How to Help a Shy Friend Overcome Shyness

Let your friend know you're there and that you're going to help them. Letting them know what you're trying to do might save you some embarrassment, as your friend now understands that whatever you do then on, you're only trying to help.

Talk to your friend often. Always give your friend a mental psych-up. Reassure them constantly that they're 'okay'. Most cases of shyness stems from less appreciation of a subject's personality. Lovingly offer advice on the few things you feel need to be changed, while convincing your friend that they're 'wonderful', 'fun-to-be-with', and very 'attractive'. It would go a long way to boosting such a person's confidence.

When they talk, listen to them and reply with a calm and attached voice if prompted. Create an image of someone they can talk to at any time and about anything without a sense of shame being felt.

Avoid saying nasty things about your shy friend's personality. Remember that shyness isn't a trait we choose. Simply because you're one bubbly, full-of-life individual does not follow that your friend should 'naturally' toe the same line. Do not tease him/her or call them names like 'snail', or 'hermit', or the likes.

Go out with them often. Plan functions where you two can go together and slowly ease them into society. Always be by your friend's side, to boost his/her morale, especially if you're a well-known or popular person (even if this would bring all the major attention your way). Bring him/her into conversations slowly and introduce them nicely to new people. Start with small occasions within your friend's comfort zone (like your classroom projects, street carnivals, church gatherings, etc.), and work to broaden that perspective.

Start a social media profile for your friend (if permitted), as this would introduce them to a wider range of socialization and make the work of helping them beat their shyness easier for you.