Amazing journal prompts to encourage self-love (for beginners & experienced shadow workers alike)
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This article was co-authored by Kateri Berasi, PsyD and by wikiHow staff writer, Savannah Vold. Dr. Kateri Berasi is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and the Founder of Transcendent Self, PLLC, a group therapy practice offering affirmative, collaborative, and intentional care, based in Brooklyn, New York. With over ten years of experience in the mental health field, Dr. Berasi specializes in working with adults from the LGBTQIA+ community and creative industries through individual therapy, couples counseling, group therapy, and costume therapy. She holds a BA in Psychology, Art History, and French Language and Literature from George Washington University and an MA and MEd in Mental Health Counseling from Columbia University. Dr. Berasi also holds a PsyD in Clinical Psychology from Long Island University.
Shadow work is an incredible way to take a lead role in your self-healing journey. Through a series of personal, emotionally strenuous questions that challenge your hidden inner-self, you can become better able to heal and grow from past traumas or learn from your mistakes for a better future. In this article, we’ll provide you with a comprehensive list of the best shadow work prompts for encouraging total well-being. Remember, you are your greatest strength!
Things You Should Know
- Shadow work examines your deepest, innermost self by asking and answering difficult, personal questions like, “What are my values?”
- Keep a shadow work journal to write down your prompt answers. This way, you can turn back to it in times of uncertainty for insight into your most intimate self.
- Shadow work can be emotionally strenuous. Be sure to listen to your body and take a break when needed—Rome wasn’t built in a day!
Steps
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What is shadow work?
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1Shadow work examines your inner self to promote healing and growth. Shadow work is all about looking inwards at the dark places we keep to ourselves and often push out of the way. By asking and answering difficult questions like, “Why am I so afraid of change?” we can better understand and push ourselves to overcome the hurdles that may be holding us back.[1]
- Shadow work can be very emotionally taxing. Remember to be kind to yourself and stop when needed—you can always return to your prompt another day when you feel stronger!
- Meditating before starting your shadow work may help to put you in a better, more receptive headspace.
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2Shadow work focuses on the “shadow self” or the subconscious mind. As the name suggests, the “shadow self” is like a misty burial ground for parts of our personality (traits, emotions, and thoughts or memories) that we’ve repressed or hidden away, sometimes due to trauma. Through shadow work, memories and truths from your subconscious mind are brought forward to the conscious mind, making healing and growth possible through hard-won self-discovery and personal insights.[2]
- Have you ever felt confused by your own actions, feelings, or thoughts? By better understanding the secret hideaways in your own mind, you'll get to know yourself more deeply. And with shadow work, to know is to love!
- Through these exercises, you'll start to develop a clearer and more sympathetic sense of yourself. And the more developed this understanding becomes, the more positive effect you'll see in you're likely to see in your life.
- Bring forth your shadow self by considering your insecurities and why you think they came to be.
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Why are you doing shadow work?
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What do you like about yourself?
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What gives your life purpose?[3]
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What memories make you ashamed?
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Who makes you feel appreciated?
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What do you consider failure?
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What do you wish you could change about yourself?
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What do you love about yourself?
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What do you love about your friends and family?
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How would you describe yourself?
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Do you have a hard time setting boundaries?
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What boundaries have you set in your life?
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What boundaries do you need to set in order to heal?
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What are you most afraid of?
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How do you manage stress?[4]
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What are your strengths?
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What strengths do you admire in others?
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Who supports you the most?[5]
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Who are your most fulfilling relationships with?
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How could you feel more comfortable around others?[6]
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Describe a positive scenario that impacted you greatly.
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Describe a scenario that impacted you negatively.
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What stops you from accomplishing your dreams?
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Are you afraid of confrontation?
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What do you wish you could tell your younger self?
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Do you have healthy relationships with friends and family?
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How do you show people that you care about them?
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What is your ultimate goal?
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Do you believe you are worthy of love?
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How were you shown love as a child?
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What do you look for in a relationship?
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Do you have a hard time showing up for yourself?
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Do you prioritize your mental health?
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How do you take care of your body?
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How do you treat your body?
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What do you dislike about yourself?
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How do you challenge yourself?
References
- ↑ https://www.insider.com/guides/health/mentalhealth/shadow-work
- ↑ https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/shadow-self
- ↑ https://www.usa.edu/blog/selfdiscoveryquestions/
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/blog/introductory-questions-therapists-commonly-ask#what-to-expect
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/blog/introductory-questions-therapists-commonly-ask#what-to-expect
- ↑ https://www.coursehero.com/file/92795729/shadow-workpdf/
About This Article
Kateri Berasi, PsyD
Licensed Clinical Psychologist
This article was co-authored by Kateri Berasi, PsyD and by wikiHow staff writer, Savannah Vold. Dr. Kateri Berasi is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and the Founder of Transcendent Self, PLLC, a group therapy practice offering affirmative, collaborative, and intentional care, based in Brooklyn, New York. With over ten years of experience in the mental health field, Dr. Berasi specializes in working with adults from the LGBTQIA+ community and creative industries through individual therapy, couples counseling, group therapy, and costume therapy. She holds a BA in Psychology, Art History, and French Language and Literature from George Washington University and an MA and MEd in Mental Health Counseling from Columbia University. Dr. Berasi also holds a PsyD in Clinical Psychology from Long Island University.
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