How to Write a Letter to Grandma

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Last Updated: February 3, 2023 References

Do you want to make your grandma really happy? One of the easiest ways to do this is to write her a nice letter to thank her for a gift, tell her what's happening in your life, or just let her know you're thinking of her.

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Letter to Grandma Template

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Method 1

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Writing a letter to grandma

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Start off with an opener: 'Dear beloved Grandmother,....' etc.^{[1]
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Indent the paragraph, then write a beginning for the letter:^{[2]
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Fill the body of the letter with the facts, opinions, and special moments of her.^{[3]
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Write your closing paragraphs. Write something like in conclusion, or lastly. This hints her that your letter is coming to a close. Bring back the reason why you wrote the letter. If you wrote her the letter because you wanted to thank her for something, your closing should look something like this: I thank you for the (object) because it is one of the best things I have ever received. You are the kindest woman in my life. See you soon! Love, (name).^{[5]
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Method 2

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Writing a visit soon letter to grandma

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Start with dear beloved granny/grandmother. Share her your memories of when she visited last time and say you miss her and that you're looking forward to seeing her again soon.
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Write about your favorite dishes that she prepares if you like food. Or, perhaps there is some other thing she does that you'd like to praise.
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Take care with your writing. There are some things to bear in mind when writing the letter, such as:^{[6]
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- Don't be too sentimental while writing; this spoils the natural effect of your message.
- Don't give bad expressions about anyone whom she loves.
- Avoid using slang or curse words.
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End on a positive note. Include a promise from you to do something unexpected for her (something she likes).

Community Q&A

Question

How do I ask my grandma in a letter to come stay with me?

Community Answer

Don't start with that. Start with expressing what she means to you, why you appreciate her, an how she has influenced her. Then, clearly state that you wish she would come stay with you, and tell her why.
Question

Should I include anything else in the letter?

Community Answer

Include a recent picture? Most grandmas love to see one. You could also put a dried flower in the letter if it's a kind she likes.
Question

How should I introduce the problems that I'm having?

Community Answer

You should start by telling her that you really trust her and feel comfortable sharing deep things with her. Then, launch into what you want to share.

Warnings

Don't bring up the death of a loved one. She might start to cry.

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Don't bring up problems in the family. It will bring the "special level" of the letter down.

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