How to Get a Sagittarius Man to Chase You

Last Updated: March 17, 2023 References

Sagittarius men are easy to fall for. They’re fun-loving and courageous, they love to explore, and their enthusiasm for life is infectious! If you’ve been smitten by a Sagittarius man, you’ve probably also noticed their need for space. They may live to chase the unknown, but they’re not exactly interested in chasing a commitment when it comes to romance and relationships. To get the wandering Archer of the Zodiac running after you, you’ll have to show him your bold, spontaneous, life-loving side from a distance. It takes time and patience to reel in a Sagittarius, and we’ve compiled the best tips to help you catch his eye and become his new target.

This article is based on an interview with our astrologer and performance artist, Angel Eyedealism. Check out the full interview here.

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Be less available.

It seems counterintuitive, but a Sagittarius man loves a moving target. As astrologer Angel Eyedealism highlights, "if they're approaching you and coming forward, that's a huge sign of interest." However, she cautions, "the second you become controlling, then they'll take off." Show him you’ve got your own interesting and fulfilling life to live by not being available every time he texts. Your time is valuable! Plus, his inquisitive mind will be interested to hear all about your plans when he finally gets a moment alone with you.^{[1]
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- Avoid cold or terse language if you have to tell him you’re busy. Use a friendly but mysterious tone to keep him wondering what you’re up to. Try something like, “I’d love to see you, but I’ve got plans downtown that night.”

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Reveal yourself slowly.

Sagittarians love puzzles. They are ruled by the planet Jupiter and enjoy piecing things together to broaden their horizons and discover the unknown. To keep a Sagittarius man on your tracks, open up about yourself bit by bit. He may lose interest in you if he hears your entire life story in one sitting at a housewarming party.^{[2]
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- Flirty cliffhangers are a great way to keep your Sagittarius guy crushing on you. Tell him you’ll let him know about your craziest adventure … next time.

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Give him space.

A Sagittarius will lose interest if he feels tied down. Your centaur needs the freedom to explore his ambitions and work towards his lofty goals. Avoid excessive texting and hovering or he may begin to think you’re acting clingy.^{[3]
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Angel Eyedealism
Astrologer & Performance Artist
Expert Interview. 13 January 2022.} Explore your own hobbies and interests while you’re apart so the conversation will spark the next time you see him.^{[4]
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- FOMO (fear of missing out) is a great tool to keep your Sagittarius man chasing after you. Let him wonder what you’re up to. He’ll be dying to hear about it the next time you meet.

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Keep your conversations witty and humorous.

Sagittarius guys love to laugh! High-energy talks full of jokes and fun banter are a great way to engage your crush and massage his valued intellectual side. If he thinks you're too serious up front, he’ll lose interest in getting to know you further. To a Sagittarius man, a little light teasing is a fun and irresistible challenge that will keep him coming back for more.^{[5]
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- This applies to texting too! Flirty GIFs and memes are a fun way to let him know you’re thinking about him without explicitly telling him your feelings.

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Be honest.

Your Sagittarius man wants to know the real you. Don’t pretend to share his interests or fake a laugh at his jokes. The Archer is very perceptive and values the truth. He has a strong code of ethics and will pursue someone when he feels they are on the same moral page, so keep it genuine!^{[6]
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- A Sagittarius guy will lose interest if he feels you are putting on an act to impress him. He doesn’t usually have a “type” and is far more interested in learning about what makes a person unique.^{[7]
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Communicate clearly and directly.

Don’t beat around the bush. It’s easy to overlook, but a little directness does a lot to make you stand out from the crowd. A Sagittarian will appreciate your honest and direct approach, ^{[8]
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Angel Eyedealism
Astrologer & Performance Artist
Expert Interview. 13 January 2022.} and find your way with words impressive. You’ll know he’s really listening to you and wants to hear what you have to say when he reciprocates your openness.^{[9]
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Don’t show too much emotion.

A Sagittarian operates with logic more often than his feelings. This is one of the things that makes it difficult to make him chase after you. A Sagittarius man is more likely to view tears or anger as emotional manipulation than other signs, so keep your conversations cool, calm, and collected.^{[10]
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- Restraining your emotions doesn’t mean you can’t communicate how you feel. Express yourself in simple, honest terms when you feel the need to let him know how you’re doing. Say something like, “I’m sad we didn’t get any alone time together this week” or “I’m excited for our hike this weekend!”

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Speak your mind.

A Sagittarius man appreciates someone who stands out from the crowd. Speak confidently at social gatherings and be unapologetic with your thoughts and opinions. The centaur wants to know his potential partner on a deep and personal level. He’s more likely to chase someone with a strong sense of self than someone who blends in with the crowd.^{[11]
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Put on a unique but casual outfit.

A clean, classic look with a quirky touch appeals to a Sagittarian. Every man is wowed by glitz and glam from time to time, but the Sagittarius guy appreciates a partner that looks clean and well put together day-to-day. A fresh scent paired with bright colored pieces or accents will appeal to his fire sign aesthetic, and a humorous or unique accessory will spark his curiosity.^{[12]
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- Whether you’re dressing up for a big night out or a casual get together, confidence is key! It’s like the old saying goes, “it’s not about what you wear, but how you wear it.”

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Teach him something new.

A Sagittarius man thirsts for knowledge and exploring the unknown. Share a random trivia fact you learned, or show him a new skill you picked up at work. Sagittarians are lifelong learners and seek someone who will help them grow and expand their knowledge over the years. Drop him new information like a trail of breadcrumbs and he’ll be on your trail in no time.^{[13]
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- Text him a cool or flirty new fact to let him know you’re thinking about him. Try something like, “Whoa, I just found out that there’s a real flying bicycle! Made me think of you :)”

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Show him something secret.

Your Sagittarian loves to be in the know. Show him your favorite secluded spot to watch the stars, or take him to the exclusive new club in town with a secret password to get in. He wants to see anything and everything that’s new, different, and exciting. Be his guide to the unknown and he’ll be coming back to you again and again for more.^{[14]
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- Don’t stress about revealing personal or elaborate secrets. Just a hint of something hiding under the surface will be enough to pique his insatiable interest.^{[15]
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Make spontaneous plans.

Your centaurian crush thrives on the unexpected. He’s active, playful, and pretty much down for anything! Ask him if he wants to check out that brand new restaurant downtown tonight, or tell him to pack an overnight bag because you’re driving across the state for his favorite band’s concert tomorrow. The bigger and bolder, the better!^{[16]
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- Your Sagittarius guy craves someone who can make life interesting and exciting. You’ll know he’s into you when he follows your lead on these spontaneous outings.

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Travel, travel, travel!

A Sagittarius man doesn’t like to stay in one place too long. He loves movement and action. ^{[17]
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Angel Eyedealism
Astrologer & Performance Artist
Expert Interview. 13 January 2022.} A well-traveled partner is a must for this wanderer. Tell him about your favorite trips, your foreign adventures, or your dream vacation destinations. He’ll find you irresistible!^{[18]
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- If you’re close enough to plan a trip together, go for it! Take him somewhere he’s never been, whether it’s a new country or a unique hang a few towns over. He’ll lust over your sense of adventure.
- A Sagittarius needs the freedom to travel and wander to his heart’s content. If he invites you to join him on his many excursions, you know he’s chasing after your company.

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Bond over open-air activities.

Your Sagittarian crush won’t feel contained in the great outdoors.^{[19]
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Angel Eyedealism
Astrologer & Performance Artist
Expert Interview. 13 January 2022.} Being outside speaks to his sense of adventure and opens the door to many unexpected and spontaneous pursuits. Stroll through a new neighborhood, or explore an unfamiliar nature park. A Sagittarius man doesn’t shy away from new locales, so the sky is truly the limit!^{[20]
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