If you're an earthy Capricorn woman who wants to lock down a fiery Aries man, rest assured that sparks will fly. You're talking about the Goat meeting the Ram—as in nature, you have a tendency to lock horns. But you're also not one to back down from a challenge, are you? Lucky for you, neither is he! Read on to discover all the best tips and tricks you can use to grab and hold the attention of that spirited Aries.

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Talk about your goals and ambitions.

  1. Aries and Capricorn are two of the most ambitious signs of the zodiac. He'll definitely feel like he's found his match when he realizes you're just as ambitious as he is. It's advantageous if you have different interests, though, so you aren't directly competing with each other.[1] [2]
    • You might tell him about your 5- or 10-year plans to advance in your chosen field. If you've spearheaded any projects recently, you might brag about those as well.
    • If you're still in school, you might tell him about your plans after graduation.
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Turn the spotlight on him.

  1. Rams love being the center of attention.[4] As a Capricorn, you're likely more reserved, so you're happy to stand to the side. Throw him a genuine compliment and bask in his glow. He'll adore feeling as though he's the star of your show.
    • Compliment him on things he does rather than just on his looks—he'll appreciate it a lot more. He'll also see that you're really focusing on him, which he loves.
    Expert Answer
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    What does an Aries man like in a woman?

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    Reverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary.
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    Aries are into themselves. I wouldn’t advise becoming a competitor to Aries and trying to do everything that they do, but rather, be a spectator or do something to complement them. Be their favorite fan or collaborator and cheer them on and they will love and adore you.

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Show a willingness to compromise.

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Give him stability and structure.

  1. Rams secretly crave the security that comes naturally to you. If you're a typical Capricorn, you leave nothing to chance. You have everything planned out and then you don't stray from that plan. Your Aries guy tends to be a bit more impulsive, but your planning gives him a base of security that makes his impulses less risky.[6]
    • Essentially, you set the parameters for him and then give him the freedom to act within those parameters. For example, if you're planning a date, you might choose the date and time and then let him decide what you're going to do.
    • You also give him more freedom by making backup plans. Did his spur-of-the-moment romantic picnic gets rained out? That's okay—you made backup reservations at his favorite restaurant.
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Let him take the lead from time to time.

  1. An Aries guy tends to have a dominant nature and likes to be in charge. It's a funny thing about you when it comes to relationships. Though typically dominant in work and life, as soon as you start to catch feelings for someone, you become downright submissive, right? It's nothing to be embarrassed about—this is actually a pretty normal thing for Capricorn ladies in relationships.[7]
    • You're too independent to let him have complete control over your life, but that's fine with him—he doesn't want it. He has an independent streak as well and doesn't want a partner who relies on him to make every decision.
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Expert Q&A

  • Question
    What does an Aries man like in a woman?
    Stina Garbis
    Stina Garbis
    Psychic Astrologer
    Reverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary.
    Stina Garbis
    Psychic Astrologer
    Expert Answer
    Aries are into themselves. I wouldn’t advise becoming a competitor to Aries and trying to do everything that they do, but rather, be a spectator or do something to complement them. Be their favorite fan or collaborator and cheer them on and they will love and adore you.
  • Question
    How do you tell if an Aries man is interested in you?
    Stina Garbis
    Stina Garbis
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    Reverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary.
    Stina Garbis
    Psychic Astrologer
    Expert Answer
    If an Aries is spending time with you, that's a big indicator that they are interested in you. If an Aries is fighting with you, then they fiercely love you, but may need to find better ways to understand or express it.
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