How to Get a Boyfriend on Animal Jam

Last Updated: January 7, 2023

Are you looking for a boyfriend on Animal Jam? It can be very difficult to find a boyfriend on Animal Jam if you don't know how to. Once you know how people online date in the game, you'll be able to find the perfect guy for you.

Part 1

Part 1 of 5:

Preparing Yourself

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Choose an animal. Purchase an animal that shows off your style along with a name. For example, if you're girly, don't choose a crocodile named Timid Spikyshadow unless you are experimenting with aesthetics. Instead, you may choose a snow leopard named Happy Kawaiijammer.
- Your animal doesn't have to cost diamonds! As long as you're being yourself, your boyfriend won't mind your animal choice.
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Dress up. Many boys are interested in partners who dress with meaning and look like they're ready to have fun. Try wearing a white crossbow and sparkly earrings, or maybe a baseball cap with a matching tail armor - whatever you do, show off your personal style!
- Be yourself when dressing! If you enjoy dark outfits, don't wear bright pink to impress a boy. Instead, wear fancy clothes in the same color that you enjoy!
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Be true to your personality. If you don't really have an exact personality, just dress up how you like. But don't act fake, because if you end up in a relationship by faking, it may get too tiring, and you won't feel happy around your boyfriend.

Part 2

Part 2 of 5:

Saying "Hey"

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Shout out in Jamaa Township. Say "If you like me say hey" or go up to someone and say "hello"- maybe start a conversation. This will make the people that are interested in you say "hey". You may get a few people to say "hey", so you have a few to choose from. If your conversation goes well, you can become friends and even a couple.
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Tell the people that said "hey" to go to your den. If there is only one guy, he is your new guy, but only if you like him. If you don't like him, stay in the friend zone.
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Set up a quiz if you have to choose. Ask questions like "What is your favorite hobby?" "What do you do in your free time?" and "What do you like about me?" to determine who you like best. If they don't want to be your boyfriend, choose your second favorite guy.
- Your boyfriend should be most like you.
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Work hard. Don't give up if you can't find a boyfriend after 20 to 30 minutes. It's totally normal that you can't find a boy because not many of them are into dating until they get older. Eventually, you will find a guy.

Part 3

Part 3 of 5:

Dating

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Stay calm and be confident. Everyone is nervous when it comes to dating. But don't let it get to your head. Force yourself to say the words, don't mumble on purpose, and if your mind is blank, say something like "How's it going with you?" or something related.
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Buddy him. If he ends up being rude, then you can always unbuddy him. But don't get desperate! Only buddy someone if you really and truly like them. Don't rush into anything, just keep it moving slow and easy.
- Give him a few little hints that you like him, but don't be too specific. Just say stuff like "So, when can we meet again?" or "Let's be buddies, you seem cool".
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Be happy with him. You could plan a marriage ceremony, invite friends only, or have the wedding be open to the public. You may get to adopt a child in the pillow room, too.

Part 4

Part 4 of 5:

Dancing Your Way to Love

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Go to Jamaa Township. This is usually the most populated area.
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Look for a person saying "Prom at my den!" or "Dance party at my den!"
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Attend the party or prom. When you get to a party or prom, look for a boy you like. If you see one, continue to the next step. If not, keep looking.
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Walk up to the boy and say, "Want to Dance?" If he says yes, move closer to him and start dancing. If he says no, keep looking.
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Chat with him. Say "Want to go see a movie sometime?" If he says yes, buddy him and say, "Let's go see it now" and then go to one of the theaters. If he says no, that is okay, but if he doesn't want to go anywhere with you, then you may want to keep searching for a better partner.

Part 5

Part 5 of 5:

Saying Goodbye

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Say Goodbye. When one of you has to go, say, "I had a great time with you! Wanna be my guy?". This makes you appear sweet, loving, and girlfriend material.
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Deal with his response. If he reacts to your affection with something like "Gross!", then unbuddy him. Look for a new boyfriend. If he says "Me too! Sure!" or something related back and leaves, then you have a boyfriend! Wait a while and ask him out in a Jam-a-Gram again.

Warnings

You may not get a boyfriend. That's all right, it's just a game. Look for more creative and fun ways to enjoy your time online.

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The person who you are "dating" might be a pedophile in real life. Don't tell them any of your personal information.

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Don't say inappropriate things; you could get suspended or banned!

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If they ask to meet up in real life, don't do it. Its common sense.

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If the guy that you like seems busy, just wait for him to be available. Don't ruin his concentration.

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Animal Jam is a kids website, not a dating website. You may get suspended/banned.

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Some people may say "Eww!" or "Gross!" when you say "If you like me say hey". This is because they are not ready for boyfriends yet, and don't like the thought of having one at that moment.

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