Scorpios can be intimidating! A woman born between October 23 and November 21 is known for her fiery spirit, daring attitude, and sexual nature. However, if you like a bit of a challenge, Scorpios can become fantastic, devoted lovers if you communicate effectively. We'll show you how to make your texts to a Scorpio woman more seductive.

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Send a few flirty texts to show you're interested.

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Keep your texts short and simple.

  1. Scorpios usually prefer to communicate in person. This is because they're really good at reading non-verbal cues. Texting can be trickier. When you do send her a message, don't try to have a long, in-depth conversation. Instead, use texting to set up a date or flirt before you meet up. After all, it's a great way to pique her interest before seeing you in person. You could say:
    • "We're still on for 8 pm, right? I can't wait to see what you've got in store for me."
    • "You still buying me a coffee? I'm all yours after 5."
    • "I think it's my turn to pick tonight's movie unless you'd rather do something else tonight?"
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Create an air of mystery.

  1. Don't reveal too much or pry when you text her. A Scorpio doesn't want you revealing your deepest thoughts or asking about hers when you're texting. Instead, she wants to be intrigued and curious about you, so keep your cards close to your chest.[2]
    • For example, instead of texting, "Tell me about what happened in your last relationship," or telling her about your ex, send a message like, "You'd be surprised to learn where I've traveled." Then, don't reveal any more.
    • You could also say, "I tend to follow my passions. Right now I'm focusing on my music."
    • Try texting her, "I've always been drawn to unique women and you're no exception."
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Send her a bold, confident message to get her attention.

  1. Try to come across as secure and interested in her. She'll be able to tell if you're nervous or not trying very hard. For instance, never text a Scorpio, "Hey" or any message that tells her you're not making a clear move. Scorpios are impressed by bold initiative, so don't be afraid to be direct with her.
    • So, instead of just saying, "What's up?" cut to the chase. You might want to ask her out or ask her opinion about something.
    • You might text, "I'd really like to take you out for dessert," or "Will you go to a concert with me?" so she sees you taking the initiative.
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Use a text to ask her out on an interesting date.

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Make her chase you a little with your texts.

  1. Keep her interested by getting her to work for your attention. It's no surprise that a mysterious woman likes a little intrigue herself! If she texts you a question, for instance, give her a brief reply that leaves her wanting more. She'll be looking forward to your next date so she can figure you out.[7]
    • For example, if she texts something like, "Want to do something this weekend?" you could reply with, "I may have something going on," or just leave it at, "I'm not sure yet." This leaves her curious about your plans and she'll probably want to be part of them.
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Give her time and space to reply.

  1. Scorpios put a lot of thought into their texts. If you don't hear anything back from her right away, don't worry! She's most likely coming up with the right response. Remember, Scorpios usually prefer in-person communication, so texting can be a little awkward for her.[9]
    • Use your judgment to decide if you should text her again. You might wait a few days before sending a gentle message like, "I hope I didn't say something wrong. Maybe we could meet up soon?"
    • The exception to this is if she thinks you've lied or been dishonest with her. Silence might be her way of letting you know she's unhappy.
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Angel Eyedealism
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This article was co-authored by Angel Eyedealism and by wikiHow staff writer, Jessica Gibson. Angel Eyedealism is an Astrologer and Performance Artist based in the Lower East Side of Manhattan. With nearly three decades of astrology experience, Angel specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography. Eyedealism has been featured in numerous media outlets such as Vogue, Cosmopolitan, The Atlantic, The Washington Post, Refinery29, NBC, MTV, Showtime, and Bravo. Angel aims to help others through a straightforward, kind, and humorous astrological lens, utilizing her entertainment and singing skills for performance art astrology readings. This article has been viewed 73,296 times.
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