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After the wedding is over and things have settled down, you might be wondering what to do with your wedding dress. With so many memories attached to this major milestone article of clothing, choosing how best to save it or get rid of it can be confusing. In this article, we’ll provide you with 13 examples of what to do with your wedding dress ranging from reinventing it, repurposing it, or letting it go, so no matter what, we’ve got you covered!
Steps
Preserve it
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Keep your wedding dress perfect forever by preserving it. The most popular solution to figuring out what to do with your wedding dress is to preserve it. If you have dreams of cherishing your dress for many years to come, or saving your dress for a family member to wear, preserving your dress might be your best option.[1] X Research source
- Preservation is a unique cleaning and packaging process you can pay for that ensures your wedding dress will retain its color, fabric quality, and embellishments. A dress that hasn’t been preserved runs the risk of deteriorating over time.
- Cleaning and preserving your dress are two different processes. While cleaning your dress is essential to the preservation process (removing stains before they turn brown over time, etc.), only having your dress cleaned will not protect it from deteriorating in the years to come.
- You may want to preserve your newly cleaned wedding dress in an acid-free heirloom box that your local dry cleaner can do for you.
Display it
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Show off your wedding dress by displaying it in your home. If you can’t get enough of your wedding dress and looking at it brings you joy, displaying it in your home could be a beautiful reminder of your special day. There are countless display options, but the two most popular by far are framing your dress or displaying your dress in a shadowbox.[2] X Research source
- Shadow boxing is the process of cleaning and preserving your dress in a glass-covered memory box, much like a frame. Consider framing or shadowboxing your entire dress or the element of your dress you like most such as the bodice, to hang in your home.
- Framing or preserving your dress in a shadowbox can be pricy. Some retailers offer DIY shadowboxing kits which might better suit your budget.
Alter it
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Alter the length of your dress to make it more wearable. Just because your wedding day is over doesn't mean you have to stop wearing your dress. Altering your wedding dress into a cocktail or party dress means getting to wear your dress whenever the occasion arises![3] X Research source
- For most wedding dresses, the train is the first thing to go. Simply cutting off the train and hemming the area will radically change your dress from wedding to special event. Consider working with a seamstress if you’re scared to alter your dress yourself.
- Cut and hem your dress to tea-length, knee-length, or a length you are most comfortable with. By shortening the length of your dress, you’re no longer limited by the formality the dress might have suggested at its longest length.
Wear it as-is
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Break out your dress to wear on special occasions. If you like your dress just the way it is and don’t want to have it professionally preserved and packaged, no one’s stopping you from wearing it whenever you want. Many people enjoy trying on their wedding dress for fun or wearing it on their anniversary or Valentine's day to celebrate their love.
- While you can wear your dress whenever you’d like, keep in mind that wearing white to a wedding is considered a major slight to the wedding couple.[4] X Research source
Have a themed party with it
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Call your friends and have a wedding dress-themed party! A fun way to further enjoy your dress is to call up your friends and have a wedding dress-themed party. This is a great way to get your dress back in action and, for some, the final hurrah before donating, selling, or trashing their wedding dress.[5] X Research source
- If you don’t have many married friends, not to worry! Let your friends know they can purchase a wedding dress second-hand from places like thrift shops to get in on the fun.
- Costume parties are a blast, and having a wedding-dress-themed party could be a great opportunity to further the happy memories in your dress or turn bad ones into good ones!
Dye it
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Spice up your dress by changing its color! If the only thing stopping you from wearing your wedding dress is the color, don’t be afraid to dye it. Many people opt to die their wedding dress after the big day, so it’s more wearable for special events and parties.
- Dying clothes at home is a fun DIY project to take on. With hundreds of dye colors to choose from online and in-store, you’re sure to find the perfect color for your special dress.
- Keep in mind clothes don’t always turn out perfect when dyed at home. Make sure your dyed dress turns out great by pre-washing and letting your garment sit in the dye solution for at least 30-60 minutes to ensure a rich and vibrant color pay-off.[6] X Research source
Make jewelry with it
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Change your dress into statement jewelry. Cutting out specific parts of your wedding dress, such as lace or embellishments, is a gorgeous way to wear your dress daily. Consider using the following elements from your dress to make:[7] X Research source
- A necklace from the lace of your dress. Some people take lace from other loved ones' wedding dresses and combine them to make a multi-generational piece.
- A bracelet featuring embroidery embellishments from your dress, like pearls.
Make hair accessories with it
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Turn your dress into beautiful hair pieces. Much like transforming your wedding dress into wearable jewelry, turning bits of your wedding dress into hair pieces are a great way to wear your favorite elements of your wedding dress. You can cut and glue elements of your dress like lace, embroidery, and beading onto:[8] X Research source
- Hair clips
- Barrets
- Combs
- Brushes
Transform it for children
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Use the fabric from your dress to make one for a child. A great way to reinvent your wedding dress is to use its fabric to make one for a child. Consult with a seamstress or find a dress pattern to make a gorgeous dress or article of clothing for the little one in your life.
- Ideas for clothing to make for your child include a baptism dress, christening dress, flower girl’s dress, holiday dress, or birthday dress.
Make keepsakes with it
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Convert your dress into keepsakes you’ll cherish. A fun way to keep the memories of your wedding day circulating is to transform your dress into a variety of different objects. Popular keepsakes to change your dress into include:[9] X Research source
- Teddy bears made from your dress’s fabric
- Holiday ornaments for your tree
- A pillow covered with your wedding dress fabric
- A lace table runner
Donate It
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Give your dress to a good cause! If you’re ready to let go of your dress and want to give it a second life, consider donating your dress to charity. Remember to ask for a donation slip so you can add your wedding dress to your list of charitable donations come tax time.[10] X Research source If you’re looking to get rid of it quickly, simply drop off your dress at a local thrift shop, but if you have more time on your hands, check out some of these popular dress donation programs:[11] X Research source
Sell it
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If it’s time to let go, why not make some extra cash? Wedding dresses aren’t cheap, so if you’re ready to get your dress out of your life, make some money back by selling it. Most online clothing consignment platforms allow the selling of wedding dresses, so you have room to shop around and find what sites suit your needs as a seller best. Additionally, several sites specifically buy and sell second-hand wedding dresses, like:[12] X Research source
Trash it
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Get rid of it. If your wedding dress doesn’t bring you joy, don’t feel bad about throwing it away. For many, a wedding dress represents one of the happiest days of their life, but this isn’t the case for everyone.[13] X Research source Getting married is often a complex and emotion-filled process. It’s ok to not be attached to your wedding dress and want to get rid of it.
- Throwing your wedding dress in the trash can be a cathartic, emotional release.
- Your wedding dress doesn’t have to be more important than any other item of clothing in your closet. Don’t let anyone tell you how you should feel, your emotions are valid.
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References
- ↑ https://www.theknot.com/content/preserving-your-wedding-dress
- ↑ https://www.brides.com/wedding-dress-shadow-box-5180658
- ↑ https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/beauty/fashion/g3868/wedding-dress-transformations/
- ↑ https://www.insider.com/do-not-wear-white-to-another-persons-wedding-2019-8
- ↑ https://www.scarymommy.com/wedding-dress-party
- ↑ https://www.ritdye.com/faqs/dyeing-specifics/
- ↑ https://upcyclemystuff.com/how-to-upcycle-your-wedding-dress-after-the-wedding/
- ↑ https://upcyclemystuff.com/how-to-upcycle-your-wedding-dress-after-the-wedding/
- ↑ https://enviromom.com/what-to-do-old-wedding-dresses/