How to Make a Girl Laugh

Co-authored by John Keegan and Amber Crain

Last Updated: February 3, 2022

Making a girl laugh is a great way to form a connection with her. If she’s smiling and laughing, you know she’s having fun! If you’re not sure how to make girls laugh, don’t worry -- you have tons of options. Build up a stock collection of funny stories and good one-liners, and don’t be afraid to be a little goofy sometimes. Try to get a feel for what she thinks is funny and skew your humor in that direction. When you aren’t around her, try sending a few hilarious texts to get her LOLing!

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Being Funny in Conversation

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Build up a repertoire of funny stories. While you don’t want your hilarious anecdotes to feel too staged, it’s a good idea to have a stock collection of amusing stories that you can reference in a pinch. Stick with general topics that are light and fun and try to avoid stories that are gross or intimate unless you know the girl well. Remember -- just because your friends think it’s hilarious doesn’t mean she will!^{[1]
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- Think about some amusing stuff that’s happened to you in the past, like the time you wore your shirt inside out for school pictures.
- If you have a pet, you’ve probably got some hilarious pet stories to share!
- To keep things fresh, frequent a few funny websites like The Onion and draw from those when you need inspiration.
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Memorize some quality one-liners. One-liners are not the tools to reach for when you want to show off your sharp wit, but they can be great when you want to be silly. The cornier, the better! You can make them about her or go with something more general. Avoid awkward one-liners that are sexual in nature though. Contrary to popular belief, girls don’t find those very funny -- you might even make her uncomfortable. A few examples of fun one-liners you can try:^{[2]
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- “Did you tie my shoelaces together? Because you got me trippin’ over you, girl!”
- “You have something beautiful on your face. Oh wait, that’s just you.”
- “A computer once beat me at chess, but it was no match for me at kick boxing!”
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Create your own style of humor by playing to your strengths. Think about stuff you do or say that cracks up your friends on a regular basis, especially your female friends. If you’re great at physical humor, go with that. If you're a master of mimicry and impersonations, give those a try. If sassy comebacks are your thing, try a few of those in her presence. Just make sure they’re lighthearted and not malicious!^{[3]
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- If you aren't sure what your strengths are, ask your friends.
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Learn to laugh at yourself. Don’t go off the deep end with self-deprecation, but targeting some silly things about yourself may crack her up. Draw from your personal experiences or learn to poke fun at yourself in the moment. For example, if you trip over something when you’re walking with her, you could say, “Well, there goes my dream of becoming a runway model!” This lightens the mood and also shows her that you’re laidback and comfortable with yourself.^{[4]
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- Try not to rely on this tactic too heavily, since it can get awkward or just plain unfunny after a while. However, an occasional, well-placed joke at your own expense can be priceless.
- Expect your humor to fall flat on occasion. In these cases, use the bad joke to make another and get the conversation going again.
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Make funny comments based on past conversations or situations with her. This can be something as simple as, “Remember that time in history class when…” and then filling in the blank with a good anecdote. Or try to make a funny comment based on something she’s told you before – not only will she laugh, but she’ll probably be flattered that you remembered that detail.^{[5]
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- For example, if she told you she loves fashion, ask for her professional fashion advice and describe a terrible or ridiculous outfit you’re planning to wear to an upcoming event.

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Sending Funny Texts

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Realize the potential of a hilarious meme. Memes aren’t always funny, but every now and then you probably run across one that’s comedy gold, right? When you do, save the image and send it to her via text. You won’t be able to hear her laugh, but you’ll probably get an all-caps “LOL” out of it! If you know she likes something in particular, look for memes on that specific topic.^{[6]
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- If she’s a Game of Thrones fanatic, for example, your options are practically endless! If she loves animals or fashion, look for memes about those things.
- Avoid sending her a constant barrage of memes, though. Some people may find this annoying or just plain weird.
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Send her links to funny YouTube videos. Look for clips of stand-up comedians, for example, especially if they’re riffing on something you know she likes or finds funny! Or you can go with something simpler, like a collection of animal bloopers or a scene from her favorite comedy television show.^{[7]
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- For example, if you know she loves the TV show Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt, you can definitely find some amusing clips to send to make her smile.
- Try to avoid sending these to her constantly, but every once in a while a funny video will no doubt crack her up.
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Search for funny GIFs you can share or make your own. GIFs are much shorter than videos and plentiful on the internet, so your supply is basically endless. Tumblr is a great place to look for funny GIFs, or just search for “GIFs + any topic she likes” and see what you turn up.
- If all else fails, download a meme generator app and create your own!
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Take a silly picture of yourself and slap a funny Snapchat filter over it. This isn’t exactly a fresh tactic, but it can still be pretty hilarious! There are tons of filters to choose from, so go through and experiment with a couple. If you find yourself doubled over in laughter after creating one, it’s highly likely that she’ll also think it’s funny.^{[8]
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- She may even reciprocate with one of her own to keep the joke going!
- You could also send her funny photos of yourself, like baby photos.

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Using the Right Kind of Humor

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Choose the right time for humor. When it comes to being funny, timing is everything! This is especially true when it comes to the situation at hand. For example, if one of you knocks over a drink at a restaurant, that’s a great time to make a silly joke – it’ll lighten the mood. If she’s upset about something going on in her life, though, tread carefully.^{[9]
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- If her pet just died or she failed a math test, trying to cheer her up with witty one-liners may fall flat or possibly upset her more.
- If you're going through something or just not feeling particularly funny that day, don't try to force it.
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Try to get a feel for what she finds funny and work with that. Every girl is different, so try to adapt to her personality to make her laugh. Ask her simple questions to gather the intel you need. For example, you could say something like, “Did you watch Stephen Colbert last night?” If she says yes, she probably likes political satire! If she brings up a certain movie or television show, work with that type of humor.
- For example, if she mentions Portlandia or an episode of SNL, that gives you an idea of what she likes.
EXPERT TIP

John Keegan
Dating Coach
John Keegan is a dating coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. He runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.

John Keegan
Dating Coach

Our Expert Agrees: Everyone has their own sense of humor, so when you're getting to know someone, you want to feel them out. For example, you might have a darker sense of humor or say very extreme things, but it's best to start subtle and see how the person responds to it. If they respond to it well and they're laughing, you can amp it up.
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Keep the tone light. Some girls love dark humor and sarcastic comebacks, so if you are certain she’s into that, go for it! In general, though, it’s better for everyone if you keep things light and fun. Being sarcastic or cynical right off the bat might come off as aggressive or weird. If you’re dropping gallows humor nonstop, she might eventually get tired of that vibe or feel that it’s just a bummer in general.^{[10]
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- Definitely avoid making sarcastic remarks aimed at her, especially if you don’t know her well.
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Laugh with her and not at her. Laughter is infectious and enjoying a humorous situation together can help cement your bond or make her more attracted to you. However, make sure you're not laughing at her expense. If you're laughing and having a good time, you want her to be doing the same.
- Mimicking her sense of humor is one way to laugh with her. If it's risqué, for example, use off-color humor, too. Keep it natural if you can: if your humor is naturally sunny and gentle, adopting a dark, sarcastic style could come across as forced.
- Only follow her lead once you're sure of her style of humor. Forgive nervous silliness on her behalf if she seems unsure of how to react.
- Ask about her favorite comedians, funny movies, or sitcoms. Watch or reference them when you are together to help stimulate a relaxed and funny atmosphere.
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Don’t feel that you have to be funny all the time. Everyone likes to laugh and have fun, but sometimes people want to have a serious conversation or share something intimate with you. If you’re cracking jokes 100% of the time, she may not take you seriously, or feel that she can’t share anything intimate with you because you’ll use it as joke fodder. Be sure to switch things up occasionally so she sees you as a multi-dimensional person.^{[11]
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EXPERT TIP

John Keegan
Dating Coach
John Keegan is a dating coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. He runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.

John Keegan
Dating Coach

If she doesn't get your humor, consider whether she's right for you. If a person doesn't get your sense of humor, it's likely to be difficult to have a good relationship with them. We use our humor to release our stress, our problems, and the things that bother us. If your partner doesn't get that humor, you're not going to be able to really be yourself in the long run.

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Community Q&A

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How would you attempt to make her laugh over the phone? Would talking often help or is there a type of humor that floats around to every girl?

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Most of the same humor that works in person will translate over the phone really well! Get a feel for the topics she thinks are funny and try to keep your tone lighthearted and fun. Tell funny stories from your past or amusing things that happened to you that day. Avoid picking on her or aiming your jokes at her personally.
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What if she is reserved?

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Keep your humor general and light and try to get a feel for what she likes before you start cracking jokes. Definitely avoid jokes that are gross, graphic, religious or sexual in nature!
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How can I make a girl that I like laugh? She doesn't laugh at some of my jokes when I tell them.

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Take note of what she didn't find funny with your previous jokes and avoid jokes like that in the future. Try to get a feel for what she likes and thinks is funny, then tailor your jokes to fit those subjects. Keep your jokes lighthearted and just try to have fun with her!