How to Throw a Christmas Party at Your House

Co-authored by Anna Braff

Last Updated: December 2, 2022 References

Christmas parties are a great way to get friends and coworkers together to celebrate the holiday season. If you are planning a Christmas party, you may be feeling the stress of coordinating and managing the event. Give yourself at least a month to iron out all the details. This way your party will be stress-free, and you will be able to bring Christmas cheer to all your family and friends!

Part 1

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Planning the Logistics

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Plan early. You need to give yourself enough time to work out all the details of the party. Try to start your planning around six weeks before Christmas. This will not only give you enough time to plan the party, it also will allow you to invite your guests early so that they won’t plan anything else for that day.
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Choose a date and time. Don’t plan your party too close to Christmas. Many of your guests may be leaving town to visit family, so if you plan your party the day before Christmas, many people may not be able to come. Instead, try to hold the party at least five days before Christmas.^{[1]
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- The weekend is usually the best time to hold the party, because your guests won’t have to go to work in the morning.
- Also decide if you want your party to be during the afternoon or a night. Most parties are held in the evening, but try to choose what is best for you and your guests.
- Get some input from your guests if you aren’t sure when people would be able to make it.
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Choose a location. If you are holding a Christmas party for your coworkers, you may be able to hold the party in the office. However, if you’re holding the party for family or friends, you will need to either hold the party at your house, find someone who is willing to host the party, or rent out a location.
- Renting out a space can be expensive, so if you feel comfortable holding the party at your house, this may be the most convenient and cost-effective solution.
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Decide whether you want to do a gift exchange. Decide in advance whether you want your guests do a gift exchange like Secret Santa or White Elephant. This is not a necessary part of the party, but it can add some excitement and give your guests an activity to bond over.^{[2]
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- To do a Secret Santa, give your guests the name of another guest, preferably a person that they already know, to buy a gift for.
- For White Elephant, all guests bring a small or funny gift that anyone could enjoy. Then each guest picks whichever present he or she wants during the party.
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Send out invites. Once you have pinned down the details of the date and time of your party, send out invitations either by email or mail.
- Make sure that the invitations include the date, time and address of the party.
- Also make sure that the invitations tell your guests to RSVP, so you will have a sense of how many people will be at the party.
- If you decide to do a gift exchange, give your guests the information on what they need to bring.
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Budget the party. Draw up a general budget of your party. Unless you are renting a space, providing food and drinks will probably be the most expensive aspect of your party. ^{[3]
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- Decide if you are going to have catered food, or if you are going to prepare food. If you are doing catering, call up the caterers and ask for an estimate for the amount of people you are inviting.
- If you are preparing food yourself, estimate the approximate cost of ingredients for dishes you plan to make. You can consider holding a potluck-style party where each guest brings a dish if you trying to cut down the cost.
- Consider if you need to rent anything like chairs, tables or coat racks to accommodate guests.
- Consider the Christmas-specific decorations you will have at your party, such as the Christmas tree, as well as garlands, stockings, or other small pieces of décor.

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Planning and Preparing Food

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Arrange catering. If you have decided to go the catering route, call the restaurant or service you are getting your food from. Make sure that the catering company offers a wide range of food so that everyone will be able to find something they like. Tell them the date of the party, and ask them how you should proceed in getting their catering delivered.^{[4]
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- Catering companies will do all the hard work of preparing and delivering the food, so that all you will need to do is pay.
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Pick appetizers to prepare. If you have decided to prepare food on your own, decide on a menu that will appeal to all your guests. Make sure to have one or two vegetarian options.^{[5]
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- You don’t have to offer your guests a full meal. Finger foods are ideal for Christmas parties because they are easy to eat and are often easy to prepare as well.
- Make sure to provide desserts as well as savory items.
- Some good examples of tasty and easy to make foods are: deviled eggs, veggies and dip, bruschetta, pigs in blankets, and gingerbread and Christmas cookies.
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Decide on drinks. Many Christmas parties serve alcoholic beverages. Decide if you want alcohol at your party. You may decide to buy alcohol and mixers at the store, or you may want to prepare a large batch of alcoholic punch or a batch of your favorite cocktail. Do what you feel is best for your party.^{[6]
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- Be sure to pick up enough drinks for everyone that's attending the party.
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Prepare what you can the day before. Depending on what you decide to serve, try to prepare your food as early in advance as you can. If the food must be fresh, prepare it the morning of your party. Remember that if you are serving hot foods, you can always warm them in the oven or nuke them in the microwave before serving.^{[7]
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Buy food at the supermarket. Even if you want to prepare most of your food, there are still things that you will probably want to buy. These include drinks like soda or alcohol, and also snacks like chips and cheese and crackers. You also may want to buy fresh fruit or veggies like strawberries that your guests can enjoy.^{[8]
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- While you are at the supermarket, remember to buy any plates, napkins, cups or utensils your guests will need to eat.

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Setting up the Party

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Clean the space. If your party is at a rented venue, the space should already be ready and set up. However, if you are holding the party at your house or your office, you will likely need to do some major cleaning.^{[9]
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- Start by cleaning all surfaces and putting everything in its place.
- Then take a step back and assess if there is enough room for your guests. If the room feels too cluttered or crowded to hold a large amount of people, start to move things into other rooms to make sure there is enough space for everyone.
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Put out tables and chairs. You will need to put out long tables for holding food. You also should make sure that there are enough chairs to hold about a fourth of your guests. Your guests are going to mingle and walk around, so you don’t need to have as many chairs as you have guests. However, aim enough chairs or couches for elderly guests or for guests who get tired of standing.
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Place the Christmas tree in a central location. The Christmas tree is the most important focal point of a Christmas party. Place the tree so that it’s in a prominent, central location while still not being in the way. Decorate the tree with lights, garlands, and ornaments, and place a star at the very top.
- Remember to plug the lights into an outlet and turn them on before the start of the party.
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Decorate the rest of the space. Make sure the rest of the space follows a Christmas theme by putting out stockings, tinsel, mistletoe, red and green ornaments, and any other decorations that fit the Christmas spirit.^{[10]
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- Don’t skimp on the decorations—a good Christmas party needs plenty of Christmas décor.
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Set up a kids area. If your friends or coworkers are bringing their kids, you will want to set up an area with games or fun activities for them. This will keep kids entertained, occupied and out of trouble!^{[11]
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- Set the kids area slightly apart from the hustle and bustle of the party.
- Consider the ages of the kids coming to the party when picking out games. For instance, Monopoly would be too complex for three year olds, while older children would be bored by toys designed for younger children.
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Set up the food and drinks. Set up food at a long table, with savory appetizers at one end and desserts on the other. Make sure that there are plenty of plates, napkins and utensils at each side of the table so that guests can help themselves.^{[12]
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- Also consider putting out toothpicks if you are serving food like fruit or shrimp cocktail, which are easier to spear than to eat with you fingers or with forks.
- If you are serving hot food, heat it up 30 minutes before guests are scheduled to arrive.
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Turn on music. Make a playlist of your favorite Christmas songs, mixed in with other party music. Use speakers to play the music at a normal volume.^{[13]
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- When making your playlist, think about your audience. Consider that your coworkers and your older relatives may be at the party, and play music that is not too aggressive or too inappropriate.
- If you don’t know what kind of music to play, consider having a site like Pandora make a playlist for you.
- If you are planning a large party at a venue, consider hiring a professional DJ.
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Turn down the lights. Glaring lights can kill a cheerful holiday vibe. Dim overhead lights, and turn on any standing lamps or other light sources. Consider hanging Christmas lights along the walls to give your party a twinkling, warm light.
- You also can put candles on tables and shelves; just make sure that the candles are held in jars, or other safe containers. Also make sure to monitor the candles after you light them, and keep them out of reach of children.^{[14]
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Holding the Party

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Greet your guests as they come in. Part of your role as host is to greet each guest as they join the party. Warmly greet them and ask them how they are. Let them know where everyone is, and that they should help themselves to food and drinks.^{[15]
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- Say something like, “Hi Jasmine, so glad you were able to make it! Come in, everyone is in the living room. Help yourself to food!”
- You can also give your greetings a personal touch by asking or saying something pertaining to each individual. For instance say, “How’s your new job going?” or “Is Chris going to be able to make it?”
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Hang up coats. Also ask your guests as they come in if you can take their coat and/or purses. Either put them on a coat rack, or put them in an unused room so that your guests will be able to pick them up later.^{[16]
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Enjoy yourself. Once all your guests have arrived, go mingle with everyone. Try to chat with at least all of your guests a little bit, and have some food. Remember to smile, and try to enjoy yourself. Remember that everyone who accepted your invitation appreciates the effort that you went through to put on this party.^{[17]
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Don’t drink too much. There’s always one person who drinks a little too much at Christmas parties: make sure that person isn’t you. As host, you are the most critical person at this party, so you don’t want to drink too much and lose focus.^{[18]
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- Even if you feel like drinking could help you feel less nervous, try not to have more than one or two drinks.
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Make an announcement to welcome everyone. About fifteen minutes after everyone has arrived, make an announcement or propose a toast. This is a way of thanking everyone for coming and showing how much it means to you that they are at your party.
- You can say something like, “I just wanted to say, thank you all for coming! It’s so nice to see all of you together. Here’s to a great holiday season!”
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Introduce guests to one another. As host, part of your job is to make sure that your guests are comfortable. It could be that some of your guests only know a couple people at the party, and they may not know how to meet other guests. Make sure to introduce guests who may not know each other and get them started on a conversation.^{[19]
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- An easy way of introducing people is to say something like, “Hey Alyssa, have you met Sally? She was in my class at UMass.”
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Do a gift exchange about halfway through the party. If you are doing a gift exchange, start it about midway through the party. This gives time for your guests to eat, drink and chat with guests.^{[20]
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- Make an announcement like, “Alright, is everyone ready to do Secret Santa?”
- Give your guests instructions about how to exchange gifts. Say something like, “Everyone gather over to this side of the room, and bring your gifts. I’m going to read out who everyone’s Secret Santa is, and when I call your name, go ahead and exchange your gift!”
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Bring the party to a close. At the end of the night, start to wind down the party. Use subtle methods like turning down the music, or putting away food, to signal that the party is over. As your guests leave, smile and thank them for coming.^{[21]
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Community Q&A

Question

Where do you get supplies for your party?

Community Answer

Visit Target, Walmart, or another store that carries not only food, but also Christmas decorations. This way you will be able to do all of your shopping in one go. If you don't already have a Christmas tree, you may also need to get one at a tree lot or at Home Depot.
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I'm having a Christmas Eve party (family only) from 5pm until 8pm. Is this a good time? Because having Christmas the next day and also the distance everyone has to drive to our house makes me think it shouldn't go too late.

Chantel

Community Answer

Yes, I think that is a good time to having the Christmas party because of the distance that everyone has to drive. It also leaves time for everyone to rest after the party for Christmas day afterwards.
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Can I host a small holiday party in my bedroom?

Community Answer

Definitely! As long as it’s all tidy and you have a limited amount of guests. Just decorate your room a bit and bring in some snacks. If you have a TV in your room, you could gather your guests together to watch a Christmas movie.

Warnings

Monitor the drinking going on at your party. If you feel that someone has had too much to drink, find a designated driver to drive them home, or order them a cab.

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