This article was medically reviewed by Lacy Windham, MD. Lacy Windham, MD, is a Board-Certified Obstetrician & Gynecologist in Cleveland, Tennessee. Dr. Windham attended medical school at the University of Tennessee Health Science Center in Memphis. Her residency was completed at Eastern Virginia Medical School in Norfolk, Virginia. She was the recipient of multiple awards during her residency training, including Most Outstanding Resident in Maternal Fetal Medicine, Most Outstanding Resident in Oncology, Most Outstanding Resident Overall, and Special Award in Minimally Invasive Surgery.
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Whether you're an expectant parent or an unsuspecting cabbie, the time may come when you are called upon to help deliver a baby with no professional help in sight. Don't worry — people have to do this all the time. Most of what you need to do is help the mother relax and let her body do the work. That being said, there are steps you can take to ensure that everything goes as smoothly as possible until help arrives.
Steps
Preparing for the Birth
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1Call for help if possible. Contact emergency services. That way, even if you have to deliver the baby yourself, help will arrive soon if you experience complications. The dispatcher should also be able to either talk you through the delivery or connect you to someone who can.
- If the mother has a doctor or midwife, call that person too. The medical professional can often stay on the phone and help guide you through the process.[1]
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2Determine how far labor has progressed. The first stage of labor is called the “latent” stage, where the body is getting ready to deliver by dilating the cervix. It can take a long time, especially if this is the woman's first child.[2] The second, or “active” stage occurs when the cervix has completely dilated.[3]
- Women may not experience as much pain or discomfort during this stage as later stages.
- If the woman is fully dilated, and you can see the baby's head crowning, she's in stage two. Wash your hands, skip to the next section and get ready to catch the baby.
- Unless you have been trained to do so, don't try to examine the cervix. Just watch to see if the head begins to appear.
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3Time contractions. Time the contractions from the beginning of one to the beginning of the next, and note how long they last. The further along labor is, the more regular, stronger, and closer together contractions become.[4] Here's what you need to know about contractions:
- Contractions that are 10 minutes apart or less are a sign that the mother has entered labor.[5] Physicians recommend that you contact the hospital when contractions are 5 minutes apart and last 60 seconds, and this activity has been going for an hour.[6] If this is the case, you probably have time to make it to the hospital if you live close to one.
- First-time mothers are likely to give birth when contractions are three to five minutes apart and last 40 to 90 seconds, increasing in strength and frequency for at least an hour.[7]
- If the contractions are two minutes or less apart, buckle down and get ready to deliver the baby, especially if the mother's had other children and they were fast labors. Also, if the mother feels like she's going to have a bowel movement, the baby is probably moving through the birth canal, creating pressure on the rectum, and is on its way out.
- If the baby is preterm then you should contact the mother's physician and emergency services at any signs of labor.
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4Sanitize your arms and hands. Remove any jewelry, such as rings or watches. Wash your hands thoroughly with antimicrobial soap and warm water. Scrub your arms all the way up to your elbows. If you have the time, wash your hands for five minutes; if you don't have time for that, wash them thoroughly for at least one minute.[8]
- Remember to scrub in between your fingers and under your nails. Use a nail brush or even a toothbrush to clean under your nails.[9]
- Wear sterile gloves if available. Don't wear things like dishwashing gloves, which are likely loaded with bacteria.
- To finish (or if you don't have access to soap and water), use an alcohol-based hand sanitizing product or rubbing alcohol to kill off any bacteria and viruses that may have been on your skin. This helps prevent giving the mother or the baby an infection.
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5Prepare a birthing area. Get set up so that you have everything you'll need within easy reach, and so the mother is as comfortable as possible. There will be a mess afterwards, so you may want to have the birthing area somewhere you don't mind getting messy.[10]
- Collect clean towels and clean sheets. If you have clean waterproof tablecloths or a clean vinyl shower curtain, these are excellent at preventing blood and other fluids from staining furniture or carpeting. In a pinch, you can use newspapers, but they are not as sanitary.
- Get a blanket or something warm and soft to wrap the baby in. The infant must be kept warm once it's delivered.
- Find a few pillows. You might need them to prop up the mother as she's pushing. Cover them with clean sheets or towels.
- Fill a clean bowl with warm water and get a pair of scissors, a few lengths of string, rubbing alcohol, cotton balls, and a bulb syringe. You may find that sanitary napkins or paper towels are helpful to stop the bleeding later.
- Get a bucket in case the mother feels nauseated or the need to vomit. You may also want to get a glass of water for the mother. Labor is hard work.
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6Help the mother stay calm. She may feel panicky, rushed, or embarrassed. Do your best to remain calm and reassuring to help her relax.
- Ask the mother to undress from the waist down. Provide her with a clean sheet or towel to cover up, if she'd like.
- Encourage her to breathe. Avoid hyperventilation by speaking in a low, soothing voice and verbally directing her breathing. Encourage her to inhale through her nose and out through her mouth in an even, rhythmic manner. If you're still having trouble, hold her hand and take deep, slow breaths along with her.[11]
- Reassure her. This is probably not the birthing experience she had in mind, and she might be worried about potential complications. Tell her help is on the way, and you'll do the best you can in the meantime. Remind her that people have given birth outside of hospitals for thousands of years, and it's more than possible to come through it safely.
- Validate her. The mother may feel scared, angry, giddy, or any combination of those feelings. Validate whatever she is feeling. Don't try to correct her or argue with her.[12]
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7Help the mother find a comfortable position. She might want to walk around or crouch down during this stage of labor, especially when a contraction hits. As she starts to transition to the second phase, she might want to settle into a position to give birth or cycle through a few different ones. Switching between positions may help the labor progress more smoothly, but let her decide what's working for her body.[13] Here are four standard positions, and the pros and cons of each:[14] [15]
- Squatting. This puts gravity to the mother's advantage, and can open the birth canal 20%-30% more than other positions. If you suspect the baby is breech (emerging feet-first), suggest this position as it gives the baby room to rotate. You can help the mother in this position by kneeling behind her and supporting her back.[16]
- All-fours: This position is gravity-neutral and can ease back pain, and the mother might instinctively choose it. It can provide pain relief if the mother has hemorrhoids. Position yourself behind her if that's the case.[17]
- Side-lying: This leads to a slower descent through the birth canal, but can lead to a more gentle stretching of the perineum and may reduce tearing.[18] Have the mother lie on her side, with her knees bent, and lift the top leg. She might also need to prop herself up on an elbow.
- Lithotomy position (lying back). This is the most common position used in hospitals, with the woman lying flat on her back and her legs bent at the knee. It allows maximum access for the caregiver, but it puts a lot of pressure on the mother's back and is not considered ideal. It also may make contractions slower and more painful.[19] If she seems to prefer this position, try putting a few pillows under her back to ease the pain.
Delivering the Baby
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1Guide the mother in pushing. Don't encourage her to push until she feels an unstoppable pressure to do so — you don't want to waste her energy and make her exhausted too early. When women are ready to push, they may feel increased pressure near their lower back, perineum, or rectum. It may even feel to her as though she is ready to have a bowel movement.[20] When she is ready, though, you can help guide her through the pushing.
- Ask the mother to curl forward and tuck her chin. This curved position will help the baby through the pelvis.[21] When pushing, it can be helpful if the mother holds her knees or legs with her hands and pulls her legs back.
- The area around the vagina will bulge out until you see the top of the baby's head (crowning). As soon as the baby crowns, it's time for the mother to push in earnest.
- Encourage her to focus her abdominal muscles to push down, as you might do when you're trying to urinate faster or have a bowel movement. This can help avoid straining or directing the pushing force upward toward the neck and face.[22]
- Three to four pushes, lasting 6-8 seconds each, are considered appropriate per contraction. However, it is important to encourage the mother to do whatever comes naturally to her.[23]
- Keep encouraging deep, slow breathing. Pain can be controlled to different extents through mental relaxation and by concentrating on deep breathing instead of panicking or being distracted by everything that is going on. Different people have different levels of mental control, but deep, slow breathing is always a benefit during childbirth.[24]
- Understand that the woman may urinate or have a bowel movement during labor. This is normal and is not a cause for concern. Don't even bother mentioning it -- you don't want to embarrass the mother.[25]
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2Support the baby's head as it emerges. This step isn't complicated, but it's important. Pay extra attention to these tips:
- Do not pull on the baby's head or the umbilical cord. This can cause nerve damage.[26]
- If the cord is wrapped around the baby's neck, which is fairly common, gently lift it over the baby's head or carefully loosen it so the baby can slip through the loop. Do not pull on the cord.
- It's natural -- and in fact desirable -- for the baby to pass through the pelvis face-down. If the baby's face is facing toward the mother's back, don't worry. This is actually the best position for delivery.[27]
- If instead of the head emerging you see the feet or buttocks coming first, you have a breech birth. See instructions for that situation below.
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3Prepare for the baby's body to emerge. When the baby's head rotates to one side (which it will probably do on its own), be prepared for the body to come out with the next push.
- If the baby's head does not rotate to one side, ask the mother to push again. The baby will likely rotate spontaneously.
- If the baby's head doesn't rotate without help, gently turn it to one side. This should help a shoulder emerge with the next push. Don't push it if you feel any resistance.
- Deliver the other shoulder. Gently lift the body toward the mother's stomach to help the other shoulder come through. The rest of the body should follow quickly.
- Keep supporting the head. The body will be slippery. Make sure you're still providing enough support for the baby's neck, which isn't strong enough to support the head on its own.[28]
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4Manage complications. Hopefully, all goes well, and you've successfully delivered a healthy baby by now. If the delivery seems stalled, though, here's what you can do:
- If the head comes out, and the rest of the body doesn't come out after she pushes three times, have the mother lie on her back. Instruct her to grab her knees and pull her thighs toward her stomach and chest. This is called the McRoberts position, and it's very effective at helping push the baby out.[29] Have her push hard with each contraction.
- Never push on a mother's abdomen to try to help deliver a stuck baby.
- If the feet come out first, see the section on breech birth below.
- If the baby is still stuck and paramedics are still nowhere near the scene then you could try to guide the baby's head gently downward toward the mother's rectum. This should only be attempted as a last resort, and should not be attempted at all if medical attention will be arriving soon.
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5Hold the baby, so the fluids in its mouth and nose drain. Hold the delivered baby with two hands, one supporting its neck and head. Tilt the head down at about a 45-degree angle to allow the fluids to drain. The feet should be slightly above the head (but don't hold the baby by the feet).
- You can also wipe any mucus or amniotic fluid from the nose and mouth area with clean, sterile gauze or cloth.[30]
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6Place the baby on the mother's chest. Ensure full-skin contact, and cover them both with clean towels or blankets. The skin-to-skin contact encourages a hormone called oxytocin, which will help the mother deliver the placenta.[26]
- Position the baby so that its head is still slightly lower than the rest of the body, so fluids can keep draining. If the mother is lying down and the baby's head is on her shoulder, and its body is on her breast, this should happen naturally.[31]
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7Make sure the baby is breathing. It should be crying slightly. If it's not, you can take a few steps to help make sure the airway is clear.
- Rub the body. Physical touch will help the baby breathe. Rub over its back firmly with a blanket while it's still on its mother's chest. If that's not helping, turn the baby so that it's facing the ceiling, tilt the head back to straighten the airway, and keep rubbing the body. It might not cry, but doing this ensures that the baby gets the air it needs.[32]
- Rubbing vigorously with a clean towel can also help stimulate the baby to breathe.
- Manually clear fluids. If the baby gags or turns blue, wipe fluids out of the mouth and nose with a clean blanket or cloth. If that doesn't do the trick, squeeze the air out of a bulb syringe, put the tip in the nose or mouth, and release the bulb to suck the fluid into the bulb. Repeat until all the fluid is cleared, emptying the bulb between uses. If you don't have a bulb, you can use a drinking straw.
- If nothing else has worked, try flicking the soles of the baby's feet with your fingers, or gently popping its bottom. Don't slap the baby.[26]
- If none of this helps, perform infant CPR.
Delivering a Breech Birth
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1Know that a breech birth is unlikely. If it happens, a breech birth is a circumstance where the feet or buttocks enter the pelvis first instead of the head coming out.[33]
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2Position the mother. Have her sit at the edge of a bed or other surface and pull her legs to her chest. As a precaution, put down pillows or blankets where the baby is likely to fall.
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3Do not touch the baby until the head comes out. You'll see its back and bottom hang down, and you'll want to grab it, but don't. You want to avoid touching the baby until the head is delivered because your touch could stimulate the baby to gasp while the head is still submerged in amniotic fluid.[26]
- Try to make sure the room is warm, as a drop in temperature could also cause the baby to gasp.[26]
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4Catch the baby. Once the head is delivered, grab the baby under the arms and bring it up to the mother. If the head doesn't come out in the push after the arms come out, have the mother squat and push.
Delivering the Placenta
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1Prepare for the placenta. Delivering the placenta is the third stage of labor. It will arrive anywhere between a few minutes to an hour after the baby is delivered.[34] The mother will probably feel an urge to push after a few minutes; this is helpful.[35]
- Put a bowl close to the vagina. Right before it emerges, blood will come out of the vagina, and the cord will get longer.
- Have the mother sit up and push the placenta into the bowl.
- Rub the mother's stomach below her belly button firmly to help slow down the bleeding. It might hurt her, but it's necessary. Keep rubbing until the uterus feels like a large grapefruit in the lower belly.[36] [37]
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2Let the baby breastfeed. If the cord isn't stretched too tightly by doing so, encourage the mother to breastfeed as soon as possible. This will help stimulate a contraction and encourage the delivery of the placenta. It may also help slow bleeding.[38]
- If breastfeeding isn't an option, stimulating the nipples can also help stimulate delivering the placenta.[26]
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4Bag the placenta. Once the placenta is out, place it in a trash bag or a container with a lid. When and if the mother goes to a hospital, the doctor might want to inspect the placenta for any abnormalities.
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5Decide whether to cut the cord. You should only cut the umbilical cord if professional medical attention is hours away.[40] Otherwise, leave it alone and just make sure it's not pulled tight.[7]
- If you do need to cut the cord, first feel the cord gently for a pulse. After about ten minutes, the cord will stop pulsing because the placenta has separated. Don't cut it before then.[41]
- Don't worry about pain. There are no nerve endings in an umbilical cord; neither mother nor child will feel pain when its cut. The cord will, however, be slippery and difficult to handle.[42]
- Tie a string or lace around the cord, about three inches from the baby's belly button. Tie it tightly with a double knot.
- Tie another lace about two inches away from the first one, again using a double knot.
- Using a sterile knife or scissors (that have been boiled in water for 20 minutes or wiped down with rubbing alcohol), cut between the two laces. Don't be surprised if it's rubbery and tough to cut; just take your time.
- Cover the baby again when the cord is cut.
Caring for the Mother and Baby
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1Keep the mother and baby warm and comfortable. Cover them both in blankets, and encourage the mother to keep the baby on her chest. Replace any wet or dirty bedding, and move them to a clean, dry area.
- Control pain. Put an ice pack on the mother's vagina for the first 24 hours to ease soreness and pain. Offer her acetaminophen/paracetamol or ibuprofen if she's not allergic.
- Give the mother something light to eat and a drink. Avoid carbonated drinks and fatty or sugary foods, as these could cause nausea. Toast, crackers, or light sandwiches are good options. The mother may want to rehydrate with an electrolyte-containing sports drink.[43]
- Put a diaper on the baby. Make sure it's below the umbilical cord. If the cut cord smells bad (signaling an infection) clean it with alcohol until it doesn't smell anymore. If you have a small hat available, put it on the baby, so it doesn't catch a chill.
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2Massage the uterus through the abdomen. Sometimes, unexpected deliveries can cause hemorrhaging after delivery. It occurs in up to 18% of all deliveries. To help prevent this, you can firmly massage the uterus. If you see significant blood flow after the placenta is delivered, do the following:[44]
- Place one (clean) hand inside the vagina. Place your other hand low on the mother's abdomen. Push down with the hand placed on the abdomen as you push against the uterus from the inside with the other hand.[45]
- You can also make firm, repetitive squeezing movements with on hand on the mother's lower abdomen without placing a hand inside the vagina.[46]
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3Prevent infection while going to the bathroom. Instruct and if necessary help the mother pour warm water over the vagina every time she urinates to keep the area clean. You can use a clean squeeze bottle to do this.[47]
- If she needs to have a bowel movement, have her place a clean pad or washcloth against her vagina while she pushes.
- Help the mother urinate. It is good for her to empty her bladder, but due to blood loss, it may be best to have her urinate in a pan or on a cloth you can move from under her, so she does not have to get up.
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4Get medical attention as quickly as possible. Once delivery is complete, proceed to the nearest hospital or await the ambulance you called.
Warnings
- Do not clean the mother or baby with antiseptic or antibacterial products unless soap and water are not available and there is an external cut.⧼thumbs_response⧽
- These instructions are not intended as a substitute for trained medical professionals, nor is it a guide for a planned home birth.⧼thumbs_response⧽
- Keep yourself, the mother, and the birthing area as clean and sterile as possible. The risk of infection is high for both mother and child. Do not sneeze or cough near the birthing area.⧼thumbs_response⧽
Things You'll Need
- Baby-size bulb syringe (made of soft plastic, often called an ear syringe; should not be a nasal syringe as the plastic tip does not fit into a baby-sized nose)
- Small bottle of isopropyl alcohol
- Box of disposable plastic or latex gloves
- Clean shoelaces to tie umbilical cord
- Sharp scissors to cut umbilical cord
- Chemical cold pack (the kind you squeeze to get it cold)
- Six disposable diapers
- Pain pills such as Tylenol® or Advil®
- Small bar of antibacterial soap or liquid antibacterial hand sanitizer
- Four cotton baby blankets
- Newborn cap
- Four towels
- Washcloth
- Bowl for the placenta
- Blankets to keep the mother warm
- Pillows
- Five large trash bags for dirty laundry
- Two medium-sized trash bags for the placenta
- Instructions for CPR for adults and babies
- Emergency contact information
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About This Article
If you don't have access to a medical professional and you must deliver a baby yourself, start by sanitizing your arms and hands with either antimicrobial soap and warm water, rubbing alcohol, or an alcohol-based hand sanitizer. Next, help the mother into whatever position is most comfortable for her, like squatting, which can open up the birth canal and help things along, or being on all-fours, which can ease back pain. Don't have her lie on her back unless she wants to. Try to keep her calm throughout all of this by encouraging her to breathe and speaking in a low, soothing voice. Once she starts pushing and the baby emerges, use your hands to support its head, but make sure you don't pull on the baby or the umbilical cord. Continue reading to learn what you need to do once the baby has emerged and how to handle complications.