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Do you curse from time to time? Perhaps you lost your temper or accidentally let a cuss word slip out. Will God overlook it, or does He expect you to mind your words at every moment? To address that concern, we'll talk about what qualifies as a curse word and when—if ever—you can use one. We will also look to lines of Scripture as our guide for how righteous followers should conduct themselves. Read on to learn the standards that every faithful Christian should abide by.
Things You Should Know
- A curse word is also known as a "cuss word" or "swear word." Curse words include vulgar ways to describe body parts or intimacy.
- Anytime you use an expletive or yell out due to anger, frustration, or impatience, you are cursing.
- Scripture condemns impure, offensive, or obscene speech. The Lord looks down on any words that don't represent strong God-centered values.
- Communicate with kindness, courtesy, and respect to make sure you represent Christianity well and honor your Creator.
Steps
How can I break a habit of cussing?
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1Focus on virtuous thoughts in order to avoid impulsively cursing. Stay focused on God and meditate on the Word of God—if you see your body as a sacred vessel, intimacy as a beautiful act between two committed partners, and your words as a reflection of your spirituality, you'll speak with integrity and grace.[10]
- Remember: to live a good Christian life, all your actions—including what you decide to say—should be aligned with the Lord's commands.
- Rather than lusting over others or focusing on body parts in an obscene way, ask Jesus Christ for forgiveness and concentrate on your spiritual path.
- If you slip into cursing whenever you are frustrated, repent and focus on controlling your anger. Call out to God and ask for His support so you can find inner peace.[11]
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2Avoid harmful media that encourages curse words. If the content you're exposed to—like movies, video games, books, or songs—uses cuss words, then it's most likely impure and focuses on graphic, sexual, or violent themes. To make sure you don't mimic any offensive language, steer clear of these improper sources.[12]
- To immerse yourself in positive examples of how to express yourself, read the Bible, go to church, and spend more time in your Christian communities, where you can be inspired by devout followers.
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3Be mindful and calm so you think carefully about what you say. In order to avoid any accidents and slip-ups, develop a sense of inner peace and work on being less reactive to situations. Whether you're very excited or annoyed, take a deep breath and consider whether your comment is representative of a gentle and thoughtful follower of Christ.[13]
- Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with gentleness and patience. (Colossians 3:12)
- Open your mouth with wisdom, and my teachings will come out. (Proverbs 31:26)
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4Speak respectfully and politely to represent God's teachings. Each day is an opportunity to walk in His light and be a representative for His values. Whenever you speak, make sure to be kind. Be a model of courtesy, maturity, and purity so that others can follow your lead—your heavenly Shepherd will be proud of your faithfulness to Him.[14]
- The tongue of the righteous is choice silver. (Proverbs 10:20)
- Whoever guards his mouth preserves his life. (Proverbs 13:3)
- Take care to speak evil of no one, to avoid quarreling, to be gentle, and to show perfect courtesy toward all people. (Titus 3:2)
References
- ↑ https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/problem-4-letter-words/
- ↑ https://www.catholic.com/magazine/online-edition/am-i-really-not-allowed-to-cuss-or-swear
- ↑ http://home.snu.edu/~hculbert/cussing.htm
- ↑ https://www.gotquestions.org/Gods-name-curse-word.html
- ↑ https://pursuingthetruth.org/is-using-profanity-or-cussing-a-sin/
- ↑ https://bibleresources.org/profanity/
- ↑ https://www.gotquestions.org/Christians-go-doctors.html
- ↑ https://bibleresources.org/profanity/
- ↑ https://wellspringdfw.org/talking-to-your-kids-about-sex/
- ↑ https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/new-era/2013/03/protecting-yourself-from-profanity?lang=eng/
- ↑ https://www.whatchristianswanttoknow.com/christian-swearing-and-swear-words-a-lesson-on-guarding-your-tongue/
- ↑ https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/new-era/2013/03/protecting-yourself-from-profanity?lang=eng
- ↑ https://christiandevotional.com.ng/as-a-christian-you-should-be-careful-the-way-you-talk-be-mindful-how-you-speak-and-what-you-say/
- ↑ https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/erik-raymond/christian-need-to-stop-cussing/