How to Know if a Libra Man Likes You

Co-authored by Jessica Lanyadoo and Hannah Madden

Last Updated: July 27, 2022

Libra men are kind, charming, and funny—it’s no wonder why you’d fall for one! The good news is that this sensitive air sign will have a tough time hiding his true feelings from you. Take a look at this list to figure out if a Libra likes you, as well as some helpful tips to catch and keep his attention.

1

He shows genuine interest in your life.

Libras appreciate vulnerability, so he’ll want you to open up to him. He probably wants to know about your hopes, dreams, and goals. Libra guys don’t shy away from deep conversations, and if he likes you, he’ll want to spend hours upon hours chatting with you about your life. Feel free to open up to him, and ask him questions about himself, too.
- For instance, he might ask questions like, “Did you have a happy childhood?” “Who is the person you turn to when you’re upset?” or, “What are your long-term goals?”
- As you open up more and more to him, don’t be surprised if he starts understanding you better than you understand yourself. Libras are very intuitive and in touch with other people’s emotions, and he’ll use that to show how much he cares.

2

He makes time for you.

Libras show their love and appreciation with quality time. When a Libra likes you, he’ll make time for you no matter what, even if he’s swamped with other responsibilities. While some people might see this as a little overbearing, others find it flattering. Either way, it means that he really likes you, and he’s probably developing strong feelings for you.^{[1]
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- The dates he takes you on will probably be very romantic, too. This sign really values romance and intimacy, so you can expect a lot of candlelit dinners and quiet nights at home together.
- You can keep him interested by matching his energy and planning fun, romantic dates too. He’ll appreciate any amount of effort you put into seeing him.

3

He can’t take his eyes off you.

Air signs like to be liked, so they’ll use eye contact to catch your attention. If you see him from across the room, he’ll probably catch your eye and smile. If you two are hanging out alone, you might look over and catch him staring. Take this as a good sign—it means he’s falling head over heels for you.^{[2]
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- Your friends might also come and tell you that he was staring at you all night.
- If you want to attract him even more, catch his eye and then bite your lip or smile. He’ll love the instantaneous connection he gets from across the room!

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He compliments you.

Libra men won’t be shy about telling you how great you are.^{[3]
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Expert Interview. 12 November 2019.} If you show up to his house with a new outfit or you look particularly good that day, your Libra man will let you know. His compliments mean that he thinks you’re an awesome person, and you can take it as a sign that he’s falling for you.
- He’ll probably comment on your personality and your hobbies, too! Libra men love telling you good things about yourself.
- Try to accept his compliments, even if they can be a bit much. It’s his way of showing you that he cares!^{[4]
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He introduces you to his family and friends.

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Jessica Lanyadoo
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Expert Interview. 12 November 2019.} If you get invited out to boys' night or he asks you to meet his parents, this is a great sign. Do your best to get to know the people in his life, because friends and family are very important to a Libra guy.
- On the flip side, if he hasn’t quite brought you home to meet the parents yet, try not to be offended. It probably means he’s taking some time to figure out what he truly wants before getting serious with you.

6

He makes an effort to spend time with your friends.

A Libra will be on his best behavior in order to impress them—and you. Since Libras value friends and family so much, if he likes you, he’s going to try to spend a lot of time with your close loved ones. It shows that he cares about you, and it also signals to the people in your life that he’s going to stick around.
- If he’s feeling a little nervous about meeting the people closest to you, that’s also a good sign! It means that he really cares about their opinion and he wants to impress them (and you).

7

He goes out of his way to touch you.

Libra men are very affectionate, and physical touch is how they show they care. He might hold your hand or pat you on the back. Libras are very affectionate people, so he’ll probably try to touch and hold you as much as possible. This could be something as little as giving you a hug at the end of a long day, or it could be as big as offering you a full-body massage.
- Try to encourage his physical affection, and don’t shy away from reciprocating it, either. You’ll signal to him that you appreciate what he’s doing and that it makes you feel good.

8

He puts your sexual needs before his.

Libra's charm doesn’t stop at the bedroom door. Libra men are generally very generous in the bedroom. If he truly likes you, he’s going to make sure that you’re having as much fun as he is during sex. Don’t be afraid to explore new things with him, and be vocal about your wants and needs—he’ll appreciate it!^{[6]
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- Libra men will almost always try anything once. If there’s something you want to bring up, don’t worry about judgment from this sign.

9

He tries to cheer you up when you’re feeling down.

Libras are social signs, and they hate seeing people close to them upset. When he likes you, his happiness will hinge on your happiness. If your Libra guy notices that you’re not feeling like yourself, he’s probably going to do everything he can to make you feel better. He might bring you your favorite food, run you a bath, or just come over and hang out with you for some company. This is a sweet gesture, and it means he really cares for you.
- If you’re the type of person that needs space when they’re upset, that’s fine, too. Just communicate your needs with him and let him know that it’s not him, it’s you.

10

He does his best to solve all your problems.

Libras are natural-born leaders, so he’ll try to take charge in most situations. If you share a problem with your Libra guy, he’s probably going to do anything in his power to fix that for you (even if he can’t really do much). His help means that he really likes you, and these kinds of gestures are a great sign.^{[7]
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- For example, if you tell him all about your car troubles, he’ll probably take you straight to a mechanic (or even head out and work on the car himself).
- It can be a little overwhelming to constantly accept advice or favors from a Libra guy, so don’t be afraid to tell him if you just need to vent instead of getting his help with something.

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He’s upfront about his feelings.

Air signs tend to be very in touch with their emotions. Unlike some signs, Libras aren’t scared to share how they feel. If you two have been seeing each other for a little while and he develops feelings for you, he’s probably going to let you know. He might say something like, “I think I’m falling for you,” or, “I really like you.” And when he does, you can believe him 100%.^{[8]
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- Libras value communication, so if you’re ever unsure about his feelings, go ahead and ask. He’ll appreciate the opportunity to be upfront with you about his emotions.

12

He’s totally committed to you.

Libras value loyalty and honesty more than anything else. When a Libra likes you, he won’t go after anyone else. Libras are fiercely loyal, and you’ll never catch him pursuing another person if he’s decided that you’re the one. Even if you two aren’t officially exclusive yet, you’ll know that he likes you when he’s dropped all his other dates and just focuses on you.
- He might talk with you about being exclusive pretty early-on. Libras aren’t huge fans of sharing the people they’re dating.
- It’s important to stay loyal to your Libra too, especially if you two are exclusive. Libras don’t usually respond well to jealousy or games.