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First dates can be a little nerve-wracking, especially if you aren’t sure how to act or what to talk about. It’s all about getting to know the other person and letting them get to know you, so be yourself! By making a good first impression and coming up with a few topics of conversation, you can have fun on your first date and learn new things about your potential romantic partner.
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If you’re unsure how to act on a first date, make sure you turn your phone off or on silent so you can give your date your full attention. Don’t be afraid to compliment them on their appearance and personality by saying something like, “Wow. You have a really nice smile.” To start interesting conversations, ask open-ended questions like, “What was it like where you grew up?” When they ask you questions back, try to give detailed answers instead of a few words to tell them about who you are too. In general, if you aim to listen to your date for as long as you talk, you should maintain a balanced conversation. For more tips, including how to monitor your body language on a first date, read on!