This is for girls who want to both look good and feel good about themselves when flirting with a boy. If you follow these tips on how to take care of yourself, you will both look and feel good, and he will notice.

Method 1
Method 1 of 2:

Groom Yourself

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    Be fresh. Take a shower and don't forget to shave (Some men prefer hair on women).[1] Use fragrant bath gels and shampoos.[2]
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    Moisturize. Keep your skin soft by rubbing body lotion or body butter all over right after getting out of the shower.[3]
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    Smell good. Use a light body spray or oil on your wrists, behind your ears, on your chest, and behind your knees.
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Method 2
Method 2 of 2:

Get Ready

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    Put on just a little make-up. Whatever you feel highlights your best features, be it a little mascara, some lipgloss, or a bit of blush. Don't overdo it - you want him to see you, not what you're wearing. Or rock the natural look.[4]
    • Apply lipstick with a lip brush. It helps to control the amount and blend. You can use your finger if you do not have a lip brush.
    • You can apply a chapstick or lip balm before applying the lipstick if you have drier lips.
    • If you want a perfect lip, use a liner to prevent the lipstick from spreading out of the lips.
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    Fix your hair. You want your hair to be soft and flowing, not stiff and full of hair product. It doesn't have to be fancy, just make sure to brush it so you (or he) can get your fingers through it and it's not in your face.[5]
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    Get dressed. Choose an outfit that is sexy but not too revealing. You want to be comfortable and not concerned about your skirt riding up or your shirt falling down.[6]
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    Accessorize. Put on a pair of earrings or paint your nails if this makes you feel good. Don't do anything that you wouldn't normally be comfortable with, and avoid jewelry that is too large or heavy or extreme polish colors.
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    Double check. Is there food in your teeth? Do you feel well? You don't want to be distracted or cranky if your mind is on something else or you're tired, so make sure you're in the mood.
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Community Q&A

  • Question
    Why do I need a boy in my life?
    Community Answer
    Community Answer
    You don't NEED a boy in your life. But some people want a boy in their life. If you don't, that's great. Just be yourself and don't worry about anything else!
  • Question
    What do I need to do if I like a boy?
    Community Answer
    Community Answer
    Talk to him! If you're not already friends, get to know him better and see if you still like him. If you do, tell him how you feel!
  • Question
    How do I smell good when I don't have any perfume?
    Community Answer
    Community Answer
    Use scented lotion and scented bathing materials if you want to have a nice scent. Otherwise, all you really need to do is use soap in the shower and wear deodorant if you tend to sweat a lot.
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Warnings

  • Don't overdo anything. You don't want to overdress or wear too much makeup or perfume.[9]
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About This Article

Janet Miranda
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Professional Hair Stylist & Makeup Artist
This article was co-authored by Janet Miranda. Janet Miranda is a Professional Hair Stylist, Makeup Artist, and the Founder of Be.NYLA. With over 15 years of experience, Janet specializes in makeup and hair for advertising, commercial, editorial, runway, special events, television, and videos. She was trained at Vidal Sassoon Academy and with top hair and makeup artists including MAC Cosmetics and Redken. Janet has worked five seasons of New York Fashion Week and one season on Project Runway. She continues to add brands to her growing client list including Armani Exchange, Neutrogena, and Pantene. Janet’s work has been featured on CBS, Brides Magazine, 100 Layer Cake, Style Me Pretty, Green Wedding Shoes, Ireland Image Brides Magazine, and Elle Japan. This article has been viewed 140,545 times.
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Looking good for a boy is all about freshening up and keeping your skin nice. Remember to take a shower, wash your face, and moisturize your skin so you feel clean and fresh. Brush your hair to get rid of any tangles and wear it down so it looks nice for your crush. If you wear makeup, keep it light to let your natural beauty shine. Before you go out, spray a little deodorant or perfume so you’ll smell nice for him. For more tips, including how to highlight your best features with makeup, read on.

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