How to Text a Sagittarius Woman

Co-authored by Angel Eyedealism and Caroline Heiderscheit

Last Updated: December 26, 2021 References

So, you've got your eye on an adventurous and wild Sagittarius woman. Messaging these super independent ladies can be a bit nerve-wracking, but don't stress. You'll find that her warmth, positivity, and general enthusiasm for life will be completely infectious and a total joy in conversation. To help you out though, we've put together some tips for flirting with a Sagittarius woman over text so you can win her over.

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Get flirty.

Flirting is like a Sagittarius woman’s second language. She’ll definitely hope that’s true for her crush, too. This sign is all about fun and playful energy, and what’s more fun and playful than a flurry of flirtatious texts? Try finding a silly way to throw her a compliment over text. Or, jokingly suggest that she’s into you.^{[1]
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- "Just thought you should know that I have 1% battery left on my phone. And who am I using it on?? You. That's quite the compliment. 😉”^{[2]
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- "Aren't you usually in bed by now? I guess you just can’t get enough of me, can you? 👩🏾‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏼"

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Send her happy texts.

More than just about anything, Sagittarius women crave positive energy. She’s the kind of person who knows how to look on the bright side no matter what, and she’ll be stoked if you are, too. Even if you're not feeling particularly optimistic yourself, try sending her a few positive notes on the daily. A Sagittarius woman’s uplifting spirit tends to rub off on the people around her. So the more time you spend texting her, the easier this will probably be!^{[3]
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- Pay attention to the news. If you hear about a happy story that you know she’d enjoy, send it over. Try giving the message a flirty twist if you can. “I'm sending you an article on this guy who fosters kittens. Reading this was the best part of my day (besides talking to you) 🥰. "
- A positive, flirty good morning text will be so appreciated by your Sagittarius crush. “Good morning 🤩. I slept so well. Did you get your beauty sleep? Can't imagine you getting any more beautiful... 😉"

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Be a little sassy.

Small doses of attitude totally enchant Sagittarius women. To flirt with her over text, try adding a dash of sarcasm. This will make the conversation exciting, and even a bit challenging. Sagittarius women love both of those things! If you feel like the two of you have a solid rapport, then try out some of our sassy, flirty texts below to attract your Sagittarius crush.^{[4]
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- Let's say she messages that she's getting ice cream. You could sarcastically fire back with, "Don't worry, I'm fine. I know you were totally about to ask if I wanted some, right? 🙄"
- Or, you could always whip out the classic, "Make me." If the moment comes, this phrase can really elevate the playful tension with your crush. If she suggests you do something, like go to bed earlier, you can follow up with a simple, "Make me."

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Be a little mysterious.

For this sign, an aloof crush will be completely irresistible. A Sagittarius woman is naturally super curious; she sees the world as one giant puzzle she's aching to solve. People, though, are usually not so hard to figure out for the charismatic Sagittarius. So if you can draw her in with a little bit of mystery, she'll be totally into it!^{[5]
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- Try asking more questions than you're willing to answer yourself. Instead, respond to some of her questions with enigmatic answers, like, "You'll have to wait to find that out."
- Or, you could try dangling information in front of her in a flirtatious way. "I was just going to tell you something...but you know what, I don't know if I should... 🤐"
- Texts like this could make you seem super mysterious, and ultimately, cause your Sagittarius crush to swoon.

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Make her laugh.

Joking around will go a long way in her book. Sagittarius women love to laugh and tend to have a pretty impressive sense for comedy. So, you should bring out your best stuff to really make an impression on her. Try out one of these strategies below to help make an impression on your Sagittarius crush.^{[6]
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- Crack her up by texting her some light, flirtatious teasing. If you know she’s a bad cook and that she's not insecure about that fact, you could make fun of her a little for it. "I like you so much, I'd get food poisoning for you. And from what I know about your cooking, my guess is that will definitely happen eventually. 🤢"^{[7]
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- Or, make her laugh with a playful pickup line. "Can I get a picture of you? Christmas is coming up, and I want Santa to know what's topping my wish list..." 😘

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Invite her to experience new things.

Give your Sagittarius crush the opportunity to do something new, and she'll be thrilled. Try to remember when she mentions something that she hasn't done yet but wants to do. Pull together plans and then pass along an invite. Give her enough warning so that she can reserve the day, but don’t worry about catching her by surprise. She finds spontaneity attractive!^{[8]
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- "Remember when you said you'd love to try Icelandic food? I found a place to get some an hour from here. I'd love to take you on Friday. 😻"
- "I got tickets to the ballet next weekend. Get ready to cross that off your bucket list. Wish I was there in person to see you smile! 😍🩰"
- Your Sagittarius crush will be super excited about the offer — and totally into you.

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Play up your strengths.

Instead of faking traits you think she’ll like, try emphasizing your best qualities. Sagittarius women are famous for having no type romantically and also for being able to sense inauthenticity from a mile away. It can be super tempting to try to act a certain way to get a crush to like you, but with Sagittarius women, this isn't probably the wisest choice. She likes all kinds of people for all kinds of reasons, so try playing up one of your many genuine, fabulous strengths!^{[9]
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- If you're a great listener, for instance, show that through your texts. If you know she's had a bad day, you can send a message to say you're there for her. "I don't want to pry, but I know today was rough for you. If you ever wanted someone to talk to, I'm always available. 😊"
- Or, if you're proud of your sense of style, send her an outfit-of-the-day text. A quick mirror selfie with a message like, "What do you think of these shoes with this shirt? Too much?" will show off your style in a casual, fun way.
- Being totally real with your Sagittarius crush will have her head over heals for you!

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Keep it light.

When flirting with a Sagittarius, avoid super heavy subjects. It’s a huge myth that Sagittarius ladies are shallow or never willing to talk about the serious stuff. But it is true that in the beginning, she probably wants you to choose light and fun topics for conversation. You'll be attractive to her if you keep it casual, fresh, and playful!^{[10]
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- Instead of opening up a conversation about your major feelings for her, try mentioning something funny that happened in your day. “Barista: Enjoy your coffee! Me: Thanks, you too. Barista: What? 🤨🤨...Why am I like this.”
- Instead of going for a serious, emotional question, try asking her about her favorite movies as a kid. Try taking a flirty approach, “What was your favorite movie series growing up? Just FYI, if you’re not about to say The Land Before Time, we’re going to have a major issue. 🦕🌋”

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Be blunt.

Sagittarius women love honesty and straightforwardness. When flirting over text, she'll want you to be direct. Definitely avoid mind games or opting for subtle hints. For example, if you want to take her on a date, it’s best to just say so. Check out these text examples below.^{[11]
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- "I was wondering if you’d be free for dinner on Thursday. And before you ask, yes, this would be a date. 😏”
- "I’m going to be straight up with you. I think you’re great. SO great, in fact, that I’d like to take you out on Saturday night. Have any movies you’ve been dying to see? 🍿”

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Keep conversation fresh.

Sagittarius women can get bored super easily. When texting women of this sign, being fresh, spontaneous, and unpredictable is going to be appealing to her. If you feel yourself falling into the same text patterns each day, try shaking things up.^{[12]
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- Play a flirty game with her over text. "How free are you right now? Could I interest you in a quick game of 20 questions? 🤠"
- Send her a random fact. "Did you know bats are the only mammals that can fly?? That completely blew my mind. 🤯🦇"^{[13]
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- Don't be afraid to change the subject. If you feel the conversation with your Sagittarius crush running dry, mix it up. "What actor would play you in a movie about your life? I have some picks, but I'm not sure I'd be able to find anyone as beautiful as you... 🤩"

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Don't grill her.

These women love their independence. So, don’t interrogate her if she isn’t always available. She’s all about random day trips and leaving the device at home, so if she’s hard to reach for a little stretch, try not to read into it. If a Sagittarius woman gets the feeling she's being trapped, she’ll definitely want to bolt. So instead, just remember her long pauses probably don't have anything to do with you!^{[14]
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