How to Attract a Virgo Man As a Taurus Woman

Written by Stina Garbis | Edited by Madeleine Flamiano

Last Updated: May 21, 2022 References

Responsible, intelligent, and compassionate, a Virgo man will never let you down—the only catch is that you have to earn his trust. You don’t have to sweat it, though. Since you're a dependable Taurus, you radiate sensitivity and kindness. Plus, as two earth signs, you're a match made in heaven. We'll help you prove that with a list that covers how to attract and bedazzle a Virgo.

This article is based on an interview with our psychic astrologer, Stina Gabris, owner of Psychic Stina. Check out the full interview here.

1

Charm him with your natural beauty.

The grounded Virgo wants a woman who’s down-to-earth. He’s a mutable sign, which means he’s drawn to depth. He’s more interested in your wits, kindness, and perceptiveness than your looks. Show him that you aren't superficial by keeping your look simple and natural. You can do things like:
- Wear outfits that are more comfortable and cute rather than flashy and trendy.
- Choose a natural makeup palette that complements your hair, skin, and eye color.
- One small, delicate piece of jewelry, like a pair of earrings, will catch his eye.

2

Pay attention to the small details.

An observant Virgo notices everything around him.^{[1]
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Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.} Whether you grab a napkin for someone who’s spilled coffee, point out a bluebird in the sky, or discuss a line of poetry you just love, he’ll be impressed. Bond over the little things that most people miss and he’ll be entranced.
- Also, listen closely to little details that he mentions. For example, if he says he loves live music one day, see if he wants to see a concert with you a few weeks later.^{[2]
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Show off your people skills.

Virgos are social and want a charming partner on their arm.^{[3]
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Expert Interview. 20 November 2019.} Prove that you can mingle with anyone in any setting, from a sophisticated party to a low-key get-together. Show a strong interest in anyone you meet, hold a conversation no matter where it goes, and leave on a high note by saying goodbye to everyone. Your Virgo will take notes about how you make such a great impression.
- He’s ruled by Mercury, so your Virgo analyzes people and notices how they feel.^{[4]
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- As a Taurus, your ruling planet is Venus, making you highly sensitive about anyone you meet. Together, you’re likely to win anyone over.

4

Share a different perspective.

A Virgo is a natural diplomat, so he wants to know your perspective. As a mutable sign, he can change the way he looks at the world—ultimately, he just wants to understand people and situations better. Provide a fun challenge and give him a taste of your Taurus stubbornness.^{[5]
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- For example, stand your ground on a topic and he’ll be impressed.
- Virgo and Taurus balance each other out and grow as individuals when they consider each other’s viewpoints—your Virgo encourages you to be more open-minded, while you encourage him to speak up for himself.^{[6]
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Build a sweet friendship.

Virgos crave the solid foundation of friendship before romance. Since he’s not one to let go of his inhibitions and throw himself into passion right away, reassure him that you just want to learn more about him. He’ll appreciate that you want a strong mental connection and are willing to explore your chemistry later.
- Spend lots of time with him in public and bring him to events he expresses interest in, like an outdoor concert. He won’t feel like your romance is rushed.
- Text him regularly to check up on him and just to ask about what’s on his mind.
- Luckily, as a Taurus, you’re all about the slow and steady path. Your heart opens up to another earth sign easily, and you make sure to build a tight bond with anyone you’re attracted to.^{[7]
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Take him on a casual date.

He wants to see how you click on a personal level without distractions. A Virgo is really logical, so he knows that a romantic atmosphere can make anyone sentimental. Show that you’re sincere and sure of the special magic you two share—instead of extravagance, keep it simple. Whether it’s a walk in the museum or a spontaneous picnic, he’ll enjoy that all you need is each other to have a good time.
- Remember to bring some Venusian charm and creativity even if it’s low-key—for example, you can put on a signature scent that he’ll never forget or bring him over for cocktails after a cheap dinner.^{[8]
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Be gentle with him.

The compassionate Virgo needs a lot of empathy in return. Out of all the zodiac signs, he’s an absolute angel who thrives on treating people well. Treat him to a ton of TLC so that he can recharge. Hear him out when he’s had a hard day, ask how you can support him, and remind him that you’re always there for him. When he learns he found a woman that’s as warm as he is, he’ll melt.
- It’s rare to find a pairing as gentle and loving as a Virgo and a Taurus—you’re both incredibly loyal and always notice when your partner needs extra affection, so you’ll build a strong level of safety with each other.^{[9]
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Volunteer together.

Help him with a cause—this earth sign is a huge humanitarian.^{[10]
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Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.} A Virgo will take you more seriously and be smitten with your big heart if you lift others up. Discuss values or missions that matter the most to you two, such as protecting the environment. Then, offer a way to make a positive difference, like cleaning up a beach. He’ll start to fantasize about how you’d both change the world.
- Use a holiday as an opportunity to support others. For example, you can serve food at a soup kitchen as a unique way to celebrate.
- Also look for possibilities to pitch in on a regular basis, like helping out at an animal shelter every other weekend.
- This “trick” helps you bond with him and soothe your own soul since you’re so invested in your community. You’ll both get a glimpse of your long-term potential as you work side-by-side.

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Support his goals and dreams.

This lovable perfectionist always strives to be better. Mercury drives a Virgo to expect more out of himself each and every day.^{[11]
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Tara Divina
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Expert Interview. 20 November 2019.} Check in about his short-term and long-term goals, then suggest ways you can pitch in. If you make it clear that you’re on his side and would never stand in the way of his grand vision, he’ll adore you.
- As earth signs, you’re both highly practical and determined—instead of having your heads in the skies, you’re focused on what you can accomplish right now.

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Be discreet with his secrets.

It isn’t easy for him to be vulnerable, so he needs you to protect him.^{[12]
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Stina Garbis
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Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.} Let him open up about his past and any other sensitive matters on his own time. Then, deeply engage with any topic he brings up and express how moved you are. End the heart-to-heart by telling him that you’ll guard any information he trusts you with.
- You both want a lover who can be your confidante, so these emotional chats can help your relationship evolve.^{[13]
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Be patient with him.

He wants to take his time so the connection feels special. Virgos are gentle spirits who take passion seriously and aren’t casual at all. Start off slow—stick to long chats, big hugs, and pecks on the cheek. Eventually, he’ll tell you when he’s ready to explore a more sultry dynamic.
- You also earn his respect when you hold back and let him take the lead.
- A discussion about his boundaries and needs also endear him to you.
- Your Venusian beauty will definitely tempt him and create some fun tension.

Expert Q&A

Question

What are Virgos attracted to?

Stina Garbis
Psychic Astrologer
Reverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary.

Stina Garbis

Psychic Astrologer

Expert Answer

Virgos always like honesty, availability and cleanliness. They also love to pitch in to help, so make yourself vulnerable!