How to Get an Aries Man to Chase You

Written by Stina Garbis | Edited by Amber Crain

Last Updated: March 17, 2023

If you want a bold, ambitious Aries guy to chase you, you're in luck—this sign loves the thrill of the hunt! You just need to reveal a few specific things about yourself so he'll pick up your scent and start his pursuit. In this article, we'll tell you everything you need to know about attracting an Aries man. Before you know it, this fiery ram of the zodiac will be obsessing over you!

This article is based on an interview with our psychic astrologer, Stina Garbis, owner of Psychic Stina. Check out the full interview here.

1

Let him make the first move.

An Aries man is always intrigued by a challenge. For men born under this zodiac sign, the chase is just as thrilling as the catch. If you're too forward or too available, you might lose his attention entirely. Act a little coy and make him work for your attention—he'll love it. Here are a few ideas to get you started:^{[1]
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- Wait a few hours (or days) before responding to texts
- Flirt with other guys when he’s around
- Tell him you need to check your schedule before agreeing to a date

2

Get your flirt on.

Aries men love attention and will always come back for more. Ultimately, you want to play hard to get with this guy, but that doesn’t mean you can't rev his engine a little!^{[2]
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Stina Garbis
Psychic Astrologer
Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.} Pull out all the stops: laugh at his jokes, put your hand on his arm, “accidentally” brush up against him, and gush over his achievements. Then, disappear for the rest of the night. He won’t be able to stop thinking about you.^{[3]
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Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.}
- Remember: don’t take the physical flirting too far. And definitely don’t sleep with an Aries guy on the first date! The goal is to create sexual tension before making yourself scarce.

3

Make him laugh.

Men born under this sign love high-spirited, witty conversation. If you can amuse him with your dry sense of humor, you’ll win a ton of points with this guy. Let the wisecracks and sarcasm flow! For example, he'll love it if you deliver silly but scathing social commentary with a straight face. The more deadpan you can be, the more attracted he'll be to you.
- If he offers to get you a drink, you might say: “I’d love a gin and tonic. And since you’re buying, make sure they use top-shelf gin. The expensive stuff tastes so much better when I don't have to pay for it.”
- If he asks you if you’re enjoying yourself at an after-hours work function, try a deadpan response like, “Oh yes, I love work parties. I already spent all day with these people, so I definitely needed some more quality time with them.”

4

Shower him with compliments.

An Aries man loves hearing about his favorite topic—himself. Men born under this sign tend to be a bit arrogant and self-centered.^{[4]
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Stina Garbis
Psychic Astrologer
Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.} Luckily, you can use that to your advantage! If you want to see this guy strut like a peacock, drop a few compliments on him. He loves a good ego boost and he's sure to keep coming back for more.^{[5]
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Stina Garbis
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Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.} You could say things like:
- ”You are hands down the hottest guy in this room.”
- ”You’re seriously a trained pilot? That’s the coolest thing I’ve ever heard.”
- ”You take me to the best restaurants. You must know every chef in the city!”

5

Be fun-loving and spontaneous.

Aries men can't sit still and are drawn to excitement. You’ll never catch an Aries being a wallflower or sitting on the sidelines! Men born under this sign are energetic and always on the lookout for the next adventure, so make it clear you're down to try anything. If he invites you to try a new cuisine, accept without hesitation. Spur of the moment road trip? Yes, please! And since Aries men are notorious adrenaline junkies, you can also try things like:
- Inviting him on a whim to an amusement park
- Challenging him to ride the steepest rollercoaster with you
- Offering to go sky-diving or bungee jumping with him

6

Show off your sporty side.

Aries men tend to be athletic and involved in sports. If your guy is a typical Aries, he gets his pump on at the gym on a regular basis—there's no doubt about it. You can hit the gym with him or simply ask for his opinions on best workouts. He probably enjoys playing at least one organized sport, too. If you play any team sports yourself, be sure to let him know. And even if he doesn’t play sports, he’s almost certainly a sports fanatic—you can work that angle, too.^{[6]
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Research source} Try things like:
- Repping your favorite sports team shirt or jersey
- Offering to play tennis with him this weekend
- Surprising him with tickets to see his favorite team play

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Invite him on an outdoor adventure.

This zodiac sign loves thrill-seeking in the great outdoors. Aries men adore outdoor activities—especially the kind that get their adrenaline pumping. Let him know you’re down to join him on his next outdoor adventure, or talk about something outdoorsy that you did over the weekend. You could also surprise him by inviting him on a nature outing of your own! For example:
- Invite him to join you on a hike (preferably, a steep or difficult one)
- Tell him you want to try mountain biking
- Go mountain climbing or rock climbing with him

8

Be his biggest supporter.

Aries are extremely competitive, so avoid being his opponent. Out of the 12 zodiac signs, Aries are known for being the most competitive.^{[7]
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Stina Garbis
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Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.} If you make yourself his opponent in a game or activity, he will show no mercy. He must win all the things! Your best bet is to avoid competing against your guy—instead, aim to be be his cheerleader or teammate instead.^{[8]
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Research source} Support him by doing things like:
- Encouraging him to work toward his career goals
- Cheering him on at his next bowling tournament
- Taking his side if he gets into an argument with family or friends

9

Ask him to help you with something.

Aries men like to be helpful and feel needed. Despite their tendency to be self-centered, deep down Aries love feeling like knights in shining armor. Yes, he’s a little old-fashioned that way! He'll love it if you ask him to help you with a small task or explain something that you know he's an expert on. Here are some easy things you can try:
- Ask him to pick you up from the airport so he feels needed
- Tell him you want his help with a home improvement project
- Call him for assistance when you're stranded with a flat tire

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Be ambitious and goal-oriented.

Aries are go-getters themselves and admire this quality in others. Keep yourself busy with your own interests and projects (and be sure to tell him all about them, of course). An Aries man will find it very attractive if you lead an active, fulfilling life. After all, he needs a partner who can keep up with him! Try things like:
- Plan a career change and start taking night classes
- Tell him about the novel you’re writing
- Invite him to a gallery showing of your paintings

11

Give him plenty of space.

Nothing turns this sign off faster than clingy or needy behavior. Aries men despise the idea of codependency and they'll do whatever it takes to avoid it in their lives. Let a few days go by before you text him back, or wait for him to initiate the next hangout sesh. In the meantime, stay busy to show him you’re independent and just fine on your own.
- This is all part of playing hard to get, so don’t worry—he'll come back around when he starts missing you.

Expert Q&A

Question

What attracts an Aries man?

Stina Garbis
Psychic Astrologer
Reverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary.

Stina Garbis

Psychic Astrologer

Expert Answer

They love attention and hate being alone with no one telling them how great they are. If you poke at an Aries lightly and make them a little mad, they will think about you a lot, and if they find you attractive, it may make them go wild with wanting to see you again and telling how they feel about what you said.
Question

What do Aries do for fun?

Stina Garbis
Psychic Astrologer
Reverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary.

Stina Garbis

Psychic Astrologer

Expert Answer

This sign is ruled by the planet Mars, the god of war, so anyway to get their aggression out is where you will find an Aries. They may be playing video games, practicing MMA, watching or participating in sports.