How to Look Like a Woman

Co-authored by Kalee Hewlett and Megaera Lorenz, PhD

Last Updated: December 4, 2022 References Approved

Whether you're a trans woman, experimenting with drag, or simply want to add some feminine flair to your look, there are many reasons you might want to look like a woman. Women can come in every shape and size and dress in every imaginable style, so there's no one definition of what a woman looks like. However, there are lots of things you can do to make yourself look more traditionally feminine. Choosing the right clothes and makeup can make a big difference. If you want to change your appearance permanently, consider cosmetic surgery or medical treatments.

Things You Should Know

Accentuate traditionally feminine clothing like hosiery, heels, or flowing tops and dresses with body-shaping underwear.
Take advantage of cosmetics to soften your facial features. An even skin tone with shimmery blush, mascara, and lipstick makes a huge difference!
If you want to transition from male to female, talk to your doctor about surgical options or hormone treatments.

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Wearing Feminine Clothing

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Get some body-shaping underwear. Good shapewear (garments designed to compress and control the shape of your body fat) and other body-shaping undergarments (such as padded or push-up bras) can help give you a more womanly frame, making it easier to pull off feminine clothing styles. Experiment with a variety of lingerie to help you achieve the shape you want. For example:^{[1]
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- Bodysuits, girdles, and corsets can tuck in your waist and create a classic “hourglass” figure.
- Body-shaping panties, shorts, and leggings can help lift and round your thighs and butt. Some even come with built-in padding to create a more exaggerated feminine shape.
- Many bras made for small-breasted women are designed to lift the breast tissue and push it together, creating more pronounced cleavage. You can also use silicone gel or inflatable bra inserts to create the illusion of pronounced female breasts.
- Curvy silhouettes and an hour-glass figure can give you a more feminine look.^{[2]
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Highlight your legs with some beautiful hosiery. Tights and nylons can smooth your legs and enhance their shape, creating a classically feminine appearance. Even a pair of simple over-the-knee socks can make your legs look more feminine.
- Some pantyhose are also shapewear, designed to compress and shape the thighs and rear.
Tip: Leg hair can be very visible under a pair of hose, so it's a good idea to wax or shave your legs before wearing them.

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Try tops with soft, flowing details. Ruffles, lace, and flowing fabrics are all traditionally feminine.^{[3]
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- If you wear a loose, flowy top, balance it out with a more tailored bottom, such as an A-line skirt or some high-waisted slacks that accentuate your waist.
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Put on a dress or skirt for a traditionally womanly look. Dresses and skirts are classically feminine, so these are great choices if you want to really embrace your girly side. Many skirts and dresses are also designed to create the illusion of a curvy figure. Look for pieces with features such as:^{[4]
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- Colorblock panels along the sides that make the waist appear narrower compared to the hips and upper torso.
- A tailored or belted waist.
- A peplum (a flared, gathered strip of fabric at the waist that makes the hips appear wider).^{[5]
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- Flattering draping or ruching around the waist and hips, which can minimize the waist and enhance the appearance of curves.
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Wear heels for a sexy, feminine look.^{[6]
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Research source} Not only do they lift and push out your rear, but they also create a more exaggeratedly feminine gait when you walk.
- If you're not used to wearing heels, start with relatively low, wide heels or wedges. Work your way up to tall stilettos.
- Avoid wearing heels too long or too often, since they can eventually damage your feet. This can mean aches, pains, and blisters in the short term, but in the long run you might end up with ingrown toenails, bunions, or even stress fractures in your feet.^{[8]
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Add a few feminine accessories to your look. The right accessories can add a feminine flair to any outfit. Complete your look with a few extras, such as:
- A pretty hair clip or headband
- Some delicate jewelry, such as a dainty necklace or bangle bracelet
- A colorful scarf

Method 2

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Using Feminizing Makeup and Hairstyles

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Use a highlighter to soften your features. While you may be tempted to reach for the contouring makeup, it can actually accentuate your masculine features. Instead, go for a blendable cream highlighter, which can soften your bone structure and make you look more feminine.^{[9]
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- For example, adding a little highlighter to the inner corners of your eyes and the area just beneath your inner eyebrows can soften your browbone.
- You can also use highlighter to add a subtle glow to your nose and cheekbones.
- Gently dab or swipe the highlighter on and then blend it in with your fingertips or a makeup brush, using small, circular motions.
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Cover stubble and undereye circles with concealer. Concealer can even your skin tone and also cover up more obviously masculine features, like a 5 o'clock shadow. If you have traces of facial hair even with a smooth shave, dab a little concealer along your beard line and above your upper lip and gently blend it in with your finger. Tap a little under your eyes as well if you have dark undereye circles.^{[10]
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- Concealers with peach, orange, or reddish undertones are great for hiding a beard shadow.
- Don't rub your concealer when you're blending it. Instead, gently tap it with your fingertips until you get the look you want.
- Start with a small amount of concealer, then slowly build it in layers until you get the desired amount of coverage.
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Even your skin texture with a matte foundation. A matte foundation with full coverage is good for giving your skin a smooth, feminine appearance. It's especially useful for hiding telltale signs of shaved facial hair.^{[11]
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- You can give yourself an even more soft and feminine look by adding a little setting powder after you put on the foundation.
- Choose a foundation that matches the skin tone on your jawline (rather than your hand or your face) for the most natural look.
- When applying your foundation, start from the center of your face (your nose, forehead, and chin) and blend it outward toward your neck, hairline, and the sides of your face.
- Buff the foundation into your skin with a brush, makeup sponge, or your fingertips using small, circular movements.
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Add shimmery blush for a feminine glow. A matte foundation can create a bit of a flat appearance, but you can give your skin a more glowing look by topping it off with a little blush. Select a blush that's slightly shimmery but not glittery, unless you're going for a dramatic evening look.^{[12]
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- If you're using a powder blush, swirl it onto your cheeks and temples with a makeup brush.
- To apply a cream blush, dab it onto your cheeks with your fingertips to gently blend it in.
- Apply the blush in circular motions to the apples of your cheeks (the fullest part) in order to give your face a softer, rounder appearance.
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Give your eyebrows a feminine lift. Men's eyebrows tend to be thicker and lower than women's. To make your brows look more feminine, shape them with an emphasis on thinning them from the bottom and creating a more defined arch. Use a little highlighter or concealer beneath your brows to brighten your eyelid and make your browbone look softer.
- To shape your brows, use an eyebrow pencil to mark in the ideal shape that you would like to create. Tweeze out any hairs that fall outside the lines you've marked, focusing on the undersides of your eyebrows.
- Waxing or threading your eyebrows are good alternatives to tweezing that may be quicker and more comfortable for some people.
- If you're not comfortable shaping your own eyebrows, go to a salon and ask a professional to do it for you.
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Plump up your lashes with mascara. Mascara can dramatically enhance the look of your lashes, making them look darker, longer, and thicker. Choose a black mascara if your hair is brown or black or a brown shade to go with red or blonde hair. Use the wand to sweep a little mascara along your upper lashes, and add some to your lower lashes as well for a more dramatic look.
- You can also enhance your lashes and make your eyes look wider and more feminine by curling your eyelashes. Make sure to do this before you add your mascara, though.
Warning: Watch out for waterproof mascaras, which are very harsh and can eventually damage your lashes.^{[13]
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Fill out your lips with lip liner and highlighter. Making your lips look fuller can instantly feminize your face. While there are plenty of products on the market that can plump up your lips, you can also easily create the illusion of pouty lips with makeup. Use a lip pencil in the same shade as your lipstick to slightly overdraw the outline of your lips, then fill your lips in with the color of your choice. Add a little highlighter to the middle of your lips to create a more rounded appearance.
- For a more natural look, just slightly overdraw the middle part of your upper and lower lip instead of creating a larger outline all the way around.
- Red lipstick can be a bold, feminine statement.^{[14]
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Get soft, side-swept bangs. While longer hairstyles are traditionally more feminine, you don't necessarily need long hair to look like a woman. Instead, focus on creating face-softening bangs. Opt for long, feathery bangs that you can brush to the side or even tuck behind one ear.
- Cutting your own bangs is notoriously tricky, so you'll probably want to get help from a stylist. If you're feeling brave, though, you can try giving yourself some DIY side bangs.
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Soften your hairline with eyeshadow. Find some matte eyeshadow that matches the color of your hair and apply it along your hairline in soft, smooth strokes. While this may sound a little strange, it's a great way to subtly round out and soften she shape of your face. You can also use this trick to fill in any sparse or thinning areas along your hairline.^{[15]
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- Blend a little of the shadow up into your hair to create a more natural-looking transition.^{[16]
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Changing Your Body to Look More Feminine

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Try laser hair removal treatments to reduce face and body hair. Laser hair removal is one of the most effective methods for permanently thinning and reducing face and body hair.^{[17]
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- Laser hair removal works better for some people than others. It's most effective for removing relatively coarse, dark hair.
- Some of your hair will likely regrow after a treatment, so you will probably need to return for multiple maintenance treatments in order to get the best results.
- Follow your dermatologist's home care instructions carefully. For example, they will probably advise you to protect the treated area from the sun until it has time to heal in order to avoid scarring and discoloration.^{[18]
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Work with a plastic surgeon to change your facial structure. If you want to permanently alter your appearance to look more feminine, there are surgical options available. Look for a reputable plastic surgeon who specializes in facial feminization surgery (FFS). Your doctor may be able to recommend someone who can help.^{[19]
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- Depending on the natural structure of your face, FFS may involve a variety of different procedures. Some common ones include lowering of the hairline, reduction of the chin and jaw, reshaping of the forehead, and reduction of the Adam's apple.^{[20]
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Warning: Facial feminization surgery can be very costly, sometimes running as high as $50,000 in the U.S. Since this type of surgery is considered cosmetic, it's not typically covered by medical insurance.^{[21]
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Talk to your doctor about using hormone treatments. If you're interested in transitioning from male to female, using hormone replacement therapy is a common approach to creating a more feminine physical appearance. You'll need to work closely with your doctor and therapist and carefully weigh the risks and benefits of starting this treatment.^{[22]
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- Taking female hormones won't change your voice, but it will change your body and make you appear more feminine.
- Some changes you can expect include a more feminine distribution of body fat (e.g., your hips and breasts will become larger), a reduction of facial and body hair, and a loss of muscle mass.
- It may take several months for you to notice any significant changes.
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Look into gender reassignment surgery. Another treatment option is to undergo gender reassignment surgery. This can involve getting implants to enhance your breasts (“top surgery”), having your genitals reconstructed (“bottom surgery”), or both.^{[23]
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- Gender reassignment surgery may be covered by your insurance, especially if you have a formal diagnosis of gender dysphoria. Check your plan carefully to find out which services are covered and which are not.^{[24]
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- Talk to your doctor or surgeon about what to expect during and after your surgery. Be sure to carefully follow their instructions for both preparation and aftercare.

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How do I dress with a feminine style?

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Femininity is represented in very strong, curvy silhouettes. Go with form-fitting styles that accentuate the shoulders and waist to create the typical hourglass figure. High heels also give a sexy, feminine finish to any look.
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How can I make my lips look more feminine?

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Kalee Hewlett is a Celebrity Stylist & Confidence Coach with almost two decades of experience helping clients build confidence and ‘dress for success.' She works with her clients to transform their sense of self 'from the inside out’ by merging her expertise in image consulting with Neuro-Linguistic Programming. Kalee’s work is rooted in science, style, and the understanding that ‘identity is destiny'. She uses her own methodology and Style To Success Strategy to create positive identity shifts. Kalee is a fashion TV host and appears regularly on QVC UK sharing her fashion expertise. She also was appointed as the head judge and host of Fashion One Network’s 6-part TV show 'Design Genius.’

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Try putting on a bold red lipstick! It will give you a distinct, feminine look.
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Should I wear girl's underwear as well?

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Wearing feminine underwear isn't necessary, but it can help you feel more feminine. If the underwear is designed to shape your figure, it can also help you create the appearance of a feminine physique.