Do you wish you could slow down and enjoy the little things that make life so sweet? It's easier than you think! The concept of "romanticizing your life" is a trend about celebrating yourself and making even the most ordinary day feel extraordinary. If that sounds good to you, then keep reading. We've got a comprehensive list of simple tips you can use to romanticize your life—and love every moment.

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Make a fancy morning beverage.

  1. Add special flavors, healthy options, and designs to your coffee or tea. Keep your favorite coffee or tea stocked at home and add a flavored syrup to spice up the flavor. Consider adding a nutritious supplement like a sprinkle of cinnamon or Chaga mushroom powder.[1] Romanticize your morning ritual by enjoying an artisan drink in your own kitchen.
    • Popular syrups for coffee include hazelnut, caramel, and french vanilla.
    • Sweeten your tea with raw honey, agave nectar, or maple syrup.
    • Spices like cinnamon and ginger powder are great for improving heart health and relieving muscle pain, respectively. Cacao powder is a superfood with tons of antioxidants and health benefits.
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Wear your favorite stylish outfits.

3

Create a curated playlist for your life.

  1. Music can lift your mood, ease stress, and get you revved up for the day. It's time to treat yourself like the main character in your favorite rom-com—and every great rom-com has a catchy soundtrack. Make a soundtrack for your life by filling a playlist with relatable songs you love. Choose a wide range of songs, from tunes that calm and relax you to songs that inspire you to dance your heart out.[3]
    • Music can directly influence your mood! Make sure you focus on playing upbeat songs when you need a pick-me-up rather than playing any old song you like.
    • Many music streaming platforms allow you to make your own playlists. Choose from services like Spotify, Apple Music, or Youtube Music.
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Engage your senses to make car rides feel fun.

5

Go on a movie date with yourself.

  1. Treat yourself just because you can, not because of a partner. We tend to assume that "special" nights should be reserved for a romantic partner or even an outing with friends—but that's not the case. Take yourself on a date to the movies and enjoy some alone time while doing something that can be genuinely fun, even without other people present.
    • Dress up and get ready just like you would for a date with another person. Practice pampering yourself for your own pleasure and satisfaction, not anybody else's.
    • For another date idea, you can also go out to your favorite restaurant by yourself. Bring a book if you're worried about feeling bored!
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Take a walk in nature.

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Cook delicious homemade meals.

  1. Practice self-love by preparing food you'll genuinely enjoy. Learn new gourmet recipes you can make in the comfort of your kitchen, and indulge your artistic side by styling and arranging your meal as a professional chef would. Explore new flavors and types of food, and treat yourself right by crafting nutritious, balanced meals that'll keep you healthy.
    • Try putting a romantic spin on pasta with tomato sauce by preparing homemade Sicilian tomato sauce or taking breakfast to the next level by seasoning your scrambled eggs.
    • Don't forget to indulge in dessert from time to time. Try your hand at decorating cake, or whip up a yogurt and fruit dessert to make something healthy and sweet.
    • Use fancy dishes to serve your meals, too—or use fun, colorful dishware to make your meal feel festive.
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Burn scented candles at home.

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Enjoy a luxurious bath.

  1. Turn your baths from a necessity into a self-care ritual. Add scented bath salts, essential oils, and even rose petals to the water. Bring a book into the bath to sit back, relax, and read as you soak in the warm water.[7]
    • Showers can be just as luxurious! If you don't have a bathtub at home, you can still drop essential oils around the shower, light candles, and play some music to create a self-care experience.
    • You probably won't have time for a full, spa-quality bath every night, and that's okay! Block time once a week and start including it in your self-care routine.
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Write letters to your loved ones.

14

Learn a new hobby.

  1. Seize the day and try something you've been dreaming of doing. Make a list of all the hobbies you want to try, and pick one or two to learn. Hobbies are a great way of showing love and self-care because they improve your mental health and well-being. Remember, you're the main character in your own life—so embrace that ideal by improving yourself and mastering new talents.[10]
    • There are plenty of fun and inexpensive hobbies to explore. For example, you could learn how to knit, draw, bake, play an instrument, or learn a foreign language.
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Rearrange your living space.

  1. Change up the furniture and decor to re-energize a room. Pick a room (or several rooms) to spruce up, like your bedroom or living room. Rearrange the furniture, change the room's color scheme, add a fresh coat of paint to the walls, or rotate your decor to keep the space feeling new and interesting. This activity can cheer you up while giving you a chance to express your creativity and design skills.[11]
    • If you have the funds, you can also refresh your space by purchasing new furniture and decorations. Replacing furniture (especially if you've had it for a long time) is a great way to instantly fall in love with your living space.
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Practice daily gratitude and positivity.

  1. Be more mindful of all the good things you have in your life. You'll be able to see your life in a more romantic light if you learn to recognize and celebrate the positives! Spend time actively studying how you speak to yourself. Then, make a habit of thanking yourself aloud and reversing negative self-talk. Recite a short list of things you appreciate about yourself and your life to build a positive attitude.[12]
    • Thank yourself for all the little things you do to care for yourself. You could say, "Thank you for making me this terrific meal!" or "Thank you for taking the time to read last night. I really enjoy the story so far!"
    • Embrace body positivity by appreciating everything that makes you who you are. You only get one body, so why criticize it? Your body carries you through life—and that's something to be thankful for.
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Read and repeat affirmations to yourself.

  1. Make a list of your favorite quotes to keep you cheerful and inspired. Think back on your favorite books, movies, and other media. Are there any quotes that stuck with you? The same goes for historical or prominent people today—are there any influential individuals whose words resonate with you? Run a quick internet search for inspirational quotes to further build up the list.[13]
    • A favorite movie quote could be Galdalf's "All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us," from Lord of the Rings.
    • Write down quotes based on the kind of affirmation you need to hear. If you're struggling with self-acceptance, for example, list quotes like Oscar Wilde's "Be yourself; everyone else is already taken."
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About This Article

Guy Reichard
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This article was co-authored by Guy Reichard and by wikiHow staff writer, Glenn Carreau. Guy Reichard is an Executive Life Coach and the Founder of HeartRich Coaching & Training, a professional life coaching and inner leadership training provider based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. He works with people to create more meaning, purpose, well-being, and fulfillment in their lives. Guy has over 10 years of personal growth coaching and resilience training experience, helping clients enhance and transform their inner worlds, so they can be a more positive and powerful influence on those they love and lead. He is an Adler Certified Professional Coach (ACPC), and is accredited by the International Coach Federation. He earned a BA in Psychology from York University in 1997 and a Master of Business Administration (MBA) from York University in 2000. This article has been viewed 34,514 times.
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