How to Make Your Crush Stop Liking Another Girl

Co-authored by Julia McCurley

Last Updated: January 11, 2022 References Approved

You have a crush on someone, unfortunately, they like someone else. Luckily, you have a chance of making them like you instead. It is actually more helpful for you if they already like someone else. If you start out by being friends and take the right steps from there, your crush's attention will be off of them and onto you in no time. The step below will guide you through making your crush stop liking another girl. if you like them and he like you and your best friend then make a group with him and give him things. ect.cupcakes, snacks, and new things

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Befriending Them

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Put yourself on the radar. When you form a friendship with them, it is okay to create reasons to get together. The more time you spend with your crush, the better.^{[1]
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Expert Interview. 30 September 2021.} Your crush may not be interested in you yet, but you should take this time to comfortably show them your personality and truly get to know them.
- Remember to have an online presence to always remind your crush of your existence.^{[2]
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Find out what your crush likes about this other girl. This part is very important and only possible if you’re friends your crush. Mention their crush in a conversation and see what they say. Don’t settle for answers about how physically attractive she is. There must be more to her that they are attracted to and you have to find out what those traits are.

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Speak nicely. Don’t speak poorly of her. You may think that this will make her look bad, but you’ll be the one looking bad in the end. If you speak poorly of her, he’ll think you’re a negative person. Plus, people love a supportive girl. If you’re bashing your crush's opinions, you’re only hurting yourself.
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Tell your crush their worth. While you don’t want to speak poorly of their current crush, you can start to get their mind out of that relationship by talking your crush up. Tell them that they are the full package and that they deserves the best. Tell them not to settle and that they should go after someone that they are friends with because the relationship will be stronger if that connection is already exists.
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Be fun. While you’re still in the “friend zone,” it is a great time to show your crush your playful side. Everyone likes a girl that laughs at their jokes. They are intrigued by girls that aren’t always serious about everything.^{[3]
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Turning His Attention to You

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Use what you’ve learned. While being friends, you should have learned the likes and dislikes of your crush —about girls and in general. Use these things to your advantage. Show them that the two of you have similar interests in hobbies or activities. Also, show them that you have the personality traits that they are attracted to.
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Stay close to them.^{[4]
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Expert Interview. 30 September 2021.} Don’t lose the friendship that you have created.^{[5]
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Research source} This shows him that you appreciate your crush as a person. When they realize that you are attracted to them, it will help create the image of you as “the whole package.” People want to be with someone that they are friends with and are attracted to.
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Do not change who you are. While you want to adopt the personality traits that your crush is attracted to, you don’t want to completely change who you are.^{[6]
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Research source} Find a way to merge the traits that they like with your own. This way, the relationship has a chance long-term.

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Flirting with them

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Dress to impress.^{[7]
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Expert Interview. 30 September 2021.} When your crush first told you what they were attracted to in their crush, they probably mentioned a specific look that they liked. Try to mimic it. If your crush said they liked a certain part of her body, try to accentuate yours through your outfit. People are undoubtedly attracted by looks, so make yourself appealing.^{[8]
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Interact with your crush. Make your conversations flirty and smile often.^{[9]
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Expert Interview. 30 September 2021.} Lean into him more when the two of you talk, keep laughing as they tell jokes, and create a physical connection. You can touch your crushes shoulder when you’re laughing, take their hand to lead them somewhere, or run your hand through their hair and comment on how nice it is.^{[10]
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- It's important to try to run into them as much as possible in public places to improve your odds of success.^{[12]
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Compliment your crushes body, they will will love your compliments because they will trust you, as a friend, that they are genuine. Also, it will show them that you notice their physical appearance. When you compliment your crush, they may feel the need to give one back, which gets them looking at you.