Cancer and Libra Compatibility: Love, Sex, and More

Written by Angel Eyedealism | Edited by Dan Hickey

Last Updated: March 29, 2023

Can the introverted Cancer break out of their shell to date the adventurous Libra? The moody Crab and effervescent Scales have different approaches to life, but they actually have more in common than you’d think. We’ve consulted astrology experts to get the full scoop on Cancer-Libra compatibility. Read on for our comprehensive guide!

This article is based on an interview with our astrologer and performance artist, Angel Eyedealism. Check out the full interview here.

Section 1 of 6:

Can a Cancer-Libra relationship work?

Both signs value commitment and want to make their partner happy. They may have a hard time understanding each other at first, but that’s part of the intrigue. Cancer and Libra are square on the zodiac wheel (90 degrees apart), which means it will be a fun challenge to learn about each other’s different points of view. Libra will be drawn to Cancer’s calm and steady presence, and Cancer will love Libra’s sense of fun.
- Cancer and Libra are both cardinal signs, meaning they don’t shy away from initiation and innovation. They’re willing to experiment with new things to make their relationship work.
- Cancer is a moody water sign ruled by the moon (which governs emotions) who craves emotional closeness above all else.
- Libra is an intellectual air sign governed by Venus (the planet of love) who needs plenty of novelty and excitement to feel fulfilled.

Section 2 of 6:

Emotional Compatibility

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Cancer is prone to mood swings while Libra craves balance and peace. As a water sign, Cancer needs to express their feelings and feel like their emotional needs are met. This can irritate Libra, who doesn’t like when people “rock the boat." They do want their partner to be happy though, so they'll constantly try to balance things.
- Both signs can hold grudge when they feel disregarded. Cancer and Libra need to communicate openly to avoid misunderstandings and hurt feelings.
- Libra is the glass-half-full ray of sunshine Cancer needs. Cancer tends to be melancholy, and Libra is attracted to the opportunity to raise their spirits.
- Libras thrive when they can balance their energy with their partner’s and diplomatically solve a tense situation. In this way, they often find themselves through their partner.
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Libra and Cancer can trust each other to commit to their relationship. Neither sign is quick to give up on their partner when things get tough. However, Libra is a natural social butterfly and all sorts of people are drawn to them. Possessive Cancer may get jealous when they see Libra being the life of the party. Cancer will have to learn to be more secure and Libra will have to reassure their partner frequently to avoid an argument.^{[1]
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- Trust between these two blooms when Libra’s compromising nature and Cancer’s supportive and caring persona connect to build a strong relationship.

Section 3 of 6:

Intellectual Compatibility

Cancer and Libra are both intelligent and will have lots to talk about. They’re an especially effective team when it comes to creative projects and problem-solving. Co-planning can be a challenge, however. Practical Cancer believes in getting things done, whereas Libra is more of an ideas person. Travel is a great bonding activity since Cancer has a secret desire to travel the world and Libra needs to see and try new things.
- Finding activities they both enjoy is a challenge. Nostalgic Cancer likes traditional things, whereas Libra craves new experiences and novelty.
- Socially, Cancer is a homebody while Libra thrives in large groups. Libra needs to reassure insecure Cancer and give them lots of attention in public.
- This couple’s elegance, grace, and intelligence will shine at any social gathering or party they attend together.

Section 4 of 6:

Communication Compatibility

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Libra will lay the flirting on thick to get Cancer’s attention. Libra is one of the best flirters in the zodiac and they’re most likely to make the first move on the more reserved Cancer (who will probably feel overwhelmed by Libra’s charm).^{[2]
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Research source} The first date might be a little awkward—Libra has no problem being outspoken and sharing opinions freely, but Cancer is less likely to open up at the same pace.^{[3]
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- As they get to know each other, they’ll grow to value and learn from these differences and their conversations will become more free.
- Both signs have a love of nice things and gourmet food. A nice restaurant would make a great first date location.
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Cancer calls it like it is, but Libra tends to sweep things under the rug. Cancer’s direct communication style is shocking to Libra, who likes to stay non-confrontational to keep the peace. This can make sensitive Cancer feel insecure if they suspect their Libra isn’t being fully honest with them. Thankfully, both signs can be very patient with each other and reach an understanding.
- When Cancer has space to let their feelings out and Libra can talk things out, there’s nothing they won’t be able to communicate about.
- Cancer can tell when Libra is acting evasive. A Libra won’t come out and say what’s on their mind, but they’ll stay incredibly polite and detached until the drama has passed.

Section 5 of 6:

Sexual Compatibility

If they get on the same page, their physical relationship can be next level. Cancer needs a strong emotional connection to fully enjoy intimacy and they prefer to take things slow in the bedroom. Libra is fast-paced and develops a stronger bond after they’ve experienced a physical relationship (they’re also more likely to have more past partners, which might make Cancer feel insecure).^{[4]
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Research source} On the upside, this tension can ignite a striking passion.
- When both signs are open to trying new things to please each other, they’re in for a fulfilling, exciting time.
- Sex between Cancer and Libra feels more natural when they ease in from a position of friendship since they’ll have the familiarity they both need.

Section 6 of 6:

The Bottom Line

Cancer and Libra definitely have what it takes to date successfully. It might be hard to find common ground at first, but their mutual need and respect for loyalty, trust, and a fulfilling connection will inspire them to make it work. They should make an effort to get to know each other and give themselves plenty of time to consider a partnership before writing it off.
- When Cancer and Libra date, there’s no end to the fun, discovery, closeness, and rewards they can find.
- Libra should focus on honesty to communicate their needs and feelings clearly. They also should learn not to take Cancer’s blunt honesty very personally.
- Cancer should keep their cool during mood swings since Libra appreciates balance. The more flexible they are, the more fun they'll experience with Libra.

Expert Q&A

Question

What are Libras attracted to?

Angel Eyedealism
Astrologer & Performance Artist
Angel Eyedealism is an Astrologer and Performance Artist based in the Lower East Side of Manhattan. With nearly three decades of astrology experience, Angel specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography. Eyedealism has been featured in numerous media outlets such as Vogue, Cosmopolitan, The Atlantic, The Washington Post, Refinery29, NBC, MTV, Showtime, and Bravo. Angel aims to help others through a straightforward, kind, and humorous astrological lens, utilizing her entertainment and singing skills for performance art astrology readings.

Angel Eyedealism

Astrologer & Performance Artist

Expert Answer

Libras really love refined and attractive people who appeal to their sense of aesthetics. They're definitely not into people who are rude or gross.