How to Know if a Virgo Woman Likes You

Co-authored by Jessica Lanyadoo and Jessica Gibson

Last Updated: March 10, 2022 References

Reserved, shy, and a little introverted, a Virgo woman can seem like a complete mystery. In fact, you may have no idea how she feels about you even though you know you're attracted to her. You might second-guess yourself about whether or not she's into you. To help you decide for sure, check out these signs that show you're capturing a Virgo woman's heart.

1

She's shy or reserved around you at first.

Virgos tend to keep to themselves if they're nervous around you. You might notice this especially if you're hanging out in a group—she might seem talkative and friendly, but around you, she'll be quiet or a little awkward. This could just be because she is interested in you, but doesn't feel comfortable with you yet.^{[1]
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- If you're already friends and she likes you, you might just notice that she makes more eye contact when you're talking.

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She engages in long conversations with you.

Your Virgo will want to talk with you once you get to know each other.^{[2]
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Jessica Lanyadoo
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Expert Interview. 12 November 2019.} This is because Virgos thrive on intellectual stimulation. You'll find that the two of you can talk about anything and everything—no subject is off limits! This is because she wants to develop a deep connection with you.
- Virgos usually prefer to communicate in person, although you might have long conversations on the phone or keep messaging each other back and forth.

3

She rearranges her schedule to make time for you.

If a Virgo likes you, she wants to be around you and she'll involve you in her life. These are very detail-driven, organized people, so if she's willing to reschedule things in order to be with you, take it as a very good sign!
- Don't worry if your Virgo occasionally wants some space. Virgos can be introverted, so she might just want some alone time.^{[3]
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She notices all the little details about you.

If a Virgo woman likes you, she'll pay extra attention to you. You might not realize it, but she's probably been gathering information about you every time you're around each other.^{[4]
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Expert Interview. 12 November 2019.} For instance, she might bring up a movie you mentioned last time you hung out or get your favorite coffee for you.^{[5]
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- Don't be surprised if she notices something about you that you've never realized. If she likes you, she'll want to let you know how great you are.

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She surprises you with lots of nice gestures.

Virgos are thoughtful toward people they love and they love to be helpful. Sure, she probably won't do big, romantic things, but you'll quickly notice that she constantly does sweet, thoughtful things for you every day. She might brew you coffee if you're running late for work, bring you your favorite takeout if you forgot your lunch, or send you a sweet text to see how your day's going.
- This isn't to say that a Virgo woman won't do anything romantic. If she does, take it as a very good sign that she loves you!

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She cooks for you or tidies your space.

Virgos like to feel useful, so it’s a good sign if she wants to care for you! You might come home to find that she's cleaned or organized your space. This is because Virgos love to have things neat and tidy. It's also a good sign if she's made you food—she wants to nurture you!
- Don't take it personally if she cleans up around you. Virgos can't stand clutter or messes, so if she cleans your space, it means she just wants to feel comfortable.

7

She asks for your help.

Virgos are go-getters, so if she enlists your help, it means she values you. Think about it—she's showing her vulnerable side by asking for help. Plus, it shows she trusts you. So, if your Virgo asks you to help her fix something, take it as a sign she likes you.^{[6]
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- Sometimes, she might just ask for your opinion in a personal matter. Consider this to be a good sign since she wants your advice and she's including you in her personal life.

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She takes her time opening up to you.

Virgos are slow to open up in a relationship, but she'll start to share her feelings. Don't worry if you've been together for a while before she starts to talk about her emotions. Virgos are well-known for being reserved or keeping to themselves. If she does talk about herself or her feelings, it's a really good sign she likes you!^{[7]
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- Sometimes, Virgos joke or tease when they're uncomfortable and trying to protect themselves. If your Virgo likes you, she'll let her guard down around you.

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She lets herself be vulnerable.

Virgos tend to be shy and reserved to protect themselves. If she asks you out, tells you how she's feeling, or shows affection, it's a pretty big deal! This means she feels a connection with you and trusts you not to hurt her emotionally.^{[8]
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- Was she the one to ask you out? Take this as a good sign that she really likes you. Virgos usually wait for the other person to make the first move, so she's either tired of waiting or she just really likes you.

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She makes you feel special.

If a Virgo likes you, she'll flirt or surprise you with thoughtful gestures. She may also make a point of touching you when she speaks. She wants you to feel wonderful because you make her feel pretty great, too.
- Your Virgo might even surprise you with gifts. This is a really big deal for her—she's probably spent a lot of time coming up with the perfect present.

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She relaxes and overlooks your faults.

Virgos feel comfortable around people they love and trust. Virgos can't help it if they feel uptight or anxious around others. The fact that she seems calm and relaxed around you means that she's comfortable with you. It's also a good sign if she doesn't nag you about little details that usually bother her.
- For instance, if you usually walk in and throw your jacket on the floor, she won't get upset and tell you to pick it up. Instead, she'll put it away and won't say anything, or you might find that she's installed a hook for your coat.

Expert Q&A

Question

How do you engage a Virgo?

Jessica Lanyadoo
Astrologer & Psychic Medium
Jessica Lanyadoo is an astrologer with over 20 years of consulting experience. She is the author of Astrology for Real Relationships: Understanding You, Me, and How We All Get Along and is the host of the popular astrology and advice show, Ghost of a Podcast. Lanyadoo co-hosted TLC’s digital astrology show Stargazing and writes weekly and monthly horoscopes that help you heal.

Jessica Lanyadoo

Astrologer & Psychic Medium

Expert Answer

Virgo is inherently an introverted sign and when I say introverted, what that means is they tend to be reflective and considerate. They're considering how they feel, they're considering what you're saying, they're considering what you're not saying. Virgos are going to notice everything. If you talk over them, Virgo is going to notice. So being consistent, yet flexible, with your Virgo crush is an effective way of engaging with them.