannot shake his love for Keith.[16] When David's and Keith's respective relationships fail, they get back together.[17] Over time, David moves into Keith's apartment. David bonds with Keith's young niece Taylor of whom Keith gets custody after Taylor's mother is incarcerated.[18] The two begin adoption proceedings. The growing pressures on Keith exacerbate his anger management problems, and he becomes increasingly distant and verbally abusive. After getting suspended from work for use of excessive force,[19] Keith sends Taylor to live with his parents without consulting David. David tolerates his behavior until an argument about attending Claire's graduation turns violent and erupts into the two men grappling on the floor before engaging in rough sex that leaves both of them slightly injured.[20]

David and Keith decide to start therapy together to help resolve some of their communication issues.[21] When the therapist suggests that David have an independent hobby, David joins the Gay Men's Chorus of Los Angeles.[21]^[b] The difference between his and Keith's social circles is highlighted when Keith reluctantly plays a game of leading ladies with David's friends at a brunch,[22] and later when Keith invites David to play combat-style paintball with Keith's gay cop friends.[23] When one of the paintball players (named Sarge) is too inebriated to drive home, he stays over, which leads to the men having a three-way sexual experience.[23] A part of David enjoys "being wild," but he feels conflicted about having an open relationship; still, he hesitantly agrees to more such encounters.[24]

When David and Keith travel to San Diego for Keith's aunt's funeral, David defends Keith during an explosive and violent argument between Keith and his father, but Keith rejects his support and David, furious and humiliated, catches the bus back to Los Angeles.[25] His chorus buddy, Patrick, picks him up, and the two have sex.[25] The incident coincides with the disappearance of Nate's wife, Lisa, and David stays with his brother for a time while avoiding Keith. Soon after he returns home, a fight about a telemarketer escalates into another battle about the San Diego incident, so David breaks up with Keith and moves back to the family home.[26] A few weeks later they encounter each other at their church and have a long talk.[27]

In the season premiere, after a hard night, Nate tells his family that a body that washed ashore has been identified as Lisa's.[28] After mediating a contentious discussion between Nate and Lisa's family, David handles the bulk of the funeral arrangements.[28] David then assists Nate in deceiving Lisa's family by giving them the unclaimed cremains from storage at the mortuary, while Nate buries Lisa's body in an open field according to her wishes.[28] After the funeral, David and Keith revisit their relationship and decide to "start over," but without therapy and on the condition that Keith quit his job.[28] However, Keith and David's relationship remains open and David receives oral sex from a plumber.[29] Keith finds employment with a private security agency to celebrities, but does not come out at work.[30] Soon, he is assigned to go on a three-month tour with a pop star named Celeste.[31]

While Keith is away, David is kidnapped at gunpoint by a hitchhiker he picks up en route to delivering a dead body to the funeral home.[31] The carjacker robs David, makes him smoke crack cocaine, beats him, and finally douses him in gasoline and puts a gun in his mouth, forcing him to beg for his life.[31] When he finds out what happened, Keith rushes home, but David convinces him to go back on tour.[32] However, David begins to experience crippling panic attacks,[32] which worry Keith from afar. David grows increasingly lonely and emotionally unhinged, starts drinking more and tearfully tells Keith that he wants them to become sexually exclusive.[33] Even so, David sleeps with the paintballer Sarge again.[33] Although Keith eventually "comes out" at work, Celeste seduces him into sleeping with her, and then fires him for the indiscretion.[33] When he comes home, Keith confesses his infidelity, and David begins to worry that Keith will leave him for a woman.[34] David eventually confesses his own tryst with Sarge.[34] The pressure builds until finally, an irrational David assaults a man at a restaurant. The victim implies that he will drop a $500,000 lawsuit if Keith will allow him to perform oral sex on him, and Keith complies.[35] The man then hires Keith for personal security.

David confronts his carjacker in jail to put the trauma behind him.[36]

David's partner, Keith, and mother, Ruth, walk David to Nate's grave in the Season 5 episode "All Alone"

David begins to refer to Keith as his husband. As their lives begin to settle down again, they start making plans in earnest to become parents.[37][38] After a surrogacy attempt fails, the couple adopts two brothers (Durrell and Anthony) after David bonds with Anthony at an adoption fair. The boys suffer from trust issues, and Durrell is particularly rebellious due to their previous experiences in foster care.[39] When Keith considers returning them to the agency, David insists that they keep them.[39] Soon after the adoption is finalized, Nate dies and David begins to fall apart.[40] His panic attacks return along with visions of his carjacker. After six weeks, he's scarcely better and still unready to confer with his business partner (Rico) and Nate's second wife (Brenda) on how to proceed with the business, which the three co-own.[41] After David almost burns down the apartment accidentally, Keith suggests that David live elsewhere until he recovers.[41] After a brief stay with his mother, he and Keith pool their savings to purchase the shares of Fisher & Diaz owned by Brenda and Rico.[42] They redecorate and move into the Fisher home as the new owners, and re-adopt the business' former name, Fisher & Sons.[42]

Between the series finale, "Everyone's Waiting", and the obituaries published at the official HBO website,[42][43] the viewers learn of David's life after the show up until his death. David teaches Durrell how to embalm a body, and Durrell is seen continuing the business up to adulthood.[42] In 2009, David and Keith are legally married,[43] which was the first depicted on a fictional American series; they remain together until Keith is murdered in 2029.[42][43] At Claire's wedding, Durrell is seated with a woman and (presumably) their child, while Anthony is seated next to a man, whose hand he is holding.[42]^[c] David retires from Fisher & Sons in 2034 (Durrell continues the business),[43] and goes on to star in many local community theater productions.[43] He later enters a relationship with a man named Raoul Martinez, and they are together when David dies at a family function in 2044 at age 75.[43] His final vision is of a young and healthy Keith catching a football and smiling at him.[42]