This article was co-authored by Jessica George, MA, CHt and by wikiHow staff writer, Hannah Madden. Jessica George is a Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Professional Master Life Coach, and Co-Founder of Evolve Therapy Coaching based in Glendale, California. With more than 20 years of experience, she specializes in hybrid therapy and coaching services, couples counseling, and clinical hypnotherapy. Jessica holds a Bachelor’s degree from The University of California, Santa Barbara and an MA in Counseling Psychology and Talk Therapy from Ryokan College. Jessica is trained in the Imago technique and the Gottman method for couples therapy. She also earned a Professional Life-Coach Certification from The Fowler Academy and an Infinite Possibilities Relationship Certification. She is a member of the International Board of Coaches and Practitioners (IBCP).
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Ah, the honeymoon phase—the era of your relationship where your partner is perfect and can do no wrong. As that phase starts to fade (usually after a year or so) and you two get more comfortable with each other, you might notice some differences in your relationship. In this article, we’ll tell you everything you need to know about what happens after the honeymoon phase and what you can expect going forward with your partner.
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QuestionWhat should I do when I have suddenly lost feelings for my boyfriend?Luis CongdonLuis is a Relationship Coach, specializing in helping couples who want a long and happy relationship together. Luis has worked in one of the United States' largest research studies on marital longevity using the framework of Drs. John & Julie Gottman. As a researcher on marital happiness and a relationship coach, Luis has worked with over 1,000 couples, written for the Gottman Institute, spoken at colleges and universities across the United States, been featured in Forbes magazine, and has led over 150 relationship-building classes.
Relationship CoachTalk with your partner about what's on your mind. In some cases, you may come to discover that negative emotions were obscuring your actual feelings for your boyfriend. -
QuestionWhat do you do after the honeymoon phase is over?Jessica George, MA, CHtJessica George is a Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Professional Master Life Coach, and Co-Founder of Evolve Therapy Coaching based in Glendale, California. With more than 20 years of experience, she specializes in hybrid therapy and coaching services, couples counseling, and clinical hypnotherapy. Jessica holds a Bachelor’s degree from The University of California, Santa Barbara and an MA in Counseling Psychology and Talk Therapy from Ryokan College. Jessica is trained in the Imago technique and the Gottman method for couples therapy. She also earned a Professional Life-Coach Certification from The Fowler Academy and an Infinite Possibilities Relationship Certification. She is a member of the International Board of Coaches and Practitioners (IBCP).
Certified Professional Master Life CoachThe honeymoon phase is a one and done. It is crucial in any relationship to make sure that we do not turn into roommates. We need to make time for each other and our pursuits that we enjoy together. If we stray from this, we run the risk of further separation.
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- ↑ Jessica George, MA, CHt. Certified Professional Master Life Coach. Expert Interview. 11 February 2022.
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/blog/are-white-lies-ok-in-romantic-relationships#1
- ↑ Jessica George, MA, CHt. Certified Professional Master Life Coach. Expert Interview. 11 February 2022.
- ↑ Luis Congdon. Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 3 September 2021.
- ↑ Luis Congdon. Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 3 September 2021.
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- ↑ Luis Congdon. Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 3 September 2021.
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- ↑ Jessica George, MA, CHt. Certified Professional Master Life Coach. Expert Interview. 11 February 2022.
- ↑ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/what-is-the-honeymoon-phase/
- ↑ https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-3-phases-of-love/
- ↑ https://www.abc.net.au/everyday/what-happens-when-your-relationship-loses-the-sexual-spark/10929576
- ↑ https://www.mentalhelp.net/blogs/the-4-stages-of-dating-relationships/
- ↑ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/what-is-the-honeymoon-phase/
- ↑ https://www.gq.com/story/how-often-do-happy-couples-have-sex
- ↑ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/what-is-the-honeymoon-phase/
- ↑ https://time.com/5402188/how-to-fight-healthy-partner/