How to Be Irresistible in Middle School (Guys)

Last Updated: February 17, 2022

Want to pick up chicks in sixth, seventh, or eighth grade? Lucky for you, this article has some steps that will help any guy be irresistable in middle school.

Method 1

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Personal

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Take care of yourself. If you are a raggedy, dirty, bad-smelling guy, you are an immediate turn off for anyone- girls and boys alike. Be healthy, bearing in mind any chronic conditions and make the most of your physical attributes.
- Shower regularly, not daily. Twice a week is good because some studies show that a small bacterial build-up is actually good for your body.
- Comb/brush your hair every day. Bed head can sometimes go in your favor, but it's better to play it safe. Find a hairstyle that works for you and use it every day.
- If you feel the need, groom your eyebrows.
- Use deodorant or any antiperspirant. Smelling good is absolutely necessary if you don't want to drive a girl away.
- Brush, floss and use mouthwash on a bidaily basis.
- Get plenty of sleep. Tired, bag-ridden guys look like zombies, and that is not going to attract anyone.
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Understand that girls don't see "hot" until high school. If you want someone to date you in middle school, you need to understand that until high school, most girls don't think guys their age are "hot"; they see "cute" and "adorable" instead.
- Shave whatever you're trying to grow. One of the best methods to look cute to girls is to look boyish, and facial hair will not accomplish that whatsoever. Don't worry about not looking "manly" around your guy friends who have some decent stubble- you'll look a lot more manly if you get a lady friend.
- If at all possible, be a little chubby. Some girls like guys with a little extra (but not too much) body weight because they think it is, as already mentioned, "cute".

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At School

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Focus primarily on academics. A guy who is smart is a major attraction to girls. If you have bad grades, a girl is less likely to be attracted to you because she doesn't want to look bad.
- Complete all assignments, homework, and projects on time and to the best of your ability. You are capable of many things if you put in the effort, and that effort is very attractive to girls.
- Keep your binder, notebooks, backpack, locker, desk, etc. organized.
- Learn more about the topic than required.
- Pay attention in class, take notes, and ask questions when you don't understand something.
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Participate in extracurricular activities. If you are into any sport your school offers, take it. Girls love athletes. Even if sports aren't your thing, there are tons of opportunities at your school for you to present yourself in a way you don't often get to.
- Whatever you end up doing, work your butt off (sometimes literally!) to be the best you can. Girls love guys who do something special, but they definitely like guys who do it well better.

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Personality

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Don't be a heartless jerk. That is just going to make the girl hate you, and much less want to date you. Be kind to everyone, even if the favor isn't returned. It'll become a habit, and you'll feel better as a person.
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Be, as girls say, "sweet". Even if you aren't theoretically dating the girl, give her small things. Try giving girls you like a small portion of your lunch. If you feel the need, get her flowers, a drink, or something similar.
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Be a gentlemen. Use your manners, hold the door open for her, say please and thank you, things of that nature. A respectful man is an attractive man.

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Body/Interests

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Keep your hair done and not scruffy. This applies to all hair. Brush and comb it every day, and clean it well when you shower.
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Pick up an instrument, especially guitar. Learning how to sing is a massive help too. If you can learn some basic love songs, like the following, it may help a girl fall in love with you.Songs:
- She's Always a Woman - Billy Joel
- Your Love - The Outfield
- Beast of Burden - The Rolling Stones
- The Man Who Lives Forever - Lord Huron