This article was co-authored by Laura Bilotta. Laura Bilotta is a Dating Coach, Matchmaker, and the Founder of Single in the City, her dating and relationship coaching service based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. With over 18 years of experience, she focuses on helping singles date more intentionally, encouraging them to let go of negative patterns so that they can attract the love that they deserve. Her experience, skills, and insights have led to thousands of successfully united over 65,000 singles through events and one-on-one matchmaking coaching sessions. She has been the host of The Dating and Relationship Show on Global News Radio 640 Toronto (AM640) for 6 years and is known as The Hookup Queen of Clubhouse; her popular singles club, Single in the City, has over 95.5K members who regularly join in weekly dating and relationship-focused rooms.
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You've got the girl. Now it's time to make the most of your time together. However, not every weekend can be a date night. How do you just hang out?
Steps
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1Think of some ideas for hanging out: Movie night, game night, costume party, play in a park, sports, crafts, etc.
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2Realize that it doesn't have to be just you and her every time. You both have friends. Why not enjoy their company as well? Plus, having other people around brings more variety to the table. The things that go on when you have more friends around will give you and your significant other more to talk and laugh about.Advertisement
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3Don't be afraid to try new things. The most fun happens when you're willing to get out of your comfort zone. It'll be fun and you may get to show your girl how brave you are!
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4Don't do the same thing every time you're together. That gets dull fast. Make it fun.
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5Rely on spontaneity sometimes, but not always. Making plans can be wonderful. Then you know what will be going on and such. However, randomly having a perfect idea for something doesn't happen every day. But when those ideas come along, it isn't bad to try them out. Don't be scared to toss out your plans to try out a brilliant idea that one of you has. On the other hand, be careful not to rely too much on your marvelous ideas.
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6Enjoy each other's company. That's why you're dating, isn't it?
Warnings
- Make sure your significant other is comfortable with an activity. Don't force them into it!⧼thumbs_response⧽
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