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The Taurus man: he's a stubborn earth sign and a protective, loving partner. Wondering if he's the jealous type? How do you know if your Taurus crush is getting jealous and if he is, how do you deal? We've got you covered. Using our expert-backed tips, you can figure out how he's feeling and solve the issue ASAP. To learn about how a Taurus man acts when he's jealous, read on!
Steps
How to Deal with a Taurus Man’s Jealousy
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1Respect his needs and boundaries. At the end of the day, all your Taurus crush really wants is to feel safe and loved. Prove that to him, and no amount of interested suitors or flirtations can keep him from sticking around. When he sets a boundary, make sure you respect it. He may not bring up these things himself, so take it upon yourself to ask him what he needs from you.[4]
- “Does it bother you when James flirts with me? I want to make sure you feel comfortable. Oh, it does? That’s good to know. I’ll make sure I shut down those flirty conversations when they happen. How does that sound?”
- If you mess up, apologize: “I’m sorry, that conversation really got away from me. I should’ve walked away, but I didn’t. That’s my fault.”
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2Remind him that he’s the one for you. You can ease a jealous Taurus’ mind by just explaining that at the end of the day, you choose him. Point out that he’s the one you buy take out with, he’s the one you save your funniest jokes for, and ultimately, he’s the one you want to be with. This will go a long way with your Taurus man.
- “I totally get why you’re jealous, but the thing is, you’re the one for me. I choose you every single day.”
- “I don’t want to be with anyone else—just you. If you ever need me to remind you of that, let me know.”
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3Be patient and communicative. Taurus men are known to struggle with emotional conversations. He may get overwhelmed and suddenly feel tempted to shut down completely. This can be frustrating, but remember—it’s a sign that he cares, and he’s not trying to punish you. When you two discuss jealousy and emotions, stay positive, be empathetic, and if necessary, take the lead.
- “I’m not going to judge you for what you feel. When you’re ready to talk, I’ll be here.”
- “I know it can be hard to talk about this stuff, but I think it’d be really good for us if we can do it.”
- “So, you’ve been feeling jealous. Can you tell me more about that? Is there something I can do to make it better?”