How to Flirt in Church

Last Updated: January 3, 2022

Meeting a crush in school and flirting with them is easy. When you have a crush that you see at church, it is not always as easy to figure out how to go about flirting without rubbing anyone the wrong way. Whether you’re sitting quietly in the pews or listening attentively to the sermon, there are plenty of tips and tricks to connect with your crush. If you want to know how to flirt in church, we’ll walk you through everything you need to know!

Steps

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Ensure that you both have some level of interest in each other. That will make it easier on you, and the flirt partner. You will not be as pressured and nervous.
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Decide where to sit. Right before service, sit with your bible. Once they are sitting they will not be able to change pews.

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Whisper or grab a pencil and paper before service and pass notes. This usually works, but keep them in view!
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Make contact with them after the service, you are both walking out of the pew. smile and wave goodbye.
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Speak softly and tell them you will see them next week.
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Try this for a few weeks, until you get the courage to tell them you would like to meet them outside of church. Hand them a piece of paper with your phone number. If they take it and call, then you know you have connected. If they just walk away without accepting the paper, try to find someone new to flirt with next time.
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Line up next to him at your church's tea line after mass. Have a friendly conversation about his week, what they did over the weekend, etc.
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Find out about him and talk to him about them after the service about stuff they like.
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Learn everything you can about them and talk to them about it after the service about the things they enjoy.
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Ask a few questions about his spiritual journey and whether or not he aspires to be a pastor, musician, or preacher.
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Remember that most kids and teens who go to church regularly want a healthy, clean relationship centered on Jesus/God, so don't come across as all over dating and romance.

Warnings

When sitting at the pew that your crush is sitting at, remember to whisper. This is a church and not a playground, and people are there to meditate, worship, and listen to the sermon.

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If you are just going to church to flirt with, that's wrong. Church is there for you to worship, it is not a dating service, or at least not a good one.

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