How to Make Someone Not Love You

Last Updated: June 7, 2021

Is there a person in your life who is madly in love with you and you certainly don't feel the same way, due to appearance or maybe it's even your ex who wants to get back with you, but you don't love them anymore, or maybe you don't want to be rude and hurt some ones feelings by telling them you don't love them? Then this article is for you! It will walk you through the steps of making someone not love you.

Steps

1
If they call, start complaining. No one wants to hear someone complain especially if it’s the same stories told over and over again. This will contribute to your flaws in their eyes and also bring you one step closer towards them falling out of love with you.
2
Ignore them on the phone. If they call you, start doing something else. Be as nice as possible and say things like "Oh sorry, one minute I want to watch this video. It's 5 minutes long" - this will make them feel bored and teach them that you don't want to talk on the phone with them. They probably won't even call again. But if they really love you, there is a high chance they will call you.

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3
Have a childish attitude. No one likes a childish attitude. Be a bit rude but with a twist. For example, compliment everyone, but ignore them.
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Be irrational. Make no sense when you speak. When it comes to topics like Human Rights or debates, make no sense and be stubborn. No one likes a person with these qualities. Soon he/she will think you're just an irrational person who doesn't make sense.
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Repeat the same gossip a lot. Having a 'black heart' is not attractive. So without gossiping in too much detail, say things like 'he/she deserves it' this will hopefully make him/her fall out of love with you.
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Hardly answer calls. Say that you are busy and you can't really talk. The less you make yourself available, then he/she will realize they should find someone else.
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Hardly reply to emails and Facebook messages. If you do reply to a whole paragraph, make sure you reply in 2 words showing you're not really interested. This way you are not rude as to ignore the messages. This will make him/her realize that you aren't interested in starting a conversation with them.
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Make yourself unavailable. If they ever ask you out, you can make excuses such as you're are grounded or you're too busy. That way they realize you will never leave your house and thus eventually give up on you making them fall out of love with you.
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Be embarrassing to be with. Maybe you can eat with your mouth open or wear dirty clothes. This will make them feel 'eww' about you and thus make them embarrassed to be around you.
10
Be a push over. No one likes a push over, so force them to do things that they don't want to do.

Warnings

Make sure you don't make them hate you as a person. There is a very delicate balance between love and hate. If you overdo it, their love will easily turn into hate.

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Make sure you don't hurt the person in the process. The aim is to make them see all your flaws in order for them to fall out of love with you.

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Make sure you are not interesting to speak to over the phone. When you gossip make sure to give them a 'bored feeling'.

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They may not care about your flaws and still be in love with you. In this case they truly love you and nothing will get them to fall out of love with you.

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