Few signs are as compatible as Aquarius and Gemini—lucky for you! As air signs, you're both some of the most individual and eclectic personalities of the zodiac. This means that it's really easy to attract an Aquarius man as long as you let your beautiful, unique Gemini personality shine through. Read on for some great tips to hook your Aquarian guy.

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Start your relationship as friends.

  1. Friendship is crucial to most Aquarians, so really get to know him.[1] This shouldn't be hard for you since Geminis are known for being charismatic. Just enjoy hanging out together without trying to start a romantic relationship. You might become study partners or be friendly co-workers, for instance. He's more likely to be interested once he's totally comfortable and he sees you as a good friend.[2]
    • This is a lot easier to do if you have mutual friends since you can spend time getting to know each other without the pressure of spending time one-on-one.
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Be witty and outgoing around him.

  1. Aquarians are usually nervous about flirting, so you need to initiate it. Since they find romantic situations awkward, just approach your guy casually. Start hinting that you find him interesting and then make your intentions clear. Try to be as original as possible so you really get his attention.[4]
    • For example, you might say, "I think you scared off all those people when you brought up politics. I'm still here though. Want to grab a drink and talk some more?"
    • Pique his curiosity by saying something like, "I don't know if you know anything about auras, but I think yours is beautiful."
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Have stimulating conversations.

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Let him see that you’re spontaneous.

  1. Excitement and adventure are huge attractions for Aquarians! Make a point of always saying yes to trying something new—he'll see that you aren't someone who's caught up in their routine. As a Gemini, you probably find it pretty easy to adapt to new or challenging situations, so really lean into spontaneity!
    • You don't have to wait for him to ask you to do something off the wall. If you do something crazy or novel, tell him about it. For instance, you might describe a helicopter ride you just took, an escape room you successfully broke out of, or a haunted underground tour you went on.
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Give him time to open up emotionally.

  1. Aquarians don't want to feel rushed, so don't expect heartfelt conversations. In fact, your guy would rather that you don't have any expectations about your relationship. Instead, you could focus on your shared need for complete acceptance. Love him for his emotional reserve and he'll notice.
    • It's almost impossible to force a romantic discussion with an Aquarian. He's a fixed sign, so he's a creature of habit. Since you're a mutable sign, you're a bit more flexible. You'll just need to be understanding.
    • Over time, he'll learn that he can trust you. Loyalty is huge for an Aquarian, so let him see that you've always got his back.
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Expert Q&A

  • Question
    How do you make an Aquarius fall in love with you again?
    Stina Garbis
    Stina Garbis
    Psychic Astrologer
    Reverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary.
    Stina Garbis
    Psychic Astrologer
    Expert Answer
    Try going to their house and surprising them in a seductive way! This will possibly drive an Aquarius to want to spend time with you!. A new haircut can also get this sign to pay attention to you again.
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This article was co-authored by Stina Garbis and by wikiHow staff writer, Jessica Gibson. Reverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary. This article has been viewed 27,026 times.
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