This article was co-authored by Shana Tibi and by wikiHow staff writer, Amber Crain. Shana Tibi is a Certified Professional Matchmaker, Date and Relationship Coach, and the Founder of Curated Connections, a matchmaking service for single professionals. Shana specializes in understanding core values and personal preferences to curate dates. She holds a BA in Peace Studies and Conflict Resolution from Prescott College and an MSW in Social Work from California State University, Hayward. She is an active member of the Global Love Institute where she earned her matchmaking certifications.
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Meeting your partner's parents for the first time can be a pretty nerve-wracking ordeal since you really want to make a great first impression. If you're looking for some advice to help you nail this crucial meeting, we've got you covered. Our handy list of tips can help you win over your SO's parents with ease and charm!
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QuestionWhat should I know before meeting her parents?Shana TibiShana Tibi is a Certified Professional Matchmaker, Date and Relationship Coach, and the Founder of Curated Connections, a matchmaking service for single professionals. Shana specializes in understanding core values and personal preferences to curate dates. She holds a BA in Peace Studies and Conflict Resolution from Prescott College and an MSW in Social Work from California State University, Hayward. She is an active member of the Global Love Institute where she earned her matchmaking certifications.
Certified Professional MatchmakerGet some background info on her parents' cultural and religious norms and expectations. Make sure that you understand what's going to happen at the meet-up so you feel comfortable and prepared beforehand. -
QuestionHow do you start a conversation with your partner's parents?Shana TibiShana Tibi is a Certified Professional Matchmaker, Date and Relationship Coach, and the Founder of Curated Connections, a matchmaking service for single professionals. Shana specializes in understanding core values and personal preferences to curate dates. She holds a BA in Peace Studies and Conflict Resolution from Prescott College and an MSW in Social Work from California State University, Hayward. She is an active member of the Global Love Institute where she earned her matchmaking certifications.
Certified Professional MatchmakerTry to keep things light-hearted! You don't need to share your entire life story in the first meeting—that could get a little awkward. Try to think of your meeting like a first date; ideally, you want to make a good enough impression for a second date later on.
References
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- ↑ Shana Tibi. Certified Professional Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 19 October 2021.
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