How to Tell if a Girl You Like Knows You Like Her if You Haven't Actually Told Her So

Last Updated: February 13, 2023

Does that girl you like know you like her? How can you tell? If you know that she knows, you can get away with just hinting or, better yet, making a move. Knowing how to interpret her body language can save you a lot of time and worrying.

Steps

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Watch how she acts around you. If you guys were friends before, if she knows you like her there may be more awkward silences. She may also avoid you a bit, even if she is interested, because she's not quite sure what to do. And if you guys are still friends, well then, great. Take it up from there.
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Look at her behavior. If you guys weren't really friends before you liked her, the girl will probably not say or do anything that will let you know. Girls can be annoying that way. She may talk to you more, or completely ignore you. Basically, any drastic change in behavior is a good sign that she knows.

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Think about who you've told before. If you told any of her friends or any of your friends that you both have in common that you like her, chances are she knows.
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Stay attentive of her actions. If she knows and does like you back she will talk to you more, walk near you, sit next to you, make eye contact, twirl her hair, or give you compliments. She may also be secretive about who she likes.
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Avoid her for some time. See if she eventually talks to you but you are making one of the biggest mistakes you can. You should talk to her more and that way she might be the one to say, "I like you" first.

Expert Q&A

Question

How do you know if a girl likes you without telling you?

LeTisha Underwood
Certified Professional Matchmaker
LeTisha Underwood is a Certified Professional Matchmaker and the CEO of Two Hearts Exclusive Matchmaking Services. With more than five years of experience, she specializes in helping marriage-minded people find their life partners. LeTisha holds a Matchmaker Certification from The Global Love Institute.

LeTisha Underwood

Certified Professional Matchmaker

Expert Answer

There’s no true way of knowing someone is interested in you unless you ask! However, there are some clues that you can look out for, such as: she’s always asking you about your plans, she’s very flirtatious in nature and she wants to get physically close to you.

Warnings

Be prepared. The girl may not feel the same way about you.

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Always notice her way of being. If she stares at you, and you quickly look back at her in the eye from a distance, keep that stare. She'll either quickly turn away, because the girl is shy, or she will keep the stare and smile slightly back at you.

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If you're already friends with one of her friend's, there is a chance that the friend has picked up on you liking her, and has already told her.

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She tries to touch you mostly when you are alone so act naturally and give her time to know more about you

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Be careful when making friends with her friends. She may think that you like them more than her and back off.

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