This article was co-authored by Mark Rosenfeld. Mark Rosenfeld is a Dating and Relationship Coach for women and founded Make Him Yours in 2015. Mark specializes in helping people find, attract, and keep extraordinary relationships. He has been featured in Style Magazine, Thought Catalog, Elite Daily, News.com.au, and The Good Men Project. Mark’s dating videos have received over 60 million views, and his book “Make Him Yours – Beating the Odds of Modern Dating” was a best-seller on Amazon on its release.
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Remember that you don't need an excuse to tell a girl that she's beautiful. Tell her at a moment when you find yourself genuinely, powerfully struck by her beauty. Say, "You're beautiful," or "You are exquisite." Try picking out one particular quality to compliment her on: say, "You have the most gorgeous eyes," or "Your smile is radiant." Don't be afraid to get creative and tap into your feelings, and make sure that you mean it.
Steps
Setting the Stage
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1Choose the right means. There are lots of different ways to tell a girl that she's beautiful and they don't always mean just saying "You're beautiful" to some girl. Anyone can do that. If you want to stand out, you've got to get a little creative.
- Choose how you want to deliver the compliment. Do you want to talk to the girl in person, or do you want to do something like write her a letter or text her telling her about how beautiful you think she is. Writing a letter is fun and old-fashioned and something very few people do nowadays. She'll definitely remember a letter telling her she's beautiful.
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2Link it with an action. Instead of just telling her she's beautiful, accompany it with an action. This could be as simple as giving her a flower (or an origami flower) or small, individual token when you give her the compliment.
- You could give her a small item and say 'I just wanted to make sure you know how beautiful you are.'
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3Consider what you want to highlight with your compliment. Just saying "You're beautiful" is very vague. What about her do you find beautiful? Does she have gorgeous green eyes or long, thick curly hair?[1]
- You should also consider inner and outer beauty. Instead of telling how beautiful she looks, say something like "I love how you manage to light up an entire room just by being you."
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4Pick the right time. Just blurting out 'you're beautiful' to a girl probably isn't going to do much for her or you, especially if either of you are drunk. Telling a girl she's beautiful (if you're looking to do it properly) needs to be properly timed.[2] [3]
- Try to do it at an unusual time. Most girls have been told they're beautiful when they're all dressed up for a night out. Try telling her she's beautiful just after she's come back from the gym, or when she's not wearing any make-up. It'll feel more meaningful and sincere.
Doing the Deed
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1Be confident. Instead of looking at this moment as you putting yourself out there, try to think of it as you trying to make someone's day brighter. This way you'll feel better about yourself and you'll find it easier to tell the girl she's beautiful.
- Being nervous is okay, though. You can even tell her "I really wanted to tell you how beautiful you are, but you make me really nervous."
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2Be authentic. When you're telling her that you find her beautiful, be authentic about it. Focus on what you do indeed find beautiful about her, in terms of looks and in terms of personality.[4]
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3Use more creative words. Words like "beautiful" and "pretty" and "hot" have been way overused and don't have that much meaning, anymore. try to find different words to describe her that mean beautiful, or can get across how beautiful you find her.[5]
- To name a few fun and different ones: "radiant," "breathtaking," "elegant," "riveting," or "dazzling."
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4Take it deeper. Telling a girl that she's beautiful can be part of your way to let a girl know that you'd like to have a better and more meaningful connection with her. Tell the girl that you love to be with her, that you find her beautiful and her presence makes you happy.
Warnings
- If she doesn't react well to your compliment, that's okay, especially if she doesn't know you. Not every girl wants to be constantly reminded about her appearance.[6]⧼thumbs_response⧽
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References
- ↑ https://www.artofmanliness.com/articles/too-seldom-is-heard-an-encouraging-word-why-and-how-to-offer-more-compliments/
- ↑ https://www.artofmanliness.com/articles/too-seldom-is-heard-an-encouraging-word-why-and-how-to-offer-more-compliments/
- ↑ Mark Rosenfeld. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 29 July 2021.
- ↑ https://beyondages.com/how-to-compliment-a-girl-on-her-looks-with-being-a-creep/
- ↑ https://beyondages.com/how-to-compliment-a-girl-on-her-looks-with-being-a-creep/
- ↑ https://metro.co.uk/2018/04/11/how-to-compliment-a-woman-without-being-a-creep-7456945/
About This Article
To tell a girl she's beautiful, start by deciding when you want to deliver the compliment so you can prepare yourself. Next, focus on specific things you find beautiful about her, like her eyes or smile, and consider using creative words like "dazzling" or "radiant" instead of overused words like "beautiful" or "pretty" to make your statement feel authentic. It's totally normal to be nervous, but try to be as sincere and confident as possible when you tell her! For tips on choosing the right time to tell a girl she's beautiful, read on!
